What does a guy mean if he says, "You're PRETTY good at sucking dick?

I have gotten this compliment more than once and it makes me think maybe I'm not very good. I expect a guy to say, "wow that's the best one I've ever had" or something and they say pretty good. ☺️ Are they just downplaying how good it really is or am I really just mediocre?
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It seems what I can learn from this is that I'm not bad otherwise the guys wouldn't say anything. That's positive! Lol
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  • Well, first off, a lot of guys won't say "best I've ever had" because some girls get upset when you even suggest that you have been with others. They know you have, but don't want to feel like they are being rated against them. Other than that, you are probably average or above average. The compliment would be stronger if you were amazing, but he wouldn't bother to say anything (or would bumble even more) if you were bad.

    The real tell is probably if he said it in response to a question. If you asked him how you did and that is what he said, you are probably not very good and he is trying not to hurt your feelings. If he just said it, without you prompting him, then it means that he genuinely enjoyed it to the point where he wants to let you know how good you are doing.

    • Well I mean like three guys have said the exact same thing and I NEVER prompt so...

    • I think you are fine then. If a guy didn't enjoy it he would avoid bringing up your performance. So I would say you were at least average, probably better. If you are really concerned about it, next time ask for instructions. Obviously not step by step, but try different things and see if he likes them. If you can't tell, then ask if he likes it. Remember, each guy is different, but you should be able to see pretty fast just what he loves.

  • Well I think it is kind of a mean thing to say to a girl who has just sucked you off. I mean you took his dick in your mouth, sucked him, jacked him, played with his balls and the let him ejaculate in your mouth and ate his sperm, am I right? Well that's pretty awesome for any girl to do and when it happens to me, whether it was the best or not, I always tell her it was the best, because that is polite. And anyway, ANY blowjob that ends with the girl making me orgasm in her mouth and the she consumes my cum is a GREAT blowjob. You should find a guy who appreciates your BJs and really compliments you on them. When I get a really great BJ I always make sure to kiss her when she is done to make her know how much I appreciate her eating my sperm.

Most Helpful Girl

  • It's a compliment. You're overthinking their words.

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  • Maybe you're just decent / good, but not amazing.

  • You're probably just mediocre.

  • They could be; it's more of a power thing. If you are truly the best, then you might get an advantage in the relationship. This could be a backhanded compliment to make you want to give him more blow jobs so you can prove him wrong.

    • Good point. And it totally works! I want to keep getting better!

  • i think you know how to suck a cock pretty good
    And damn am i jealous :P

    • Jealous that I know how?

    • jealous that I dont have a sweet gal to service me at the moment! And well, it's been hard to find one of the girls I been with! lol

    • I hear a lot that guys can't get girls to go down on them.

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  • Probably downplaying it... they're just being cocky

  • downplaying probably

  • What would motivate a man to say you're the best he ever had?

    • To make me want to do it again? I dunno?

    • The women who are the best do it for no other reason that they love it and have to have it, they need no encouragement. I'm sure you are satisfactory. Better than satisfactory, pretty good.

    • Lol 😂

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  • Means your are pretty good at sucking dick, not great and not bad... Just pretty good.

  • it means you are good at it

  • It means he's an inexperienced goofball who can't think of a more classy thing to say than "you're pretty good at sucking dick." He most likely sucks in bed, too. :)

  • Is there such a thing as NOT being pretty good at sucking dick?

  • Because your probably a good dick sucker girls do it different than other girl

  • It means you really are, we don't say much if you are not good at it