You have to explore your body. In my own experiences, fingering doesn't do too much for me unless it's paired with rubbing my clit. Even then there needs to be a lot more action with my clit to get me anywhere. Fingering really doesn't feel that fantastic to me on the inside. More so it's the skin that hugs the finger that feels the best when it's getting stimulated. If you can fit in anything then your hymen is broken honey. There's a chance there could be some left but I know for me, I can only fit one finger and I've had sex before so it might just be your body.
It could be because you're not sure exactly what you're suppose to do, fingering alone when you're not aroused won't feel good, maybe try focus on your clit because usually an orgasm will come from your clit and or penetration too.
Masturbation and sex are different acts, physically and mentally different.
For masturbation purposes you do not need to insert anything, your clitoris should be all you need to stimulate.
what about using vibrators before fingering... just think something sexful in your imaginations use vibrators... play with your body... then do fingering
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