That's a great idea. Enthusiasm and don't rush be the woman in charge of his orgasm. Desire his cum think of it as something you receive as very precious. You are the giver of extreme pleasure. This kind set will hold you in great stead for giving him mind blow head.
Have him sit in a comfy chair and put a pillow between his open feet and you kneel on it. Be bare breasted as it will give him more to look at and your going to use them. Kneel before like he is your king & your going to pay him homAge.
At this stage hold back don't rush watch your power on him & his cock. Think it into being erect. Look around it want it lust after it. Then look into his eyes. He knows what your going to do & his desire to have it will be massive. Be in control his seductress. Rub his thighs slowly watch ing his arousal increase. His erection come up all through anticipation that you are creating. Lean forward and just blow over the head. Then slide your hands up his chest let your breast rub over his cock and balls. Press them into his groin all done looking into his eyes. Then kiss him longingly. Use your tongue to demonstrate what it's going to do to his cock shortly.
Stay calm stay in control you are his queen and seductress. Work down his neck with wet kisses and flicks of your tongue.
Nibble an ear lobe. Click it with a pointed tongue tip. Whisper in to it. "Ready my big boy" . work down his chest pay some attention to his nipples. As you start down his body make sure your kisses are getting wetter leave saliva on his body so you can blow it or breath heavily over them the evaporation feels amazing it also is arousing because he's will associate wet with sex.
As you get to his cock ignore it kneel back and admire your handy work he should be rock hard in anticipation.
Look at his cock the him lick your lips just like your about to eat your favourite food..
Now grab the base of his penis just above the sack and pull down so the skin on the shaft is tight and the head and rim are very tight and predominant. Ready for you to stimulate. Move inclose so you can look over the tip right into his eyes and hold the stair. He should be wiggling and squirming desperate for you to start.
Play and stroke his balls for a bit then again pull down on the skin again make his shaft an head tight paying attention to the very front, where the skin meets the rim just in front of the hole. This is called the frenulum and is the most sensitive part of the penis. It's nearly as sensitive..
I support this strategy. Skilled oral (both ways) with the occasional session of rock and rolling 69 can definitely carry you through to the alter. For you as the giver, a good BJ/Oral has two parts, arousal and finish.
The arousal part can contain any number of teases and displays for physical and visual stimulation to reach the fullest arousal and full engorgement of the "semen pipeline" Engorgement, which takes time, is important because the pressure built up in the seminal vesicles, ejaculatory ducts and prostate signal the brain we are ready to come.. Most important tease is bobbing and sucking, This need only involve the "head", passing over the collar (called the corona) of the penis and a short way down the shaft. Mouth play doesn't do much for the shaft, which needs more friction and pressure than a mouth provides and needs that for the finish. Deep throating also stimulates the head, but your mouth can do this better and without discomfort.
The finish part is different. You can tell he is ready by his erratic breathing, bucking and flow of precum, oily and a little salty to the taste. begin "nursing" at the head like a baby on the nipple, alternating bobbing and sucking in very short strokes right at the collar passing it in and out of your lips. At the same time, stroke the shaft from the body line to your lips in very fast strokes with a light grip. When ejaculation starts, stop all motion, maintaining vaccuum only, for the first maybe 3 or 4 squirts which will be "rapidfire". Then resume stroking quickly to coax them all out. Don't resume mouth motion, as the head will be super-sensitive and you have done your job there. When ejaculation stops, keep him in your mouth under light vaccuum while he shrinks and drains. When he unplugs, suck strongly on his way out. I call that "good to the last drop". A minority of guys like the addition of anal fingering to this and if you are getting tired because he is taking too long, this can speed things up.
When it comes to giving a blowjob 'correctly' and him finding it super hot, enthusiasm trumps all. Whatever you're doing, looking like you're enjoying yourself will make it feel a million times better. So just look like you're really into it, ideally actually be into it, and you're halfway there! The mental aspect of knowing the girl has your dick in her mouth and is not only genuinely enjoying herself, but wants to do what she can to let you enjoy it, will make ANY guy feel like a king way more than any porn-star quality techniques.
Focus mostly on the head. The shaft itself doesn't have that many nerves on it so though paying attention to the area as a whole feels good plus builds anticipation, make sure to flick/lick around the head when you're coming up. It's a good way to maximize surface area being touched to just put the outer fourth in your mouth, swirl your tongue around it and the head, while paying attention to the shaft/balls with your hands. Two birds with one stone!
Most guys like some ball play. Start gently, with just barely making contact with your hands to feel out this particular guy's sensitivity to pain down there. Once you've got that taken care of, it feels good to suck on one ball at a time, though again not too hard as it's quite a delicate area. Most say to minimize hand use during a blowjob, as they can give themselves a handjob the best. But as long as you make sure to incorporate some mouth action, I'm sure you'll hear no complaints.
My guy loves it when I get the whole shaft nicely lubricated with some spit at first before paying attention to just the head & last 1/3 of the dick. Don't forget to include lots of tongue action here, like swirling, etc.. While you're doing that, right under your mouth, work the shaft with your hand. Moving up and down in tandem, or doing twisting motions works well. Another variation on that is to work the last 1/3 with you hand, doing a twisting/stroking motion with extra stimulation on the head with your palm when you move your hand outwards and at the same time, pay attention to his balls with your mouth.
(Feel free to check out either of my mytakes on this very topic:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a24149-how-to-give-amazing-head
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10417-giving-head-for-the-first-time )
Way to make it more complicated than it has to be. Just put your mouth around his cock and don't use teeth. It's as simple as that. It also helps if you kinda gag and look like you're choking on it.
@thekawaiikiwi what's complicated about that? I remember from when I had no clue on what to do or even a vague idea but didn't really know how to make it enjoyable, advice that went something like '... pay attention to the head' left me equally as clueless as I had been before.
My husband swears by two words "the frenulum"
(google Frenulum_of_prepuce_of_penis )
If your guy is not circumsized, focus on that -- tease it, circle it, suck it, focus on it , and you're golden.
If he is circumsized, the head is still really sensitive -- do the same licking and sucking and circling of where the head meets the shaft.
(Also, if your intended is male, it's "fiance" with one e. Assuming you're female, you are his fiancee.)
I also find guys really like deep throating -- I have a relatively small mouth and jaw, so it can be tricky but definitely worth it. The guys seem to really like sloppy, wet blow jobs too! Lots of saliva, gagging and drooling on it seems to turn us both on.
Keep the lines of communication open so he can guide you. I think that will be the best gift you can give him.
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I never get the logic women use...
but waiting is ridiculous so whatever.
as long as you don't use teeth he will love it.
no guy is going to have a problem with any woman willing to stick his penis in her mouth...
In a word - worship
On my unsuspecting, concealed penis
You expose him & force yourself on his limp body, sucking him slowly to hard erection
Then begin in earnest a mouth/hand massage he never had before, sucking to zero gravity
while massing, squeezing, even sucking the balls, urging them to pump
still sucking the rod & tip to guide the sperm out in a blast
but you prolong the ending as long as possible
as if spurring a horse while reining him in
your naked breasts are doing the shimmy on my thighs, almost slapping them
then during blast off
you suck it down, all of it
squeezing balls to fully empty them
never allowing rod to escape your warm mouth and licking tongue
while it drains fully out and even as it begins to become limp
once fully limp & sensitive, you allow it to slowly slide out
hold it gently and lick/kiss its head
still licking & kissing it all over as you put it to bed once again
smile with a loving face at it, then me
it is okay to do the stroke thing, but suck hard and slow with no hands to get a really nice full effect, once he is close use your hand to help him.
I don't see what the point is of waiting to have sex if you're having oral sex.
If it's for religious reasons then I think it is still sinning so that can't be it.
No hands. use your mouth only and be steady. My best blow job was from a guy !!
How the hell should I know? I'm not gay.
Kneel lick spit insert suck back forth back forth swallow
straight dudes wouldn't know. It's like asking a nun how to make the love.
could only give aimless advice.
but, suck as harder WE can't FEEL YOU -- no you're not going to hurt us.
Take your time. Breathe. Had one girl practically suffocating. I was like tf woman open your lungs.
and use your hands too.
Keep it simple.
1. Remember that 95% of nerve endings are in the head of the penis and the tiny line under it.
2. Don't even try to take too much into your mouth. Hold your hand around the low 1/2 to 2/3 of the penis and use your mouth for the head.
3. Start by kissing the head and licking from base to the tip. Some long slow licks are delightful to feel.
4. Rub it lovingly on your cheek.
5. Slowly take the head into your mouth.
6. Use your tongue to lick the underneath, where there are lots of nerve endings.
7. If you want to simulate intercourse thrusting, let the cock head only slide in and out of your mouth while your hand strokes the shaft. The feeling of the cock head popping in and out of a mouth, especially if your lips are wet and most closed, is fantastic.
8. You might try gently stroking his balls or just behind them.
9. Repeat 6-8
10. You need to decide before whether he's going to cum in your mouth or not and if he is whether you want to swallow. If not, have some tissues handy.
Have fun!
Relax get on your knees and go down as far as you can then relax and let him push your head down
Make sure NOT to forget to lick his balls too.
Watch the teeth start out slow and keep up a steady up and down motion you don't have to go too deep the head is where all the nerve's are. A steady pace is what you want to get him to cum. You can also take him to the edge a few times. If you want to work a hand up and down the shaft that's good too. The other hand can work the balls just use the finger tips on that part light tickle. Another thing I like to do with my girlfriend is she puts my entire cock in her mouth when it is soft and just sucks but nothing else it grows in her mouth. Also don't stop too soon when he is cumming keep going until he tells you to stop or pulls away.
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