Have you ever told a girl her vagina is loose/how to know if you're loose?

[Anonymous]

Ok so first I'll say I've never had a guy tell me I'm loose, but I was having a convo with my friend and she made a good point. If me or her were loose our bfs prob wouldn't tell us. I haven't had a lot of sex partners, but I've had a lot of sex. My ex was the largest penis wise that I'd been with and he used to always tell me I was tight, now with this boyfriend he's never said anything. He's not said I'm loose, but never told me I'm tight. He is smaller than my ex, but not like unsatisfactory small. I used to tell my ex all the time that i loved his big cock, wanted his huge cock in me etc. I have never once said that to my boyfriend, I guess because I can't lie and he really is not that big. So maybe on the flip side he doesn't say it to me because it's not true for him either. I don't mind having a regular vagina, not exactly the tightest but I don't want a loose vag. How would I know if I feel loose to my bf? I feel like if I asked him he'd lie, because what guy wants to tell their girlfriend they have a big vagina. He does bust pretty fast when we have sex, and more often than not I don't get off BUT, like I said he doesn't ever tell me how my vagina feels to him, never once said I'm tight. Maybe my ex's big dick made me more open down there. Ugh, I hope my days of having a tight vagina are not behind me, I'm not even 30 yet. So in a nut shell have you guys ever told a girlfriend you thought she was loose or do you say nothing to spare her feelings? If she was looser or just regular vagina have you lied and told her she was tight? What if she straight up asked you and you did think she was loose, what would you say back?

[loofah]

Girl, as another woman and aspiring ob/gyn in medical school can I just tell you to take a deep breath and stop thinking too much? Lol. Looseness is a myth at our age! Probably linked to all the bullshit shaming that has historically come with women having sex outside of marriage. It is only usually relevant for multiparous women (women who have given vaginal birth multiple times) whose pelvic floor muscles may have weakened. There may be a genetic component but it's nothing significant to note. Anxiety does cause a woman's muscles to tighten up, and confidence allows them to relax and accommodate a penis or whatever you want. Let me be more clear... a big dick will NOT affect vaginal tightness. Don't worry about it! If you're concerned, just do kegels when you're sitting. Kinda feels nice :p

[Cmasterson]

There is no "loose", the vagina can feel not as tight as another one, but you're not loose unless you've been fisted and even that after about an hour your vagina goes back to normal and contracts. Women who had babies vaginally, their vagina returns to normal and sometimes even tighter.

[Asker]

I never even thought of having a baby.

[Asker]

That sounds weird. What I meant is never thought about people having babies and the vagina going back. I guess we're meant to take some stretching down there.

[Cmasterson]

haha yes, which is why vaginas are awesome.

[Crazy_Girl1992]

Ask him what he thinks of your vagina. He will tell you honestly. I have always been told I'm super tight like the guy I've been with (only one) has trouble fitting.

[ScarletteFox_Red]

If anyone tells me that, their ass will be so far kicked to the curb that they have to get a taxi just to see the curb!!!

[Asker]

Hahahaha I'm dying 😂😂

[ScarletteFox_Red]

Lol feel free to use that! It's not copyrighted

[NJ_Casanova]

I haven't found one being loose, only too tight. I think a guy would only say that after a breakup to hurt you. The vagina goes back to it's "normal size" after being stretched by (toys/your ex), so that didn't do any permanent enlarging. I only think it "Can" happen after child birth, but I don't even think that is a given. Everyone has a different size.

You can start doing "kegel exercises" if you want to make you feel tighter, for his AND your pleasure.

[ctillis]

I like regular vagina the most. Tight vagina has gotten me off, but it hurts my cock too much. My wife to be has the perfect vagina. It is tight enough to thoroughly feel it, but just loose enough that it does not hurt. The girl that took my virginity was so tight that it hurt.

[Asker]

Impressive lol Thats good. Id be ok with an average vagina.

[LaurenGrace]

If your worried do some kegel trainning to make sure your in olympic shape down there. test you strength 2 fingers in and contract if you feel that your perfect

[orphan]

you're creating a problem where none exist.

i don't go outta my way to tell a girl i just fucked that her pussy is tight. if she asked me if she was loose, i would lie. that and telling a girl her puss stanks.. is just two things yo u never say.

[Mark987]

NEVER AND WHOEVER DOES IS A LOSER

[gapminder]

I haven't told a woman that, but I have encountered a sizable "Gash" or two in my day. And in those cases none of the women had children yet so I was thinking WTF have you been shoving up there, watermelon? ?
Anyway we can definitely tell.

[Asker]

Maybe it's body type, like how guys are born with different size dicks. Maybe some girls are just born with larger vaginas? Hmmmm

[gapminder]

Totally possible too @Asker

[loofah]

Are you talking about a vagina or labia?

[gapminder]

@loofah just vagina, and I completely understand everyone is different and people come in all sizes. My point being I've encountered both ends of the spectrum, and would never say anything if I thought they were "loose" in my opinion. Guys have an outie, so we can tell pretty quickly if there is or isn't much "resistance" is all I'm saying.

[loofah]

Some dudes can't differentiate vagina from vulva so I figured I'd ask. There's the genetic component yeah but there's also the nervousness factor. More nervous a girl is, the tighter it is... and the more it will hurt unless lubrication is enough. You can notice all you want, that's not bad... it's just the shame talk some men get on about that I find unnecessary.

[gapminder]

@loofah oh absolutely I wasn't shaming. Guys can be just as sensitive about "size" too so I can understand.

[coven13]

Honestly I've never been inside a vagina that I thought was loose... vagina always feels snug and tight on my cock so I've never had the need to tell a girl she's loose

[Asker]

If you did encounter a loose one and she asked, would you be honest?

[coven13]

Sure I'm a straight forward guy, but at this rate I don't think it will happen 😊

[Caliguy88]

Lose usually looks kinda open I guess. As I girl, I guess that’s kinda hard to compare. But if you can look inside, it’s probably lose. I don’t mean open like a door, but it’s open a little.

[Milesjoe]

I have came across few loose ones and they were ok as long as she's wet there all good fun so don't worry

[Anonymous]

Do Kegals (?) to work those vagina muscles.

[Anonymous]

I haven't and I wouldn't. I've only had a few partners and I can honestly say I've never encountered a vagina that I thought was lose. I had a girlfriend who squirted so it seemed like she was lose when I was inside her.

[Asker]

Maybe all the wetness made it feel looser.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't tell her, I'd just have an affair and get some tighter pussy that way. This way I don't have to worry about being unsatisfied and I'll just lie to her if she asks.

[Asker]

That's harsh

[Opinion Owner]

I don't see how, I mean I get my penis catered for by a tighter pussy, she doesn't get her feelings hurt, she wins and I win. I don't see how that's not fair?

[Asker]

Now I know you're trolling.

[Opinion Owner]

Not at all babe! I'll cheat on any woman, I've been dumped twice for being caught cheating.

[Asker]

Why not just stay single then?

[Opinion Owner]

I love the concept of a relationship, I just want sex from more than one woman.

[Asker]

Be a polygomist?

[Opinion Owner]

No because I want to be in a monogamous relationship and have a side chick that sucks and fucks my average dick.

[Asker]

That's not monogamy. What if you find a girl that also likes a relationship with a fuck on the side? Then no one gets hurt.

[Opinion Owner]

She can do whatever she likes, the chances are I have settled for and she's not that important to me.

[Lioness]

Bitter dick😛

[Opinion Owner]

@Lioness Who is bitter?

[Anonymous]

Just do the test

[Asker]

What's the test?

[Opinion Owner]

How many finger fit it there

[Asker]

Well a penis fits in there and that's bigger.

[Opinion Owner]

Like 3 or 4 finger or a hole fist

[Asker]

😨no fists up in hurrrr