What does it feel like when you're about to get off?

[Anonymous]

I'm definitely not trying to be dirty so please don't take this post the wrong way. I have never gotten off during penetration and I'm starting to believe its nearly impossible. I don't know if its because I'm holding back or if I just haven't had good enough penetration to get me to that point. I feel bad saying that because my boyfriend is fantastic in bed. But I just... can't? Like I said, I don't know if I am holding back or not. So can anyone tell me what signs to look for on whether or not I'm about to I'm about to get off but simply afraid to? I've felt like I was going to pee during penetration before. My boyfriend told me to just go with it because he thinks it could mean that I'm a squirter but I feel uncomfortable letting myself squirt.. Last night we had sex and during it he started rubbing my clit. I got this really "tight" feeling down there. It wasn't from the clitoral stimulation (I know the difference because I can get off during clitoral stimulation almost instantly) and then I kind of got this "ringing" sensation in my legs/chest/face. But then it just stopped. And I don't know if its because I was focusing too hard on the sensation that it just failed to bring me to a climax?

[AustinMan]

This may give you a chance to answer your own question:

Cowgirl tips
Here’s the way I have found, with the help of a very cooperative girlfriend, that a woman can ride her man all the way up the mountain to multiple, increasing powerful orgasms and ultimately, squirting.
• He needs to understand that he can help with this position by grabbing her hips and helping her move. At first, leave to her own devices but as she gets more and more aroused, he should become stronger and more and more forceful in moving her back and forth.
• Put him on his back and mount up with you on your knees.
• Slide him in and settle in so you’re comfortable.
• Rock like you’re riding a horse, slowly at first and faster as you get more aroused.
• When you’re ready for him to help, reach down and put his hands on your hips. For effect, you can beg him in your sexy slut voice to help you.
• When you start to get close to cumming, move like you’re trying your best to break that thing off. Of course, you won’t but the point is to not hold back. Just go crazy.
• When you’re right on the edge, tell him to do you. He thrusts up as powerfully as he can and holds it with you impaled as deeply on his cock as possible, perched on his erection. He also forcefully tilts his hips and slams his shaft into your G-spot.
• As you cum, don’t even slow down. Keep going and you will cum over and over, each time increasingly intense.
• If you have The Big One, as I call it, you may very likely squirt so if there’s a gush, it’s not urine. It’s female ejaculate. Keep going until you’re completely done.
Here are a few ancillary suggestions:
• Pee first so that if you should squirt, you can be confident it’s not pee.
• If you’re into S&M, have him forcefully pinch your nipples as you’re starting to cum.
• He can slap your tits around if you’re into that. One girlfriend of mine liked to be slapped while she was up there with me telling her what a trashy slut she was for being up there in the first place.
• Some ladies like their men to reach around and smack their ass while they ride.

[AustinMan]

Thanks for the MHG!! Did it do the trick, so to speak? ;)

[MadeInAmerica]

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I think you should let him finger you, tell him where the spot is even guide his hand to your spot and when you think your close tell him to move fast (or slow) and then let loose. I think once you get off with him the first time the rest of the time it will just come (no pun intended) more natural.

[vishna]

To me, everything gets fuzzy down there. And I can feel it building up in the minute before. It's normal to get tight before or during an orgasm because your body wants to pull him into an orgasm as well.
Have your boyfriend do foreplay before penetration. Fingering, oral, toys etc
A massage would be even more relaxing.
Wear socks (there was a study done that found women climax more often with socks on)-it does work!
A blind fold can increase feeling because you're only being stimulated by penetration.
And relax. No distractions.
Enjoy the time together, don't focus on climaxing, simply on feeling.

[vishna]

thanks for mhg

[asdfghjklbaby]

I honestly don't know but if you ever find out tell me lol. I have not got off before either.

[DivaMonae]

Kinda like when you've been holding pee in for way too long lol

[godfatherfan]

most women can't orgasm through penetration. That is why I love eating pussy. it gives her at least one orgasm. Then I finish myself off. everyone is happy...

[andsoitis]

If you orgasm, you will definitely know. I would say relax, enjoy it. As long as you are feeling good that is what sex is about. As far as I am concerned sex is as much a part of your mind as it is your body.

Tell him to take his time and explore. Use his mouth and his hands. If he is good, and you say he is, he will find your um.. happy place. Good luck.

[tony72722]

Amazing. I moan like a little bitch.

[YunggRoosterr]

Like a volcano eruption. .. then it's like uh huhh uhhhhhhhhhhaaaaahh sshit...

[Anonymous]

Sorry in prelude to these parallels but they are most common to all:

just before you poop into the toilet
just before you pee, after holding it waaaay too long
just before you burp (or even vomit)
- the commonality is the involuntary reaction, followed by pleasure & relief

Sorry again