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I have a daughter/daddy fetish, is it wrong?

I'm not talking about incest, i'm talking about the fact that I am a young woman (24 going going on 25 in two day) and I am attracted to men old enough to be my dad. preferbably men in their 40's. That seems like a prime age for men. They seem to be at their best in their 40's. Super masculine, mature looking and they know how to please a woman. Here's my issue, I've never actually been with an older man before. In fact, I haven't been sexual with a man in 6 years. I was somewhat of a born again virgin, trying to wait for marraige but i can't wait. I want to role play and pretend I am his daughter with pigtails and he is my daddy. I know it is sick and I hate myself for it but all I crave is older men. I dont like men my own age. :( I know my own father. He was around when I was a child. He never molested me or anything but our relationship did become strained in my teen years.
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  • First of all - it is quite normal for women to be attracted to guys older than them. Though that usually is about 2-5 years of an age-range.

    Your case is more extreme and thus hints there is more behind it. You either are insecure and want a mature, strong, experienced guy taking your hand, leading you, someone you can look up to and/or the issue you mentioned with your dad during your teen-years can definitely have caused some daddy-issues that you want closeness and emotionally intimacy with a way older man, because you are lacking that with your dad and that desire of closeness and intimacy is expressed by sexuality as well.

    • 😔😢 I think you're right. I am insecure. I do want a man to lead me because I feel lost and inadequate. I also am usually a very controlling person. So I want someone to tame me and make me feel like a lady. I don't know... And yes I do crave that closeness I didn't have with my dad in my teen years. Never knew it translated through my preference in men. This is deep. Thank u. Maybe I need therapy.

    • No problem. Don't feel bad about it though. We all have our baggage in life to overcome and move past. Life is about growing as a person and there is no upper limit. And don't be ashamed about your shortcomigns either. No one should be ashamed of those as long as they try to become a better person. No matter how difficult it may be. What is incredibly easy to one person can easily be the most difficult thing to another. But whats important is to keep moving and accept and like yourself WITH and DESPITE all your flaws. And yes. Sexuality is the most honest about us. You don't just have preferences based on nothing, but thin air. Those preferences are an extension of your personality. Anyway. If you want some individual talk, feel free to write me a private message. While I am no expert, I do have a few years of experience in volunteer counselling.

    • Or if your xper level is too low to write private messages - just follow me. I should then know who you are.

  • I don't think so. It's pretty common.

    I think realistically most romantic love involves a higher level of admiration from the woman to the man and a higher level of protectiveness from the man to the woman. So this is just taking that further.

    • Yes. Exactly

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  • Me too, and people think im messed up because of it. But its nice, you feel taken care of and protected

    • thats what i want... to feel taken cared for and protected

    • Yeah, exactly. People who dont accept it simply dont understand

  • It's not wrong, you are not hurting anyone so who cares.

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  • It's fine but please be very careful. There's nothing wrong with it at all. However society still is not very excepting of big age gaps and can be very judgmental of these relationships.

  • i dont see anything wrong, its a fetish and fantasy there are many people who role play it in bed. 2 consenting adults = no issues

  • I think that you should NOT bring up such a fetish with a guy, until you've reached a point in your relationship where being in love is a given, and so is respect for each other, and for the seriousness you hold the relationship in.
    If you try to turn him onto the idea too soon, he may either be creeped out, OR, and maybe worse, he may see the relationship more as a purely sexual thing, where you were just going for an older guy for your personal kink.
    Wait until you think things are good, and when you're talking to each other about fetishes or kinks you've been curious about, and you might have better luck.

    As for "is it wrong?" No. It may be weird to some people, but it is not wrong.

  • On the one hand, yes older men are more stable and I am impressed you know what you like. On the other hand ew, daddy. My advice would be to pick out what the truth is and go for hat. I'm kind of hot that you like this so maybe other "not so old" men like it too.

  • Not even remotely weird. There's tons of Tumblrs dedicated to men and women who enjoy your same fetish. Enjoy.

    • what r the pages?

    • Just go on Tumblr and search for DD/LG and you'll find lots.

  • It's not wrong. In fact I am dating someone my age and I call him daddy. I'm his little girl.

  • first, don't be so harsh on yourself. Incest fantasies are a lot more prevalent than you think. In fact, incest fantasy porn is increasing in volume because as people are finding more other people with similar fantacies, they are feeling more ok about it. What you are feeling is the excitement of the taboo. Not that you'd actually engage in incest.

    And you like men in their 40s because at some level all women want to have a man like a dad. (Not necessarily her dad, by a dad.) after all, dads provide and protect, which is the main reason why women are attracted to muscles.

    My advice, enjoy the fantasy and don't feel guilty about it. You only live once.

  • I don't see what you find a turn on as sick, it's what you're attracted to, there's nothing wrong with the things that you described, it's not like you'd be hurting anyone, so you want an older dominant man, and you want to be treated in certain ways, i personally love the things you described, it sounds like you you need that kind of relationship.

  • It's not weird, it's a fairly common fetish/fantasy

  • A lot of guys think that's hot

  • I think I have the same fetish, despite not being that old, I think I just want to really take care of my SO.

  • I think it's gross but a lot of fetishes are.

  • NO, i think it's hot.

  • There's nothing wrong with you or your fetish. Look for an open minded man and go play. Have fun.

  • Omg we should role play lol jk but I like wen a girl call me Daddy during sex , makes me cum quik tho :/

  • It's nother near the being weird. There are hundreds of thousands of folks just like you and I that love the Daddy/daughter fantasy. There's are tons of websites dedicated to fantasies of all kinds. Find one and let your inner Daddy's girl out to play!!!

  • Hey how you doing I’ve got the same fetish as father daughter role playing I’m absolutely obsessed with the idea but can not find anyone to open myself up or even experience it with someone
    It’s all started when I’ve caught my business partner having sex with his stepdaughter when we all went to holiday together and to keep my mouth shut he said I could have sex with her and she was well up for it so I did and it felt absolutely amazing mind blowing experience so ever since I’ve been trying to find someone in dating sites and seeking arrangement websites but never had a luck apart from few I’ve had to convince and pay fortune to act like they were but wasn’t satisfying so I’m 45 years old straight good looking and very well endowed with very high sex drive gent from north east England and I’m actively looking for someone to experience the same thing as you are dreaming what I’ve got to say to you is if you ever consider it and would like to get to know me first and take things to that stage I’d love to get to know you and hopefully experience this fantasy with someone who is interested like myself so looking forward to hearing from you soon. Richardwatson0891@gmail. com

  • This is not that uncommon. I was with a girl who was 18 and she wind up having a daddy fetish. I didn't notice until later in the night when we were having sex and she started calling me daddy. It actually really turned me on and I played along with it. The sex was great. It's important to remember its just a fantasy/one of your kinks. Don't feel weird about it.

  • Once the viagra kicks in they are like younger men and can go until their backs give out lol

  • It's one of the more fucked up kinks women have. The whole incest fantasy is gross. But to each their own. I personally think it's still daddy issues or mental problems. But again that is just an opinion.

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