Do you think introverts or quiet men are less kinky or aggressive in bed?

You like a guy who is more on the introvert and/or quiet side, and less assertive. Do you have a hard time imagining him being very dominant or aggressive in bed? Is this type of guy more likely to want the woman to take the reigns in bed, in your opinion? And guys who fit the quiet/introvert profile, let me know - are you more aggressive in bed or more laid back?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • My personal experience: Some of the guys i've spoken too have been quite geeky and introverted, BUT, were kinky as fucking shit.. Like.. It made me question if i even knew them, haha, but then other guys i've spoken to literally wouldn't even touch me without me telling them too. I think it's all to do with the person rather than their personality status, ya know? I do think more out going/dominant men are more likely to be aggressive in bed rather than the quiet one's but i feel like it is all just to reflect personality. - I have no idea if i made any sense, i'm really tried but i liked this question... ;-;

  • Ehh, my partner is introverted but still quite assertive, so he only fits half of the picture, but he's definitely dominant and aggressive in bed. Introversion doesn't make any difference to me in my opinion of what they're like in bed.

  • The introverted boys be more likely to have all dat shit pent up. Just waitin' for a release.

    Sweet, sweet release.

    Mmmmmm.

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    It's reins, by the way. REINS! No g, dammit!

    • calm down lol

Most Helpful Guys

  • Some guys will definitely follow that quiet, laid-back stereotype in the bedroom, and others will be just the opposite. It's hard to know what you should expect, but it probably won't be anything in-between.

  • People often have a different sexual nature than the nature they show the world. I'm a helper and a courtly gentleman in real life but in the bedroom, her ass is MINE!!

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  • I'm an introvert. But I'm not quiet and I'm dominant when it comes to the sexual department. I don't like being submissive.

    If anything, I think introverts often can come up with even more kinky and elaborate things to do with their partner.

  • for me my wife had to tell me what she wanted in bed and how she wanted it done. i'm naturally shy and reserved so she had to help me come out of my shell so i felt comfortable dominating her

  • I don't think being an extrovert or introvert has anything to do with what turns people on sexually. Extroverts will be more likely to share with people they're NOT having sex with, is the only difference.

  • They are less confident and less aggressive about literally everything in life

  • I'm more introverted and a goddam savage!!

    "Intellectual in the head,
    Savage in the bed!!!"

  • not sure about men but I know quiet women are freaks in bed

    • I've heard that and I've definitely had quiet girl friends who shared their preferences and lived up to that haha

    • yea cause there always thinking about sex that's why they don't talk lol

  • Introverted. I know I'm kinky. Not a little kinky but, the type of kinky that makes her mother faint.

    Also on the dominate side. Although I'd consider it boring if I was always the one in control. Have to keep things interesting after all.

  • I'm introverted and I prefer dominant women. It's not about being laid back, more that I like the idea of almost worshipping a woman in bed and following her orders.

  • I'm introvert in ways of thinking.. I preferred it when she initiated sex, but not all the time. There's definitely no definitive answer, because depending on my mood and her mood, there were times we both acted roughly and times where it was laid back. I don't think introversion affects sex beyond initiation. Hope this helps!

  • I can say definitively for me, no.

    Most girls generally aren't all that kinky to begin with. I've gone down a rabbit hole.
    As for being dominant in bed, well they still are men, no? Just because it takes them a while to hit on you does not mean they want come out of their shell, especially once they have you.

  • not necessarily but why do you care?