He sounds like he's being a tool, but also that he may think that's how a "real man" acts. Tell him gently that it hurts your feelings and turns you off when he says sexist things and see what he does.
0 0 0 0So many guys are encouraged to act like this, by other men, society, and women no less. In fact lately, there's this whole thing that essentially says if you're not a cocky, heartless asshole, you're not a man. Then you see assholes get rewarded because it's "cool" to be an asshole, and kinder, friendlier guys who wouldn't say and do these things described get written off as boring, prudish, and "un-cool". Talk about mixed signals. Dating is more confusing than ever.
Some chicks are absolute douchebags too, no doubt. We live in a mean spirited culture right now.
He already know that I'm against sexism and for equality, in every kind of way. Sometimes I let it slide but I also tell him to cut it out when I feel like he crosses a line. I'll talk to him tonight about it.. We've been together for 2 years now, if he had said all these things when we were dating I would've dropped his ass. He just goes against everything he's said he believes in regarding this subject.
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I only have one question: why is he not your EX boyfriend? He clearly doesn't respect you.
0 0 0 0Often he says stuff like that in a joking manner so I have let it slide from time to time. It's mostly when he's talking/haging out with his friends that he acts like this and I don't want to make a scene so I just stay quiet and observe when he say stuff like that. I rather talk to him alone about it than take it in front of everyone else, you know? Or should I say something right then and there?
I think you have a private conversation and as part of that warn him that if that shit comes out of his mouth in your hearing, you'll call him out, right there in front of his friends. He doesn't have to minimize or degrade you to be a man in his friends' eyes.
Thanks for the MHG!! What happened?
Some of that shit crossed the line, you're dating a wanker.
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0 3I don't want to offend your dear boyfriend or anything, but maybe- just maybe
he's a twat.0 0 0 0Dan bilzerian is an idiot, he pays the models with mommy and daddy's money to spend time with him. He just surrounds himself with hookers, nothing to admire.
0 1 0 0I wouldn't admire him even if he didn't spend money on them. He sees them as objects to make him more desired and that alone is disgusting to me. My boyfriend said he doesn't care about the girls (haha), he just thinks it's interesting to see that kind of lifestyle and on what kind of things he spends his money on. I don't know.. I honestly don't know what to think anymore.
Ya that would be such a turn off tbh. Bilzerian is an atrocious person tbh.
Talk to him 💁🏻
0 0 0 0Yeah.. I'll do it tonight.
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