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Girls, insights about sitting on a guy's lap. Means you are interested in him? Do you get aroused/horny when sitting on a guy's lap?

Today we gathered around to discuss. Only one chair in the room. Girl sat down and I simply walked over to her and I joked asking if I may sit on her lap. She simply went "go on". I sat. Few minutes later she stood up to go get something. I sat down. I told her to sit on my lap. She did. Truth be told I got aroused and instant erection thinking at all those thoughts and that her pretty bum is what... milimiters away from my penis... Was wondering: 1. is there any kind of interest if you sit on a guy's lap? 2. do you girls get aroused when you sit on a guy's lap? Do you get sexual thoughts? 3. I was thinking to tell her that I got an erection because of her sitting on my lap. Would you get mad if the guy said you sitting on his lap gave him an erection?
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  • I do living history and this in my case means wearing about six or seven extra pounds of wool clothing. We were at an event and there were very few seats. I was extremely fatigued and one of our young gentlemen noticed. He was sitting on a three person bench that already had three people on it. I mentioned I needed to sit down because I was feeling dizzy and I guess he didn't want to get up so he said "I have a seat for you," and gestured to his lap. He was smiling when he said this and I was exhausted so I sat right down. In my case, there really was no interest, I just needed to sit down before I fell down.
    One of the older ladies in our group said "I had him wrapped around my finger" but I don't know about that. He shares his whiskey and Scotch with me though, so i have no clue.
    I personally do not get aroused sitting on a dudes lap unless I like a guy a lot. I have no sexual thoughts. I actually think of how nice it would be if I got a back massage.
    I would find it weird and slightly creepy if a guy told me he got a boner if I sat on his lap. Just... take care of that away from me somewhere.

    • I appreciate your opinion. I guess there are moments when it wouldn't really mean much, but she wasn't forced by anything outside her will to sit on my lap :) Regarding the boner... if you like the guy would it change the way you see the situation or you'd still be "yucck"

  • She might or might not be interested, but she's at least comfortable with you... Don't tell her about getting hard, she probably noticed but it's awkward to talk about.

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  • Yes yes and tell her lol 12&3

  • Never sat on a dudes lap because I'm heavy so I'd break his legs if i did

    • She was pretty tiny and I still got numb after a while. How heavy are you though?

    • Extremely

  • I only sit on laps of guys I’m dating. Yes and yes to other questions

  • nahhhhhh it doesn't necessarily mean she's into you, but it means she's comfy ith you so she might be and lolololol dont tell her you got a boner

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