Trying to figure out why my boyfriend doesn't want to touch my boobs?

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Maybe I'm overthinking it but I'm getting the feeling my boyfriend does not want to feel my boobs and I don't understand why. We've only been dating for about three months and I know he has never touched another girl's boobs before and I wanted mine to be the first. Now with that being said he does touch and squeeze my boobs over my bra every time we make out but it's like he never built up the courage to lift up my bra and actually touch Them so I thought I would help him out. 

 Last night we were parked in his truck in the back of the empty field in our usual make out spot. Except this time I was not wearing a bra knowing that he was going to put his hand up my shirt again. I am a C cup but they are perky so no one could tell that I was not wearing a bra when I left the house, I was wearing only a hooded sweatshirt that zips up the front with no shirt or bra on under. 

About a minute of making out his hands go up my sweatshirt playing with my stomach for just a second and then moved them up to my boobs and quickly realized I was not wearing a bra. It was kind of weird though, he covered my boobs with his hands squeezing them for about 10 seconds then pulled his hands out of my shirt. About 10 minutes go on and he still never reaches for them again. I completely unzipped my hoodie exposing them completely and he still never touches them. I went on to ask if everything was OK and he said everything is perfect. I even tried squeezing them together and rubbed them on his face, he smiled but still acted like he wasn't interested. It really just made things more awkward honestly. 

I don't understand. What reasons do you think he would act like this for? I figured most guys would want that to happen to them. He likes touching my bra, why would he not want to touch my boobs?

Girl7150 · Accepted Answer

I think he is just shy about it - and maybe he thinks you will find it uncomfortable.
When I first started having sex with my boyfriend, he didn't touch mine at all for the first MONTHS! He would take off my bra, but he would not touch them at all. Now months after that, he likes touching them all the time, but he was just too shy to try :) It will probably work out

Amanda1579 · Accepted Answer

I had a similar experience to that before but your boyfriend might just want to take it slow. I wear a 34 DD and my boyfriend was really shy at first so I physically took his hand and put it on my boob, he got into it after that lol. He later told me he didn't know how to unclip a bra and I was just like "well I do" and he thought it was hilarious!!!

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

I'm stumped! If he were shy and never had I'd get it but he's touched them and then stopped. I don't understand. When I was single and making out with a shy guy I really liked, i took his hands in mine and physically place them on my boobs and squeezed. Lol. I font get it and it sounds like you've got great ones. Lol

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think it's like the scene in Forest Gump where Genny takes Forest's hand and places it on her breast and he came. Men don't want to be known as a one minute man. I have been married 17 years and if my husband touchs my breast while having sex that's it.

hellionthesage · Accepted Answer

Ask him? maybe he is concerned things are moving to fast, maybe he is unsure of himself their could be other reasons. Talking to him is the only thing that will actually answer your question.

areyaready4this · Accepted Answer

Some guys, like myself, just aren't attracted to boobs. I don't hate them, unless they're just huge and that's just disgusting, I simply prefer butts, thighs, and legs? Hope that helps...