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Do "Good Girls" even exist any more?

I have been single for my entire life. Never had sex, never kissed, never been out on a date. I've asked hundreds of girls, since I was back at primary school, and every girl I've ever approached has gone out of her way to try and crush me. I've been told that I'm worthless, ugly, retarded, spastic, untouchable, too black, too desperate, too nice, not nice enough, not sexy enough, not sexually experienced enough, not popular enough, too smart, too intellectual, too strong, too weak, too polite, not prejudiced enough... Every woman I've ever approached has turned out to be a misandrist sow who laughed and took pride and pleasure in publicly humiliating and defaming me solely for having the gall to approach them politely, tossed everything I ever tried to do for them and every dispaly of affection back in my face. And every other woman who I've ever approached who I've ever seen getting together with anyone, ends up making out with loud, wannabe 'gangsta-man' assholes who go around picking on weaklings and using females as their whores and sex toys- claiming that they're "more manly and more desirable than I'll ever be", even when I've kicked all of their arses in self-defence, and even though a few of them are well known as guys who raped little girls as juvies. I'm lonely, I'm sick and tired of it, and I don't know what to do. I feel really sad because I actually did try. Do "good girls" even exist any more? Or is every woman nowadays a complete and utter bitch? Will all of the feminist 'gurus' start mouthing off about me being an "entitled nice guy" and a "pathetic white knight", for claiming to care about women as people "when men don't do that", because "all men have ulterior sexual motives", and asserting that "all gals SHOULD go out of their way to be bitches to serve men right"? I am a heterosexual male, and I can't change that. But is it even worth trying to like girls any more, or should I just resign myself to hating them because they universally hate me?
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I tried, and tried, and tried, to place this in the 'Girls Behaviour' topic instead. But would this stupid site let me? Nooo, it kept posting it in the 'Sexual Behaviour' topic, of its own accord, after I tried to edit it 32 times in a row. Because of course, every bloody thing has to be sexualized if it comes out of a man's mouth, right? I give up. I seriously give up...
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Most Helpful Girls

  • To me, and don't be mad if im wrong, it seems like you are going after the wrong girls. Dont ask out the girls that are obviously hot, and flirty, and get asked out all the time, ask out the, sorry everyone, "plainer girls" they will appreciate it more, and while they still might say no, theu probably won't be rude about it. But, if you ever want a girlfriend, you can't just give up, because there's no chance of anyone sayimg yes if you dont ask. But remember, lots of people are going to say no, because they are not obligated to go out with you. But throwing yourself a little pity party is not going to help

    • But I do go after the "plainer girls", the ones who sit in the corner. They don't appreciate it- they're the most passive-aggressive of the lot, and they're the ones who reject you the second they set eyes on you. Making the effort to talk to them when no-one else will ask them out just arouses their suspicion most of all, and draws the most vocal accusations that I'm just a 'nice guy' (though more commonly cited as a "pervert", "con-man" or "creep"), trying to worm my way in and manipulate them solely for the purpose of having sex with them- even when I've done nothing more than ask them their name, and ask them if it's alright to talk to them. "No-one is obligated to go out with you"- I hear that a lot. But what it actually means is that girls don't want to feel obligated to reciprocate the attentions of guys who show them attention- girls want to go out with those guys who believe that all girls are obligated to go out with them, no effort or affection required. Just like whores.

    • well, I can tell you have not even attempted to absorb anything i've said

    • It's far more apparent that you couldn't be bothered to take anything I've said into account. You keep mocking men who care about their emotions and feelings for "throwing pity parties", and you're going to end up either getting together with a sociopath who doesn't have any, or with a guy who's forced to keep them bottled up inside until he blows his top and beats you up.

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  • It could be your location or if you are asking the same type of girl. Unfortunately I haven't seen you in action, so to speak, to better help you with this issue. I'm not entirely sure why it's happening. But hating just to hate, even strangers, doesn't seem healthy.

  • I never did anything or had anything. How sad? But I got plans for my future. P. s I waiting for the one<3

Most Helpful Guys

  • They do, you're just looking the wrong places.

    As far as I know, it's the same as with the cliché "nice guy" "bad boy"
    they bad ones outshine the innocent/good/shy girls, which will be overlooked.

    For one, you probably won't find good girls, or guys for that matter
    being the center of attention in some nightclub/bar.

    Finding what they say is the "perfect" match, won't be an easy find.

  • Look for a girl who is most similar to you. That's where you start. I hope you don't live in the south eastern United States because it seems like most girls here only like one race or type of guy. For example, I'm a light skinned black guy but I listen to rock and pop music. What girl do you think likes that?

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  • Yes there are plenty of good girls. If you have asked hundreds of girls, then the problem is with you, not them. You need to start looking at yourself instead of judging everyone else. You don't have to be an asshole, or a bad boy, or a gang banger. But you do need to look at yourself and find out what is wrong. Most likely it's a combination of things. I don't know what it is, it could be a lot of things. But if you asked out that many girls with no results, then you are doing something wrong.

    • Here's the way it typically goes: Me: (Approaches girl) "Hi- hope I'm not intruding, but would you mind if I talk to you/ joined in (when there's an existing conversation)? Nice to meet you- I'm ____. What's your name?" Her: "What? Yeah, I'd mind. What kind of creep asks for a girl's NAME? Don't put on that friendly act with me/us- I know your game, you sick pervert! Get away from me/us!" Me: Option 1- persist, trying to stand up for myself and convince the girl, along with the building crowd of onlookers attracted by her outburst, that I'm not an evil conniving psychopath. The girl will then ramp up the rhetoric still further, and call security and/or the police to beat me down and take me away. Or Option 2- give up, shrug shoulders and walk away, knowing that it's impossible to say or do anything which can possibly convince her or anyone else in audible range that I'm not a sick depraved pervert or potential axe murderer.

  • The question is why you keep selecting the same type of girl to approach.

    • I don't keep selecting the same type of girl to approach. I've approached girls of all races, all faiths, all ages and practically all sizes, attractive and unattractive alike, just to try and talk. They all react in exactly the same way- instant rejection and ostracisation. So maybe the wrong type of girl to approach is just "girl", period.

    • In my experience, if a guy keeps having the same experience with many different women, it is a result of something he is doing. It may be the women you select, something that you say or do, an attitude that you project. If the only explanation you can accept is that it is them and not you, then I guess you should stop trying.

    • If I accepted that it was me and not them, in spite of the fact that I've tried every approach under the sun besides straight-up sexual harassment and assault, then I'd have no choice but to give up and stop trying. Doing so would entail losing whatever meager self-belief and confidence I still have left; accepting that I am, always have been and always will be, completely worthless and undesirable in the eyes of all women, just for committing the crime against humanity of being me. How would that be an improvement?

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  • Sure, I'm a good girl for my daddy 😏

    • Yep. And I'm sure plenty of the child-raping pimps in my 'hood would love to be your sugar-daddy, turning you into one of their multiple pieces of pussy in the side, just like they do with every other idiotic bitch they buy over with the ill-gotten gains of their drugs-dealing, arms-dealing, prostitution, people-trafficking and theft racketeering. You, and girls like you, are the reason why I've lost all faith in womankind.

    • Have fun jerkin your own dick for the rest of your life 😌

    • You know what, I think I will. I'd certainly enjoy it immeasurably more than I'd enjoy having a relationship with you- no matter how good you may look, or how sexy your body may be, it what you're like on the inside that matters to me. And girl, you are UGLY...

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  • Being a good girl is boring af.

    • Not IMHO. It's a sign of maturity, and of mental development- 'bad girls' are simply juveniles who want to stay in the teen rebellion phase for as long as possible, and who refuse to grow up.

  • Maaaan, you sound awfully
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    You need a change of scene man, find out what you're really good at and do it, you'll gain a lot of admirers. I promise. Screw being with a girl right now. Everybody gets their time. You're still young. Make your own standards, not double standards, and stick to them no matter what. Ain't nobody gonna treat you like a doormat or a 'white knight'.

    • I'm a 29yr old virgin- I am not still young, and I am not going to get my time. Ever. I have to get real and accept that. And FYI, I did find out what I was really good at, and did it- I even won international awards for it. But it didn't get me any admirers- to the contrary, all I got from anyone was more hatred, more insults. No-one is entitled to be respected or admired, any more than they're entitled to be cared for or loved. Everyone will treat you like a doormat or a white knight if it serves their own purposes. And half of the time, their purpose will be to bring you down and lord it over you, to assert their foundless supremacist delusions over you. That's what being good at something gets you. Being an undefeated MMA champion, being a CEO of your own limited company- it just makes them take even greater satisfaction in telling you that you are, always have been and always will be nothing to everyone you ever try to care about.

    • Man, haters gonna hate. I think if you've already given up on believing, you shouldn't be asking this question. Are girls the only problem? So you have no problems with anyone else?

    • And by the way, real subtle, posting the image of a gay cartoon couple to imply that I'm somehow less manly than you, and more effeminate than you, just because I don't adopt the alpha wolf mindset and set about sexually assaulting every girl who strays across my path. I may still be a dateless virgin, but that doesn't make me any less of a man. Am I unhappy about it? Well, D'UH. I have a sex drive that's off the charts- I've had stress-induced epileptic seizures every time I've tried to abstain from masturbating for more than 48 hours since I hit puberty. I average roughly six times a day, and I'm still nowhere near being satisfied sexually. I've done it more than 22 times in the space of 18 hours before, and even then it wasn't enough. Any other man in my position would have paid for sex long ago, or even resorted to conniving and manipulation to get a girl in the sack by this stage. I haven't- I stuck to my standards, no matter what. And I get treated like a pitiful virgin because I did.

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  • Yes.

  • You need to worry less about 'good girls' existing and more about your toxic, angry attitude. That will put people off no matter how desirable you might be.

    • Why? I've been the "nice guy", the "boring, responsible good guy", for all my life. Where'd it get me? Nowhere. Worse than nowhere- the girls always said to my face that my joyful optimism, and my calm, amiable and peaceful attitude, made me repulsive, abhorrent and undesirable in their eyes. My own sister and my own mother both always condemned me for being too nice, too soft, too compassionate and too welcoming. Toxic and angry 'attitude' works better than non-toxic and calm 'passionless-ness' for everyone else- why wouldn't it work for me, if I switched my approach and did what the chat-up artists, pimps and con-artists do? What have my principles, doing the right thing and being a 'good guy', ever got me? Eternal solitude, accompanied by either total indifference or outright hatred. If there aren't any 'good girls' out there, then there's no point of being a 'good guy'- bad girls only go for bad guys. Nice Guys finish last, and noble, romantic ideals don't count for crap.

    • If you search around (even just on GaG) you'll see why being a nice, boring guy won't get you anywhere. Because it's boring! Romantic ideals are for fantasy novels and romcoms, not the real world.

    • That's what I'm saying. So, since being a nice, boring guy hasn't got me anywhere, shouldn't I abandon that approach and adopt the brute force approach of the typical asshole lady-magnet instead? This is the real world, and in the real world, the only way to get a girl to give you a second look is by being a domineering misogynistic bastard, by lording it over them and imposing yourself upon them no matter now many times they tell you to leave them alone, how many times they tell you that they're not interested, and how many times they tell you they're not ready. That's the kind of guy who gets places and makes inroads with the hypocritical, self-deprecating girls of today. And I've had enough- if I have to be, I'm ready to sacrifice my ideals, my hopes and dreams of 'love', and become the kind of guy who 'gets pussy'. Because if you're interested in anything more than simply banging her up, then in these womens' eyes, you're "not a real man", you're a "worthless nice guy pussy".

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  • they do exist but they are a small percentage of the population. you got to get them young though before they go through a ho phase.

  • Oh god.

  • Don't know about good girls , but morons exist you sir, are a fine example.

    • Would you care to explain to me what makes me a fine example of a 'moron'? Can you? Do you know what the term actually means? Thought not.

    • First you asked out 100 girls, knew the reasons why they dumped you , and never worked on them. Ever tried taking a personality development class?, ever tried to work your ass off to become richer? Ever worked out hard to make an absolutely gorgeous body? Nope.. Because if you had wormed on any of that, not even a straight man would had rejected you. But you kept trying and trying to get a woman that you didn't care about actually making yourself appealing in their eyes. All your hard work was in the wrong direction. And that's why I said your a moron.

    • Far more than one hundred girls, actually- approaching a thousand now. None of them 'dumped me'- they never accepted me in the first place. And FYI, I have tried doing all of the above. I've taken several social development courses. I completed my BA with a First, founded and ran my own internationally acclaimed independent publishing house for over five years (before a girl stole and binned my critical paperwork for 'fun', and our inability to file our proper tax return forced both its liquidation and my bankruptcy). I've been training my physique since I was in single figures, as one must to compete and win against Olympic-level track and field athletes, and defeat an undefeated world heavyweight MMA champion regularly in sparring matches from the age of 11, as I did. You think I'd have been capable of single-handedly fighting off the gang attacks unarmed if I wasn't in perfect shape? But since I'm not one of the gang-banging "Bad Boys", I don't appeal to "Bad Girls". AKA, any girls.

  • Long wall of text. Learn how to use paragraphs and I'll read it. Yes they do but you have to play the game.

  • Maybe you just suck.

    • I wish I did. I certainly could- I have a very flexible tongue, and I'm really looking forward to doing cunnilingus with a girl for the first time. One of these days...

  • christ this again...

  • Did you ask hundreds of girls in primary school, in one place?

    • Every single one of those hundreds of girls was approached on an individual basis, with no more than three on a single day (at one of many dating events)- the majority of them weren't local, and were approached them in several places across the UK. I only asked two girls out in all my time at primary school- the first rejected me because she was a Mormon, insulting me for being non-white and insisting that I was a "filthy infidel who was going to burn in hellfire" on account of only being half-christian by birth. The second (ten year old) rejected me by saying that I was "only a boy", and that I "couldn't hope to satisfy her", because I "wasn't a real man".

  • They don't. I'm going to sound like a broken record now but the problem is social media/tinder/3rd wave feminism

  • Nah.

  • Yes they do, you just have to look for them.

  • There's still some out there. U just really need to look harder. :) that's kinda how I feel like with all guys nowadays..

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