What is the trick to keep your dick hard after cumming so you can go again?

Question

I need advice since it take like 15 mins to get hard again so how can I lower that time

BigPunny · Accepted Answer

There's really no 'trick' to it. This is called the 'refractory period' and there really isn't a lot you can do about it.

The vast majority of men cannot sustain a proper erection for some time after ejaculation, and scientists theorize it has to do with a negative feedback loop similar to that of your bowels where the bowels will stop 'pushing' once they have 'cleared'.

There is an assumption that oxytocin and prolactin play a role in the refractory period as well. Prolactin suppresses dopamine, which is highly responsible for sexual arousal.

There are some men that can just keep going until the cows come home, ejaculating over and over and over again, but the vast majority of men cannot, and there's not a lot you can do to change that. Hate nature for that, not yourself.

You might read that you can 'practice' by 'edging' (as I call it) - getting yourself to the brink of orgasm, then stopping, then starting again - this doesn't work for most. Some might tell you to 'pull out' right before you cum, thus interrupting the orgasm, and this only works to an extent. If you wait too long, then you lose both your orgasm, you ejaculate anyway, and your refractory period begins. If you do it right, your erection won't be the same, you'll likely end up having to do it again within 5 minutes, and you'll become hypersensitive, plus it increases the likelihood of 'breaking your dick' (which can happen. . . it's not a bone, but you can sure damage it if you're pounding away half-mass).

So don't worry about it too much. Focus on quality instead of quantity. Ask your partner how she likes it so that you don't need to go for hours instead of 20-40 minutes.

And in all honesty, if you can't take care of your partner within 20 minutes, it's probably not too fun for her anyway, so making it where you go for 1-2 hours likely isn't going to help much.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well first you have to be really horny. If you haven't done it in a while you are usually a lot more horny and can go for round 2 straight away with no refractory period. If you do it regularly then its less likely you will be horny enough to go for round 2 although it can happen. Usually I can go for round 2 but will need a refractory period of 5-15 mins.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You just have to be really horny. My boyfriend stays hard, but it's because he's an extremely horny person... He's like a 14 year old virgin where literally anything gets him hard haha... so just make yourself super horny I guess.

TheBag · Answer

@Dragan

Phoenix98 · Answer

Stamina or how horny you are I guess, some guys just can keep going regardless, I think part of it is genetics, but for stamina itself there are various foods you can eat that will increase it.

AWiserFool · Answer

Agreed on it being about the orgasm sometimes. Sort of have a partial orgasm but really i dunno. Sometimes you just stay rock hard... Sometimes you don't