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Why do people say that "sluts" or "hoes" have loose vaginas when their vaginas are probably actually tighter than those in committed relationships?

I saw a post on fB and actually I hear SO many people say that sluts or girls that have many sexually partners and aren't committed to one, or sleep around occasionally have loose yucky vaginas... But really just because someone sleeps around that doesn't mean they have a loose vagina? A loose vagina results from a lot of sex. No matter WHOSE penis is going into it. That said, someone in a committed relationship may be Gettin it onnnn every night with their partner and have a way looser vagina than a girl who sleeps with a new guy every couple of weeks or so does. People are ignorant smh \-_-/
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  • Vaginas don't get loose from sex. Vaginas get loose when the pelvic floor starts to wear down. Nobody's kitty cat is gunna be tight forever. With age comes the gradual process of your vag getting weaker. Those muscles won't be as strong anymore because I think there really there for when your still capable of having a child. I always thought sleeping with multiple partners made your vag looser. Only because the different sizes and shapes. I. e. Tuesday night you sleep with a guy who's penis is as thick as a febreze can and long like a pencil. Then the next day screw a guy with a Vienna sausage or a average Joe. I've slept with the same guy and the only guy since forever and I'm sure I'm not losing and elasticity (also told by my Gynecologist) 😊. There are kegal exercises but you do them everytime you pee 💁 I feel it's safer to have one guy than many because of so many STDs and whatever. Not everyone is clean. It's just my thoughts on it 😉

  • Loose woman in history meant loose morals.
    Somewhere however it got translated and taken literally.
    So here we go a little sex ed.
    The vagina is a muscle. When you pump iron in the gym it doesn't make your arms or stomach weaker, it gets stronger. The more you use it the stronger it'll get whether you use it with the same partner, a different partner every night or just do your kegels.
    This loose thing has been thrown around ion one form or another for centuries as a way to keep/shame woman into being/staying pure and in line.

  • You're actually very right. A woman who have many partner might have sex once or two times a week. Even with a fuck buddy, you don't necessarily see the person every week. Whereas in a serious relationship, you see the person all the time.
    Hell, I have way more sex since I've been living with my boyfriend.

    There are also excise to prevent a vagina to get loose so it's all pretty irrelevant.

  • Guys who don't know better are usually the ones who say that, I've heard it used as a figure of speech before, but I think there are guys that think there is actually such thing as a loose vagina lol What do they think happens when babies come out of them? It's skin! It stretches, it contracts. Also, women are actually looser when then they are close to their period (before or during)

    • Girls can have a loose vagina without giving birth or fucking huge toys dicks... trust me, I've been with a few that were not tight... and I know what I'm talking about.

    • @Mybeachlife88 Obviously not because I have sex with my husband 2x a day everyday and I'm not loose lol You would literally have to have a swinging door on that thing lol You also know that different women are set up differently downstairs right? We don't all have the same size vagina just like we don't wear the same sized pants.

    • You're missing the point I'm making. A virgin can have a loose vagina.

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  • I don't own a vagina personally, but I'm pretty sure no amount of sex will loosen an organ designed to pass a baby through. I think the loose vagina thing is a myth. I can buy that there could be varying degrees of tightness from woman to woman. I'm not much of a scholar, but I've taken enough biology classes to feel good about that. However I totally agree with your premise. I always laughed at people who think sleeping around makes a woman loose. We get a lot of questions here from men pertaining to demanding a virgin woman as a wife. But what if the promiscuous woman sleeps with, say, 50 guys, but all of them had smaller dicks than the married-to-a-virgin guy, who also has sex with his wife hundreds or thousands of times, vs 50 one-time sessions of sex for the promiscuous woman? Where's the logic? Wouldn't the virgin wife end up looser than the promiscuous woman by that standard? I swear people don't use their brains...😒

  • Sleeping unprotected with a bunch of men causes you to be at a higher risk for STD's, and they say that because they are referring to girls who sleep with two or more a day. Plus when you sleep with your girlfriend it gets as big as you are, while sleeping with strangers they can come across guys that are way bigger.

    But when it's about a girl who sleep with only a few guys a week, then it's about not feeling comfortable and confident enough to be with that girl.
    I doubt that it's actually physically loose.

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  • Ah this bullshit again.

    The vagina doesn't become "loose". you squeeze a KID out though there! A dick won't do a thing!

    Seriously, the vagina is MADE to accomodate large insertions.

  • I think it's been lost over the years in translation. Itinerant more as a woman of loose virtue not actually physically loose. A loose vagina doesn't mean slack or baggy it means available.

  • Many sluts end up taking huge dicks and taking part in weird shit like fisting, so that is the real reason that an slut might have an loose vagina.

  • You call other people ignorant whilst you are almost as ignorant. The whole thing about vaginas getting stretched from sex is a myth. The only reason they loosen is ageing and excessive stretching for long periods of time.

  • Lol, I don't know. a vagina can't become " loose" unless she has muscle issues down there. its just something someone says when they are insecure.

  • I want to know who is going around measuring and who established what criteria for what is loose or tight.

  • Actually you're all wrong 😕
    The vagina does not become loose because of sex. Do your kegals and you'll be fine. The rest is all heredity...

  • Are there scientific studies on the elasticity of a vagina based on amount of sex? I wonder.

  • Someone who has been dicked down hard big and small are more probably not tighter.

  • They are idiots that's why

  • You are calling people ignorant when you yourself have no idea how it works. Too funny.

  • same reason girls like to use the small dick insult for anything. it's just a universal insult, people use it for any reason.

    • Dick size is a thing though...

    • loose pussies, too. how many people who give the small dick or loose pussy insult have actually had sex with the person? it's just a universal insult.

  • same reason girl say your dick will fall off if u catch an std

    they're dumb

  • To put people down

  • People are lame and haters.

  • So true... unless the slutty girl fucks guys with big dicks ALL THE TIME

  • I always see girls in real life who are in relationships complain about having a loose vagina. When I had casual sex I only had sex 1-4 times a year with the same guy and I would think that a girl in a committed relationship is having more sex than me. Because casual sex relationships do not last that long. And I did not have casual sex every year. And men would always comment on how tight I am. And I do not use dildo to masturbate with now that I decided not to have casual sex anymore, so I'm pretty sure my vagina is tighter than women in relationships

    • I want proof :-P

  • I'm typically never interested in these types of subjects, but I have been coming across this particular one a lot lately. I don't know what it means, though. It seems I understand little more than the basics of how the vigina works, or at least in relation to sex... But then again, I am a virgin.
    Anyway, what I'm trying to say is, can you teach me what this whole tightness thing is all about, please?

  • I've got a loose vagina and I'm happily married and yes my husband gives it to me a lot,'Whenever I want it. He had allowed me to have sex with 2 of his mates since I've been with him for 17 years.

  • But they stil have lots of sex. (-_-)

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