Is it okay to masturbate to pictures of your bf/gf?

My girlfriend doesn't want me to watch porn, so I don't. But I still need something to look at when I do the deed you know? We don't send each other nudes cause yeah that's child pornography. But is it weird? And is it something I shouldn't tell her? We've been together 9 months.
Yeah, that's fine but don't tell her.
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Yeah, that's fine and go ahead and tell her.
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No, stop it right now that's weird.
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  • Wut.. dude watching porn is normal, everyone does it. If your girlfriend forbids you watching it I think she has a problem with herself and her self esteem. Why the hell does it bother her for ex. if you do it at your place because you can't have sex at the moment? No girl should ever even think to forbid her boyfriend to watch porn lol that's childish and just plain stupid. Same as you telling her stop doing your nails, stop texting altogether, stop breathing lol I'm not a porn addict, I can live without it too no problem, but it's not ok to forbid your partner to stop watching porn lel I can't even imagine telling my girlfriend stop watching it! I don't like it so you can't watch it! -.- We even watch it together sometimes... Good luck with her..

    • She does't forbid me from watching it she just prefers it if I don't. It's really not a big deal dude.

    • Also I prefer her over porn anyways haha.

    • I prefer my girlfriend over porn anytime lol, but noone can tell me what should I do and shouldn't with my own damn body O. o That's just wrong. Masturbation is healthy, it is a good stress reliever too, so if you want to do it while watching some porn why should you feel even slightly guilty just because she said she doesn't like it if you masturbate with porn.. ? Maybe you're at the beginning of the relationship and that's why you think it's no big deal but you will realize later on that it kinda is.. I get that you have to compromise on some things, we all do when we're in a relationship, and that makes it a healthy and great relationship too, but compromising on smth like this is not right (at least for me). Sorry If I came on too strong I thought she really said like "Don't ever masturbate you hear me?" :p but it's still not ok, then again it's your relationship and if you think that's ok just go with it and dw

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  • If she doesn't want you looking at porn and you're able to resist that temptation (you're a better man than I...), she shouldn't be offended if you use her picture (s) as a visual stimulus while doing what guys your age do... Maybe you don't need to make an announcement about it, but if she asks, I would think/hope she would take it as a compliment.
    Guys need more visual stimulation to get aroused, so if porn's out of the question, what does she want you to use? the ladies underwear ads in the Wal Mart flyer?

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  • I'm similar to your girlfriend in the sense that I don't want my man to be looking at porn (just as I wouldn't be looking at porn either). For this reason, I strongly hope he would masturbate to pictures of me. I find it flattering and a turn on.

  • I don't cuz I have a great imagination, but I don't care who jerks off to my pic

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  • I would tell her... she should feel way hot that you would jerk off to her. Enjoy the great orgasms!!! Has she given you a handjob yet? they are way better then when you have solo sex.

    • Haha no she hasn't.

    • If or when the time comes enjoy it!!! In the meantime enjoy looking at her picture when you jerk off... it might make the orgasms that much better.