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NSFW: The "Barbie" labiaplasty is becoming increasingly popular. Men, would you be willing to date a woman who gets cosmetic surgery on her vulva?

Here's a story on it:
https://www.alternet.org/news-amp-politics/labiaplasty-boom-why-are-women-desperate-perfect-vagina

Ladies, would you ever get this procedure or have you ever considered it?

So along with butt implants becoming popular, now women are resorting to slicing up their vulva to make "outties" into "innies".
This is trimming the hanging labia minora, aka inner lips, to resemble the "clamshell pussy", which is an "innie". This is to "fix" the "roast beef pussy/meat curtains".

I'm surprised and disappointed that so many adult men, and women, believe that a vagina becomes an outtie because of too much sex! This is false. There are virgins with outties, it's just how their bodies are. Curse you faux sex ed aka "abstinence only sex ed"!

It's not a new procedure, it's been around since the 70s, and was used for intersex and other medical reasons.
But now, thanks to media, porn and female insecurity, it's becoming a booming procedure.
We do this for you men. For you.
It passes risks like any other procedure that involves putting a knife or sharp object to your genitalia. Not to mention there's very little oversight of the surgeons who perform it.
From loss of sensitivity, to pain, to risks during vaginal childbirth.

TLDR:
So, just like my other question, men, would you be willing to date a woman who's had this procedure? Would you be willing to accept butt and/or boob procedures but not this? Thoughts?
Women, would you be willing to do it or ever considered it?

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NSFW: The "Barbie" labiaplasty is becoming increasingly popular. Men, would you be willing to date a woman who gets cosmetic surgery on her vulva?


YES, I WOULD date a woman who gets labiaplasty, boob AND butt implants. I want the perfect woman, or it's her body and her choice.
Vote A
YES, I would date a woman ONLY IF SHE HAD LABIAPLASTY, but NOT boob NOR butt implants. She can't be too altered.
Vote B
YES, I would date a woman with LABIAPLASTY AND BREAST IMPLANTS, but NOT butt implants. I like big boobs and innies.
Vote C
YES, I would date a woman with LABIAPLASTY AND BUTT IMPLANTS, but NOT breast implants. I like big butts and innies
Vote D
NO, I wouldn't date a woman with LABIAPLASTY NOR butt implants, BUT YES TO BREAST IMPLANTS ONLY.
Vote E
NO, I wouldn't date a woman with LABIAPLASTY NOR breast implants, BUT YES TO BUTT IMPLANTS ONLY.
Vote F
NONE OF THAT! No cosmetic surgery please! NO labiaplasty, butt nor breast implants. STAY NATURAL AND BEAUTIFUL LADIES!
Vote G
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  • I think if I really liked a girl and I found out she's had some work done I wouldn't turn her down but if we were together and she was contemplating it I would try to discourage her from doing it.

    I find plastic surgery disturbing. Not so much because of the result, I'm sure it comes out looking pretty decent most of the time, but the fact that girls think they need it in the first place is... unsettling to put it lightly. The idea that certain bodies aren't acceptable, that we need to be modified to be accepted says something is very, very wrong with our culture.

    And as a guy, it feels really strange when you see women who are plenty attractive before the operation who think they're so ugly that they'll fork over thousands of dollars for unnecessary surgery. You think "if only she could see herself with my eyes".

    I always found labiaplasty in particular really disturbing. Before, plastic surgery was about the obvious, prominent stuff. Now it's really getting into the minutiae and I feel like shit's really getting serious now. Plus, I guess I've always had an affinity for the vulva, so you know, don't cut that shit. A woman's vulva is one of the most unique and special parts of her body and they come in so many shapes in sizes. It's part of your individuality. I don't want them to all be the same. I like the variety. It's not broke, so don't fix it.

    I saw this documentary about it (I think it was called "the perfect vagina") that followed this one girl who was doing the procedure. She was mercilessly teased about it her whole life. When they finally got around to the operation they actually showed it and she had such a beautiful pussy. I was legitimately sad and angry when they cut it off.

    That must be hell to go through and I'm not going to turn away a girl because she suffered and gave in to the pressure. But if she's considering it, I'll try to convince her that she's lovable as she is and she doesn't need "fixing".

    • Very well put. But it's hard to get past these thoughts. Though I am against it now, I can't say I never considered surgery. Not for labiaplasty, but breast implants. I've been teased about it my whole life, I've had men reject me for them being too small, and even my ex said he preferred his exes who were DDs over my As (it's my fault for asking him though, so I can't be mad at his honesty). And I seriously spent so much time hating and crying and hoping for them to grow. There's this documentary called "My Small Breasts And I", and they were all similar size to me and wanted a boob job. I don't know. I just finally decided not to. I'm not saying 100% no for sure, but it's most likely a no. What's the point of putting new tires on an ugly car? It's still ugly. So I can get why these women will feel the need to change their body. I know the torment of hating the body you're in. It's a still a shame it happens though.

  • That sandwich picture made me choke on my soda! But anyhoo I prefer au naturalé. Fake boobs don't move the same. Fake butts actually make me kinda mad. And the labiaplasty thing just takes it too far. If a girl absolutely wants to do those things then go ahead. But personally I don't think anyone really needs to.

    • Why do butt implants make you mad? Would you still date her if she did get any or even all those things?

    • Lol it was just a joke cuz I'm a butt kinda guy. And ya I guess I would as long as it wasn't totally overboard. It's the personality that's gonna keep me around.

    • So if she was otherwise a really sweet woman, and she cared for you, and she told you she wanted to do all 3, would you leave her? Let's say you guys are already serious and you have tried your best to convince her not to (as I'm sure you would), but she was still adamant about it.

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  • Mine looks like number 10 on that bottom list... How odd... o- O Anyway, no I wouldn't get one because I naturally have an innie, and even if I didn't have an innie I wouldn't do something that could possibly permanently damage my vagina just to get one. If being kicked in the growler hurts like a bitch just imagine what having a part of your growler cut off feels like. What if the nerves and shit are damaged and you can't feel your vagina/anything you want happening to it (like sex) anymore? Most if not all women would have a heart attack if that happened.

    • I agree. Same with mine. I can say I wouldn't because mine is an innie, but who knows how I'd feel as an outtie. Not too long ago I wanted breast implants. So I can understand somewhat what's it's like to want to change something so bad to resort to surgery

  • i have considered it. sometimes i really want it, sometimes i just pray i will get a boyfriend who likes it because if he likes it, i won't care anymore. it would be nice to not have to worry about it, if people just accepted it as normal and attractive. but sooo many guys make fun of it. guys are the reason i became insecure. i never noticed it as a problem until i heard their jokes. i am just petrified of starting to develop feelings for a guy who doesntt find it attractive and worse, says something at some point. soooo yea i dk what i will do.

    • I don't think most guys who matter would care.

    • Not every guy cares I personally don't give a shit what your vagina looks like unless its like a yeast infection looking thing lol or it smelled real bad.

    • There are plenty of men out there, including myself, who love large lips. Physically, large labia minora is my number one turn on and it really pisses me off that little boys who can’t handle them are making women like yourself so self conscious about having them.

  • I wouldn’t do it for a guy. I don’t think a guy would have a problem with my p*ssy. I think most guys prefer natural self confident girls. However, I would do it for myself as vulvas kinda creep me out and I personally don’t like things hanging out. Just personal preference.

  • I find this whole vagina surgery kinda strange.. But if they wanna do that they obviously can, if that's what makes them happy.
    I'm really happy with my vajayjay though luckily.

    • Yes. I don't think I'd ever do something like that to it, especially if there's a risk to damage the nerves and never enjoying sex again. I'm not happy nor worried about my vag. Just the color maybe, but it's not enough to make me go change it.

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  • greatwallofvagina.co.uk/great-wall-vagina-panels

    Here's another look at 400 normal women Who have allowed casts of their vaginas.
    These are all normal women and all these vaginas are beautiful.

    • I don't think vaginas nor penises are beautiful lol This is why I think labiaplasty of any kind is pointless. It's called "bumping uglies' for a reason.

    • Well, if that is a reason then I will call it "bumping beauties". The vulva is truly a beautiful work of art!

  • I could see myself dating someone with any of these. I think they are unnecessary and should be done more for the self-confidence of the women instead of finding a mate. My wife doesn't had any of these (she doesn't need them at all), but if she did I wouldn't fault her for it, it's not a deal breaker like if she was a smoker haha.

  • I find it interesting that so many men are saying no to any surgical "enhancement". Because so often on here men are saying they are fine with breast enhancement. Personally, I want the natural woman. I don't want a woman who has altered herself except for medical reasons.

    • True. I guess what people say is different from what they mean.

    • Or they change their minds when reading different questions about a topic.

    • Or they're liars lol

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  • I actually want to get it..

    • Why? You're so young :/

    • I just feel ugly down there

    • Don't. Most men don't mind.

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  • Voted G.

    Labiaplasty is perhaps the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard of.

    Unless it was performed for genuine health reasons, I have a hard time thinking that I'd be attracted to someone who would do such a thing. I mean, how vain do people need to be? LOL

    • Not necessarily vanity. Some are just so insecure. And the way some men refer to them, it's very damaging. It's like calling a guy "baby dick". If there was surgery to enhance the penis, which apparently there is, it's just not very safe nor popular, how many guys would feel it necessary if they kept getting mocked for their bits? Of course some are doing it out of pure vanity, but many just generally hate their bits.

    • You make a good point, although I'd say that it's male vanity that drives those awful comments. Whole buncha vanity and ridiculousness, man.

    • It’s not always for vanity or insecurity reasons, lol

  • those girls should know most guys won't give a fuck lol.

    • But it's the comments that get to women. Women's egos are easily shattered.

    • that is true. i wish that didn't happen.

    • I don’t care whether or not guys give a fuck. It’s my body not theirs and I wouldn’t do it for them.

  • Dude, I already dislike makeup. I would be surprised if I didn't dislike implants.

    • but labia plasty isn't adding something like make-up or implants. its taking away, like hair removal. are u against laser hair removal too?

    • @Ghosted You must admit that hair removal is less intrusive than having your genitals reshaped. I personally think laser hair removal is silly. Our obsession with hair removal is already silly. I'm not as vehemently against it though, there are worse things you can do to yourself. And if you really hate the hair, then it makes sense to remove it permanently. Just hope you won't regret your decision.

    • @Mesonfielde your right it is less intrusive and costs less too. i will prolly get laser hair removal since im a good candidate and will save me a lifetime of trouble. dark hair / tan skin and i just have too much hair to keep up with. dumb genetics. body hair on a female is just not universally acceptable even in a professional setting so it is different to genitals that only few get to see. anyways i see ur point. good points

  • I just think this procedure is extreme and unnecessary. Vulvas aren't supposed to look all alike. That's one of the many cool things about them.

    • You like outties right?

    • Yeah, I do like outies. They're more interesting and erotic looking. And when you give the girl oral it's fun to suck on the longer inner labia.

    • Ok. So let's say you dated a girl who was an innie, and there was some surgery to lengthen her labia to make her an outtie, would you be ok with that?

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  • Id still date her, assuming she doesn't otherwise come off as crazy or dramatic.

    I'm more ok with this than I am with implants bfcause there's nothing added into her body. I dont blame people for wanting to adjust their appearance to feel more confident. The only concern is the resaults, ie do they look better after the procedure.

    Maybe im vain but if it was safe Id pay money to become taller. I wouldn't be opposed to other cosmetic surgeries either, only concerns are invasiveness, precision, and the quality of the end result.

    If it was therorettically possibly to safely and precisely customize every aspect of my appearance like you can with a videogame avatar, Id do it in a heartbeat.

    • How tall are you?

    • 5'9, maybe shorter by the end of the day.

    • Really? That's not a bad height.

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  • If I'm not the one paying for it, why the hell not? I wouldn't discard a woman just because she wants her vagina to look prettier. Large flabs of skin can be quite unsettling. That being said, if things like that are one of her main concerns she's more likely than not a shallow ditz who isn't worth your time.

    • so you think someone who has large flabs of labia skin should just accept that her bits are unsettling instead of being concerned by it? would you accept her like that?

    • @Ghosted What I'm saying is that I'm not deciding whether I date a woman or not based solely on if she performs vaginal rejuvenation procedure or not. I'm saying that, while I like my woman's "parts" nice and tight, it doesn't matter enough to me that for me to spend 1500-6000$(google "vaginal rejuvination cost") on it. I'm saying that if you get to the "let's see how your genitalia looks like" part of your relationship with someone it really shouldn't matter. I'm saying that, if someone is obsessing over vaginal looks more likely than not that person is shallow. We all have sexual preferences, and we all have (or at least we should) enough maturity to understand that not all our preferences can be met all the time. If this were a question about a casual (and by this I mean sex driven) relationships I'd say that someone rejecting a partner based on that qualification was justified because main driving force of that relationship is sex appeal, and if it sin't there it's not working.

    • shallow doesn't seem like the right word. its more like an anxiety disorder, majority of women opting for labiaplasty. American guys are wayy too bent on announcing their preferences about private bits like it matters. personally dont understand it. that sounds more shallow to me

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  • Personally I wouldn't care. To me it's a bit silly to get labiaplasty but if she did it wouldn't matter that much to me. Vaginas are beautiful tasty things and women shouldn't feel ashamed of theirs.

  • i couldn't give a shit. Seriously. But it always fascinates me how easy it is to solve women's dating problems through surgery and implants. what does a man have to do? You want pressure? Try doing surgery on your personality... takes years to become attractive to a girl. I don't like that women have to "carve" themselves to meet some attractive standard, but women are attracted to dominance over unconditional love, and dominance comes with conditions. A carved lady may be one.

  • I would hope the woman had enough self esteem to not have to go through all that, especially the Labiaplasty. I find all types of vaginas pleasurable, exciting, and love the uniqueness.

    Having said that, I am not sure I would know if she had labiaplasty unless she told me. If I were dating her and she asked if she should do it, I would probably suggest she not do it because I would probably have already adjusted to the beauty that is.

  • Fucked a girl with huuuuge labia once. A lot of fun to suck on. :P

    • So do you care if she gets labiaplasty?

    • I wouldn't care, but I think it's pointless.

  • Keep it real, and honestly how would a woman feel if a guy had a surgically enhanced hog?

  • It’s her body so her choice as it should be. I don’t care if the labia is big or small personally. Both ways are sexy. However I can understand why floppy excess skin would be uncomfortable and undesirable for some. I have my own floppy appendage that can be downright miserable. If she wants to cut off her labia for personal reasons then it’s no one’s business but her own.

  • So which one is the plastic labia?

    • That's not what labiaplasty means lol

    • so its like genital mutilation? That would be like me cutting off my foreskin and putting it in my internal penis? lol

    • Basically yes, it's genital mutilation at an adult age. Think of it like getting circumcised but as an adult.

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  • I love a bit of hanging labia. It's much more interesting when eating pussy. Give me some nice pussy lips to suck and lick a million times over "neat and tidy"
    I guess it's sort of like a willy with foreskin. I am uncircumsized and would hate a girl to want me to remove my foreskin. Voted none of that no cosmetic surgery.

    • Ok, so what if there was a surgery to make an innie to an outtie, would you be ok with it?

    • Hey possibly but only if the girl REALLY wants to. Even though I love large labia I would tell the girl to love her own body. Surgery is not needed- love your body.

  • If you're insecure of your own body and feel the need of plastic surgery, then I feel sorry for you.

    • Not me lol

    • No one said that everyone who gets plastic surgery is insecure or feels that they “need” it.

  • What happened with 31? :D
    No implants at all please...

    • Lol I have no idea, but I couldn't find the original that didn't include 31. So no labiaplasty either?

    • Preferably no, but if she really wants to do it, i think it's the least repelling to me, if it's done right.. but still, i think i would just convince my girlfriend to not do it.

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