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How do I tell a guy I am a squirter? Or do i?

The story must be told. I'll try to keep the long short... I always had feelings for him since high school, but thought he was way out of my league and into different girls than me so we stayed friends throughout the years. Last month he exposed that he has loved me for 6 years and just thought I wasn't into him! I broke up with my boyfriend after hearing the news I was so shook up. I recently graduated (university) and am going to fly across the country where he attends school, and visit him for over a month. THE IMPORTANT CRAP: Basicallllyyyyyy... There is a sh**ton of sexual tension between us. I haven't had sex in a year cause my ex-bf lived in Britain. Sex in general and attraction is not the problem... We are both athletic and decent looking So apart from typical nerves and tensions I'm not worried there... I'm used to my ex who would make me squirt easily and a lot... But what if this new guy can't and I tell him I can squirt and he doesn't do it for me; he already gets super nervous around me, I don't want to make that worse and if I mention it and don't cum, then we both feel weird after all this time and buildup? I wouldn't care but a lot of people say I should warn him... When things are heating up do I just cutely say, "By the way I've been known to squirt." As I unzip his pants or bite my lip or something? Or should I just let it happen if it does and take the chance he won't mind if I blast on him? Hahah. I'm so scared he's gonna be one of those guys that isn't into squirting, especially when thinking of me as a long term girl. 😣
Warn him I squirt before engaging in sex
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Just go with the flow and don't say anything
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  • I think you should tell him (not while having sex/foreplay lol) that will make him nervous and make him as if he has to live up to it and HAS TO do it.. That's bad for you but badder (:S) for him ofc. Do you just talk about sex? For ex I find it very exciting to just talk about it too, not exciting boner-like, just exciting and I enjoy when I'm talking about it. If you do talk about it, just start this like "oh and have you seen a squirter (both in real life and porn), what do you think about them? (maybe he will ask you without you telling him, if not..) Does it gross you out or you wouldn't mind it?" At this point he should get the hint (if not just dump him, his iq is way bellow average girl.. lol just kidding) If he still has no clue at what you're going for, just simply ask him, it's normal, it's nothing weird or some weird ass fetish (ex. bestiality.. sorry) He will either be shocked (in a good way) or be confused and start thinking, damn how do I make her squirt, am I gonna get showered, but without a shampoo :( damn, now I need to have a shampoo beside me while having sex) Jokes aside.. When it finally gets to the part where he has to live up to it, you need to guide him (if he's on the wrong path), what you like, what makes you squirt, the rhytm, motion and movement of his fingers for ex (if he's only fingering you), which spots to hit the most etc. Communication is the key here, even if he doesn't make you squirt the first few times, you can make him to do it better the next time. I'm sure your ex wasn't succesful the first couple of times either (Was he? O. o) If he's not doing it right tell him exactly what your ex did to get you there, don't mention your ex lol that's just wrong and he'll be like.. bitch, gtfo, you make yourself squirt! You get the point, it's bad and don't mention him. Just guide him, what was your ex doing, only tell him the things he did, the movements, the placement etc I wouldn't recommend just surprising him and out of nowhere.. "he's drowning, he's drowning, call the firefighters, call the police, call the lifeguards, wait wut.." don't get me wrong, I love squirters, but I wouldn't want a surprise like that without any kind of warning first. Just talk to him and ask him what he thinks about it, is he gonna enjoy it and while doing it, remember, guide him! Good luck :D

  • Go with the flow and just enjoy the sex. Squirters are hot. He is lucky.

    • Thank you very much for selecting my answer as the most helpful opinion.

    • "Go with the flow" was a play on words, right? LOL

    • @redeyemindtricks. Lol it sounded cool.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah umm wow id have to saw just go with it if he makes you squirt awsome if not he won't be expecting something you may never be able to do for him.
    It also takes the pressure off you to squirt for him and youd be able to relax and not add to the sexual tension you already have

  • A lot of people say go with the flow, I agree but your kind of stuck in the middle, tell him, doesn't happen, hurt feelings or don't tell him, he's not into it, hurt feelings. But that's just the negative, he might like it I know a bunch that do

  • Did girlsaskguys form some kind of contract with pornhub after I deleted my account? Lol

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  • I voted A but it's not a warning. It's not a wrong thing. I revel in my lady squirting and she's like a geyser. If he can't handle it, move on. It takes a real man to celebrate squirting. It's concrete confirmation that he's doing his job and doing it well.

  • you definitely should tell him. i mean do you really want him to find out in the moment?

  • DOn't tell him, It will be an EGO boost for him.

  • Don't say anything. It will be a pleasant surprise for him at the least. lol I find that super hot personally.

  • Almost any guy loves a woman who squirts. It's hot and fun, especially if he is eating your pussy when you do it.

  • Id certainly tell him. Id just say "sometimes" so he is under no pressure.

  • I always love that cute subtly statement on the issue..
    say you squirt.. biting your lip.

    Thats how I normally tell the girl how much cum I've been told I shoot :P

  • just talk to him about it first.

  • That would make my day seeing a date squirt, knowing, I cause that

  • If you squirt first with him you will see how he reacts. If he is upset than you have the same problem as if you have said him before and he will not accept it. In the other case you both are happy.

  • ALWAYS tell a guy that you squirt. I am speaking from many different experiences. No guy will ever get upset about a girl that squirts, but he may get upset if he didn't know that you are a squirter and now his carpet and bed is all wet. If you think about it, it is kind of common courtesy to let a partner know who they are getting into bed with.

  • I think you're better off letting him figure it out by making it happen. If you're truly worried about making a mess or freaking him out you could hint at it by saying something like "we should put his towel down I get really wet sometimes".

    Also there is no such thing as a guy who isn't into squirting. If he's into you it will not matter at all. You're stressing for no reason. Good luck!

  • Surprise him srs, he'll love it

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