Why does he always want me naked?

I'm self conscious about my body I'm thin with really big boobs I feel like they don't match my body everytime I have sex with my boyfriend he always wants me to take off my bra he tells me he wants me naked and he plays with my boobs I don't like them because they kinda sag from how big they are i always try to leave my bra on but he'll just take it off will he eventually stop trying to take my bra off I've told him to stop but he won't listen could he actually be attracted to my boobs I plan on getting a lift and a reduction I'm just very insecure about it
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  • Yes, he's attracted to your boobs! I'm sure they look much better than you seem to think they do.

    Guys are all about visuals. They want to look at their girl and how beautiful and sexy she is.

    If you're really not happy with your boobs---say, they're big enough that their weight gives you back pain---that's a problem and you should see about fixing it. But you shouldn't be ashamed of them or feel the need to hide them from the man you love.

    If my partner hid her breasts from me I'd wonder why she didn't want me to look at them, especially if there was nothing obviously wrong with them. I might wonder if she didn't trust me.

    (She does grumble about her figure, but she never hides it from me.)

  • You were born with amazing boobs that your boyfriend loves and you want to do what?
    A lot of women would kill for a body like yours and I'm sure a lot of men have lust in their eyes when they see you.

    You have one of greatest biological gifts and you want to throw it away.
    Don't get a reduction, you're perfect the way you are.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Most guys like boobs. It's not a secret. Some prefer bigger or smaller, but really as long as they're boobs, guys will be happy. It sounds like your boyfriend really likes yours, which isn't a surprise; the body type you're describing is one that a lot of guys find attractive.
    If your body bothers you, you can get it changed. But I'm telling you, I don't think it's something you should feel insecure about, because being thin with large boobs is usually attractive.

  • I hate my body, I hate that my boobs are too small and my bum wobbles when we do it doggie style. My boyfriend loves it and constantly tells me how beautiful I am and that I'm not fat and don't need another diet, that he loves me the way I am.

    Your boyfriend is probably the same. He loves you, he loves your body! Tell him you don't like them and you are insecure but I bet he will tell you to stop being silly and that he loves them!

  • you should talk to him about that. he probably really likes your boobs. let him know that you're insecure about them, unless you've said it he probably has no idea. he should respect when you tell him to stop doing that. but i do understand why when you have sex he would want your bra off haha

  • You sound perfect.
    And he obviously can't resist you.
    Be proud of those saggy tits. :)

    • what she said

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  • Yes, he is attracted to your breasts and enjoys admiring them. He could be trying to get you to see them as positively as he does, but I would say that he is going about it the wrong way. If you tell him to stop and he does it anyway, he is not respecting you. And it does not matter if he is admiring your body since in not respecting you, he is not respecting your body either. You may want to consider what it is that keeps you in this relationship. Is it actually healthy for you?

  • ..."could he actually be attracted to my boobs".
    He wouldn't want to take off your bra all the time if he wasn't.

  • Why does he always want me naked? Come back when your good OP. #noswag
    It's cuz your hot XD.

  • He loves your body, the way you look.

  • Probably because you're the only one who loves to hate your body

  • Part of what makes sex so great is that both people are usually naked. So it's natural that he wants you both to be naked.

  • Guys really HATE thin girls with big boobs. It must be so awful for him!

    ****SNARK****

    There is NOTHING more attractive than large breasts on a slim girl. THAT'S WHY HE WANTS YOU NAKED!!!

    P. S. They're SUPPOSED to respond to gravity!

  • If you're insecure of being sexy and beautiful, have you considered having yourself surgically mutilated?

  • Cause your hot obviously.

  • You're thin with really big boobs. EVERY guy would always want you naked! That's one of our absolute favorite body types!

    As to whether or not he finds your boobs attractive, just try this experiment: flash him your boobs and see what the reaction is in his pants.