My parents walked in on me having threesome?

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My parents walked in on me having threesome?

My parents caught me having sex yesterday. they just walked right into my room. they didn't know that my boyfriend and my best friend was in my room. my mom freaked out and my dad was pissed. I haven't come out of my room. I have my door locked, and my parents keep telling me they want to have a talk with me. what should I do, what should say to them. I mean I am already on b-control. we always have sex with condoms. what should I say to my parents. please I need advice.

wegetalittletipsy · Accepted Answer

Damn that's awkward.

-On one hand it's their house... but since you're kind of stuck there and we all have needs where else are you supposed to go? (To be fair though, maybe don't do it while their in the house!)
-On the other hand, quite frankly it's your life and you're using protection so I'm kind of on your side.

At least they haven't tried to kick you out - that's a good sign (it means their not super judgemental). Here's what I'd do:
-Tell them you're sorry (I wouldn't be - but they did end up witnessing it so cut them some slack here)
-Make up some story about you being really drunk or maybe someone spiked your drink (obviously be careful what story you tell - you don't want them trying to keep you away from your friends because they think they're dangerous)
-Tell them it won't happen again (while they're in the house anyway ;) )
-Tell them you did and do use two forms of protection

Hopefully that'll cover it. I feel bad for you if they decide to give you the whole "sex before marriage is immoral bla bla bla" talk.

On the plus side though - I hope your experience was fun for the short time before you got caught. It's really great that you're being responsible by using protection.
Chances are in a couple of weeks you'll all have forgotten completely about this awkward situation.

WalterRadio · Accepted Answer

Maybe you can ask if they would like to borrow your best friend when you are done with her?

Threesomes are fantastic with the right people, but you are having sex while your parents are home? Not smart.

StacyNothername · Accepted Answer

I'd take a deep breath, remind yourself that you will get through this, and open that door (literally). Keep in mind that while it's your body and your choices, you are also (presumably) living under their roof so they may expect certain behavior.
I'd use active listening techniques to try to get as much of their perspective as you can, before you "defend your actions". Ask them politely to clarify what they mean ("I'm sorry Mom, I am not sure I understand fully what you just said. Can you elaborate on why you think it's "weird"?)

Their issues with the situation could be literally anything -- you won't know until you ask. Try to be sympathetic to the potential shock from their point of view, and maybe they're be sympathetic to your point of view.

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

If ever was there a time to keep your door locked that might've been it. But, Tell them your a normal growing woman exploring your sexuality and you'd appreciate they knock first in the future. Also, tell them they may want go out later because you're going to explore 5 way gang bangs next.
That way the threesomes not that big of s deal.

Sara413 · Accepted Answer

Haha hahahhahaha Hahaha That sucks yo! But what the hell were you thinking having a threes omega at your friggin parents house?

poopedmypantsagain · Answer

Well if you are into that kind of thing.. maybe you should have got the two guys to rent a motel for this.. as far as your parent's talking to you, after all under you live under their roof.. you have to abide by their rules.. I bet you know already what they want to talk to you about.. if that is something you cannot deal with.. move out

vishna · Answer

They were probably shocked. Just talk to them.

Lioness · Answer

You should just blame them for feeding you all those years with that hormone infused crap food lmao

davidpossey · Answer

you gotta face that shit sooner or later

CheerGirl38139 · Answer

Did you ask them to join?

AndyOh · Answer

I say, what happened - happened and you got caught. Life happens like that sometimes. So go out and deal with the consequences, whatever they may be. I doubt if your parents are so righteous that they never did anything wrong in their early years.
As for your friends, you will know how much of a friend they are depending on how they treat you and help you. Good luck.

Im_just_a_human_girl · Answer

Well tell them they can judge you but to keep it to themselves you have to learn a lesson your way

letsnot · Answer

Move out  Why the hell are you having threesomes in your parents house. You're an adult.

thewanderingme · Answer

ha! that's hilarious. :D you should have locked your door the first time. next time have the threesomes at your boyfriends place

TadCurious · Answer

What I want to know is how you're going to the bathroom?

VirginiaBeachBum · Answer

Play along with their little reaction, whatever it's going to be. You can't change what's been done or how they react to it. But if you are going to do that again, you might want to pick a safer place.

Gooseman · Answer

Well you should go talk to them. There's nothing much that you can say besides apologize for disrespecting them in having sex in their house. You can ensure them that you are on birth control and you are using protection.

Any parent would want to look out for your best interests. They may have rules that you should follow while living in their house and you should respect them for that.

jacquesvol · Answer

"Yeah, it happened, just deal with it, your daughter is an adult."

Other_Tommy_Wiseau · Answer

you have a lock on your door?

Krillanr · Answer

Best get it over with, whatever occurs delaying it won't help any.

RedThread · Answer

Yikes I think you just gotta take it one step at a time and deal with whatever comes head on. Damn the worst thing my parents ever walked in on my doing was like reading Twilight or something..

YusiBear · Answer

Damn, that's hilarious! What's done is done. You'll have to face your parents and live with the repercussions of your actions. And hopefully learn from this.

Shaft50 · Answer

Have you come out of the room yet?

COCOCHANEL · Answer

you have to talk it out. there's no escaping the consequences of your actions.
look, yesterday while you were fucking kiyohara got arrested for possession of heroin thanks to them osaka yamaguchi and now his entire career is over.

gapminder · Answer

Yikes! ! ! ! !

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