Guys, how easy is it for you to get laid?

[Ms_Noname90]

How easy/ difficult is it for an average, single man to get laid these days? Women, we can get it whenever. Do women ever just offer you sex? How much effort do you have to put in?

[Orion1015]

When I was younger, and single, it was surprisingly easy for me to get laid. All I usually had to do was flirt with a girl for a little while. I've been told that I'm very charming, which I suppose had something to do with it. I was notorious for stealing girlfriends and wives, as a matter of fact. It's still something of a joke amongst my closest friends.

It's really hard to say that, without sounding egotistical, but I'm really not full of myself, I promise, lol. I'm actually not very proud of my past, at this point in my life.

I had a few women offer me sex, with very little done on my part, but the circumstances would vary. One girl, for example, was very good friends with someone I'd been with. Apparently, I'd come up in conversation, between the two of them, and she wanted to verify what she'd been told. She pretty much just walked up to me, one day, and asked if we could sleep together. That was all it took.

As I said, though, that was in the past. As I've gotten older, I don't do that sort of thing, anymore. I'm in a long term relationship, now, so I don't need to sleep with random girls.

[xslope]

"How easy/ difficult is it for an average, single man to get laid these days?"
I am terrible getting laid because of my nice nature. It's hard to be straight forward to a girl when your basic instinct is to treat her well and properly. And I freaking love sex!

"Women, we can get it whenever"
Men know this.

"Do women ever just offer you sex?"
Never happened or I never understood the hint. I get some attention and get to nice conversations that go nowhere.

"How much effort do you have to put in?"
Let's put it in this way. If I would have to get laid before the end of the month or I would die (no paid sex because that would count as cheating), I would start to write farewell letter to my friends and would make a plan in which order I would eat the food from my freezer so it wouldn't go to waste.

[MikeKane]

Easy I suppose if you want it from an easy girl, but I like the hunt I like a girl to make me work for it, I like to charm and try my luck after dates at expensive restaurants. But if I really need to get it ASAP it is easy as fuck but most of the time if the girl is to easy I lose interest and won't follow through with it or ask her back to my place. Who knows the amount of men she has been with and risking catching something is not worth a quick lay.

[DarkHumorRUs]

Impossible.

[NJ_Casanova]

An average guy would be luck to get it once a week, and that is if he is really working the girls at bars/clubs... or has no standards, 60yrs old, 300lb'ers.

[AleDeEurope]

It's not easy unless you go to clubs/bars. Girls don't approach you unless in those places, so you gotta do all the work yourself, and 99% of girls you meet at a park or coffee shop (for example) won't go to your apartment to fuck, unlike with girls you meet in clubs.
Since I'm not 21 it's harder cause you can't go to bars and clubs, so I house parties are the best option :P

[Joc4Position]

I get laid every other day by choice.

[Bandit74]

The typical guy has a harder time getting sex than the typical girl.

[JSmuve]

Depends on his standards and outgoing he is.

No standards and outgoing; probably easy
Standards and outgoing; less easy
No standards and not outgoing; not easy
Standards and not outgoing; impossible

No woman has ever randomly offered me sex. They're too scared of being judged a slut for that.

[QuestionMan]

It's much harder since we don't get offers left and right the way women do since we usually don't get approached. It's about as difficult as a math test for some and as easy as putting your clothes on for others.
The amount of effort varies depending on the girl.

[ninja9898]

I consider myself a pretty good looking guy but it's not that easy to just go out and get laid unless you already have girls that you've been leading it on with. As for just going out and meeting a random girl and getting laid (I dont want ugly nasty girls either) is pretty difficult. The situation has to be just right and of course have to be where girls are single and didn't come with guys. I'm picky though and don't want to just have sex with an average or ugly girl, I want a pretty one so that makes it more difficult and you have to be where pretty girls are

[DBAOracle]

Eh, why work? I have a full-time job. I can just pay for it, no? LOL.