Why do guys like to spank girls?

Question

hello! So long story short my boyfriend likes to spank. We will be kissing and boom! He'll spank my butt. Which is totally fine, i dont mind it, but sometimes it can sincerely hurt. I ended with a bruise the last time he came over after class. Part of that is I bruise easily, but still thats a good smack! Why do boys like to spank? and why so hard? Im sincerely curious now since my boyfriend just loves to do it. Any advice would help thank you so much! :)

poopedmypantsagain · Accepted Answer

Well here is my answer to that question and it is very honest one as I am a very upfront and honest person.. please do not view this as being a sarcastic in any way, here goes.. when I go out on dates and I do still like to do that a lot even though I now wear diapers and rubber pants, but all the ladies that I do date are told that I wear them and why I do before the date is even set up and not once have I been turned down because I wear them.. we usually have ended up at either her place or mine after I have taken her out to dinner, maybe a movie or even both, anyways what most all the ladies have liked to do to me is slowly take off my pants and left only wearing my diapers and rubber pants.. then they have put me over their knee and spanked me.. this gets me very turned on and ready for another task rather quickly at that.. and they all knew it right away.. as the smiles they gave me were so very pleasant

After they were done with me I then undressed them down to their cute panties, put them over my knee and spanked them.. and for what ever reason.. I will let you be the judge of that.. it also made them very hot and horny just like they made me.. we then both crawl into the bed and make sweet love.. I not only like the spanking's the ladies give to me.. but also very much enjoy giving one to them.. we both then sit and cuddle afterwards and talk about thing.. every date I have been on has been just fantastic... for both her... and for me.. I am not some guy that goes out on a date every night of the week or anything like that, but I have went out on many over the years since my bad fall.. the spanking's are a bit of foreplay and just something that seems to just turn them on and me on.. I hope you do not mind my honesty on this post.. I was not shy to say it and I am never shy to wear them.. they are just a part of my life now and I am always a happy campers even while wearing them.. and after the date so are they.. take care now

shark21 · Accepted Answer

it's just that boys like it it makes them fell horny for example when I spanked my girlfriend she has code words to tell when to stop so every time she begs me to stop I keep going because I can. so I guess what i'm trying to say is it fells good to be in control of a woman's ass to make it red by slapping it but however sometimes they might also ask for wedgies but that's up to you but don't say no when your boyfriend asks to spank you

GigiMary · Accepted Answer

My boyfriend spanks me both in a sexual context and out of it (as discipline).

It turns me on and makes me wet when he does it sexually, and sometimes even non-sexually. I think it gives him a sense of control and dominance that pleases him. It certainly gives me a pleasing sense of being dominated, submissive, and even, oddly enough, being taken care of.

Men and women are different, and I think we are on the whole naturally more submissive, while it is vice versa for guys.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I love when guys spank me and for me I like that theyre in control and theyre being rough and animalistic I don't know. Just like that one thing that turns me on.

StarlightSwift · Accepted Answer

It isn't just boys. I am a female and I love it. It is just a sexual attraction to pain. We all have different sexual attractions that can't be helped.

SomeGuy37 · Answer

I don't, unless she is one of those that gets aroused by it. I never thought that spanking could get someone excited, but on girlfriend I was with LOVED it!!
I don't want to hurt anyone, ever, and I catch bugs, in my house, and put them outside, rather than kill them.
This girl, a little 'crazy', I think, liked a hard spanking, and she said it turned her on, and made her orgasms more intense.
She had a really nice bottom, but in the end, I couldn't do what she needed with the spanking thing.

NJ_Casanova · Answer

Some people are into that, get's the guy and/or the girl aroused. When in doggie I do that... it's jsut to tempting.. being right there;-P I normally don't do it ( like in BDSM) it turns me off.

archiz · Answer

guys just love butts girl xD and spanking an ass is a display of dominance

jacquesvol · Answer

*Some* guys seem to like that. Count me out. Freud or Jung (?) might suppose they want to be some kind of authoritarian dad towards girls. That might also be the reason *some* girls accept it/like it.

johnanamoly · Answer

You must have a spankable butt :) Take it as a compliment.

Maxemeister · Answer

Dominance, butts r fun, etc.

Jared____ · Answer

It's a dominance thing and Somtimes guys want it to hurt

SlaveJ · Answer

It's a natural male thing though the modern media (mainly porn) reinforces it and suggests that's the way to go. Personally I like a woman to spank me. And hard at that. I'd never think of spanking her hard unless she requested it.