Is it normal that I jack off to my girlfriend's pictures?

So yeah.. I do this... And we have had sex many times before but sometimes we just don't have the privacy to have sex so I uh get off to her pictures and not like nudes or anything just like pictures of her. 1. Is this normal? 2. And would she be weirded out if I told her?
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3. What would be the most respectful way to tell her that I do?
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  • Seriously man... don't tell her.
    Lets look at this logically, ok?
    There are two options here:
    1) she already assumes that - in that case, she may react normal, but she'll wonder why you needed to tell her that: she'll think you are horny in that moment, and are even horny when you're not with her. This can take two roads with the same ending : she's open minded and tells you she does it too, or she says nothing, and thinks there's no need to share what you do in private. The ending is that they'll remember this, and in any fight or argument down the road, she'll throw it at you. You'll be perceived by just wanting sex, even when you're not with her, only sex is on your mind, etc..
    There is a slight chance she'll send you photos on purpose... but are you willing to take the risk? I think you need to "keep some value for yourself and reveal it all", quote from a wise woman

    2) She doesn't assume that, and is grossed by it. She starts thinking about what you think of doing with her.. the more you answer, the deeper you're digging your own grave... even worse, what you did before knowing her.. she'll think of that about you now everytime she sees a pic of a girl in your facebook "would he fap to this one?", and the perceval of only wanting sex and the future arguments also apply.

    Answering to your first question: yeah of course it's normal, you shouldn't even need pictures...

  • Yes it's normal. Especially if she isn't there much of the time.

    She shouldn't be. She would freak if it's pics of other girls you know.

    • Yeah, honestly I'm a little nervous to tell her but I've been dying to tell her

    • If you guys haven't talked about sex, masturbation, or how horny you guys are it might be hard to just start into that conversation. So as much as you are dying for it don't rush it either. I would love to do the same thing to a girlfriend but it's a tricky thing.

    • Thanks for the response man, knowing myself I'll probably blurt it out in mid conversation while she's talking about pandas or something lmfao

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  • I don't think it's weird and is actually a way to meet your needs while respecting your relationship and using photos of your girlfriend. Depending on her personality she may actually like it. I know I've liked knowing that if I can't be with my boyfriend sexually he has my photos to make him happy

    • Thanks for your response! I'm really nervous :s what would be the most respectful way to tell her?

    • Oh I don't think it should be made weird. I definitely think you know just next time y'all have a private moment mentioning it to her and feeling her out about it. Just matters how comfortable she is about her body and her own sexuality

  • Normal, it would pretty much be the same thing as imagining her face while masturbating instead looking at pictures of her.

    I don't know if she'd get weirded out though, everyone gives completely different reactions to that kind of thing..

    • Yeah, I'm just really nervous about telling her at this point. I mean in your opinion what is the most respectful way for me to go about this and tell her?

  • Don't all guys do that? I encourage my husband to take pictures and make videos specifically so that he can look at them. The more he gets turned on by me, the better. :)

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  • I doubt she'd be weirded out. I'd like it. Definitely better than you looking at someone else to get off.

  • Dude you are normal. Better to jerk off to her then to porn. Ask her if she masturbates to pictures of you!

  • 1. It is normal
    2. She should be fine with it. Turned on, even, if you've had sex with her

  • Completely normal. If I was your girlfriend I would even be flattered to be honest.

    • I think there's no harm in telling her. You can just say it like it is. When you're with her you can start by saying you have something to tell her. After she asks, you tell the truth. Or maybe you can also start by asking what she usually masturbates to? When she gives you the answer and asks about you, you can tell her: "You know, sometimes I wish we could have sex, but we can't. so sometimes I masturbate thinking about you or loking to your pics. do you think it's weird?" Anyways, I'm like 99% sure she won't be weirded. She probably knows that's normal for guys to do. Don't worry so much and good luck!

  • I'd love it if my boyfriend told me he masturbated to me. You know her better than I do obviously, but if she is into you sexually, I'd bet she's happy with it.

  • Normal and I would think she would find that hot but it really depends on her personality. And I'm just in "aw " that guys can beat it to a picture, see you guys do have an imagination.

  • It is normal and I don't think she'd be weirded out. At least I wouldn't like come on you know for sure he's head over heels for you

  • Its common

  • very normal. ☺

  • Totally normal. And you won't know until you tell her.

    • Thanks for the reply! I'm glad I'm not weird haha

  • People have done this for generations. Why do you think soldiers treasured photos of their wives and they half a world away?

  • It's normal.
    And she will probably be flattered.

    • Awesome thank you so much for the reply!

  • I think it's cool

  • mine gave me some good nudes and I use them a lot, now that she's my ex, it's a lot harder tho... I'm tempted to delete them

  • I would bet my last $ most guys do it at least once.

    • No don't tell her. Keep it to yourself.

  • I think it's normal and I'm sure she prefers you masturbating to her than some other girls from porn

  • It's normal. She should be flattered

    • So you don't think she would be weirded out?

    • She shouldn't be. Girls are complicated man, but don't be scared to just ask. That's why you're in a relationship with her in the first place. You can talk about anything and still love each other

    • That's very true, thank you so much for the response!

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  • yes, pretty normal

    • Pretty normal? :s

  • totally normal, if you want to tell her, ask her for some nudes. The conversation will eventually lead to what you're already doing

  • Its cute. I would be flattered

    • Nice! I'm sure you have a reason to be flattered too :P

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