My girlfriend told me sometimes when we have sex she can't feel me?

[Anonymous]

So my girlfriend told me that most of the time when we are having sex that she can't feel me on her walls just the entrance (going in and out). So I asked her am I too small for you she said no but when I ask her if I was thicker would that help and she said yes I would like if you was a inch or two thicker like the size of a cigarette box. So later on I got hard and put my cock up to a cigarette box and it's about a little more then half the thickness. So I Google and found this toilet paper roll test and I fail. I can fit it inside just won't go all the way through I'm shaped kinda werid. I'm fine with my lenth about 7 inches. Oh we do have a daughter but it was a c section. Anyway what I'm wondering is do you think it's more because I'm thin or is it something up with her? satisfy my girlfriend and her saying she can't feel anything it just a lot

[Bobba_Fett]

I'm fairly certain that, even if I had an answer for you, that it would not matter. It doesn't matter cause there just ins't anything you can do about your size. Accept you are what you are, and work the problem from there.

My advice on satisfaction is: get some tools. Got to the freaky store nearest you and get the i'ma-make-her-cum-before-intercourse starter kit.

[Asker]

So your saying forget about satisfying her with my dick and use toys instead

[Bobba_Fett]

Almost yes. I'm saying that if you make her cum before the sex, then she's guaranteed to be happy before you even start with the dick. That means, all the good ju-ju she gets from the dick is bonus orgasms! It's like gambling with house money brotha!

[Asker]

That's seems like go advice but then wouldn't she just only want the toys then and nothing else

[Bobba_Fett]

:) No, cause thats not what sex is about. Plus the tools are just the hors d'oeuvres remember. You're still the main course mate.

[Asker]

I'm think I might be scared to try this as my girlfriend said she never had a vibrator maybe I'm just insecure she will like it to much

[Bobba_Fett]

Toys get put away mate. You're the man she loves, and who she's with, there ain't no machine that can replace you. Start off with a vibrating cock ring, its a treat for the both of you. Or a small fingertip massager, and finger blast that lady of yours to ecstasy. In the end, we're just brainstorming here. Ask her what you asked us. Tell her your concern and share your favorite ideas you got here. See if she'd be up for anything/everything. If anything I think she needs to know your concerns, and that you're highly interested in curling her toes.

[Pats1213]

Be happy she's still with you. My ex dumped me because of my girth

[Anonymous]

I think toilet paper rolls are all different sizes, so it's probably not a very reliable test. Maybe you're not hard enough.

[Asker]

Oh that's one problem I don't have I get hard very easy aren't most us to rolls around the same size

[Opinion Owner]

Some of the cheaper brands use a bigger roll because it makes it look like there's more tp on it.

[Asker]

Oh wow didn't know that lol

[Opinion Owner]

In any case, you're probably fine. In my experience, after you've been banging for a while and you're all aroused and wet, you don't feel the dick as much. Like there isn't as much resistance. I doubt there's anything wrong with either of you.

[Asker]

She did tell me something weird. She said that because she loves me she loves the sex but I was thinking about what else she said and how can you love the sex and not feel anything?

[Opinion Owner]

She's feeling your pubic bone against hers, your hands on her skin, your lips on hers. There's a lot more to sex than intercourse. Especially for women. It's like 90% foreplay for us.

[Supergirl0812]

Maybe she get too wet, when I get too wet I can't feel much

[Asker]

I don't know but it's not like wet wet. but it does start out where I can feel her entrance then after like 10 mins all I feel it just warmth and wetness no friction or anything

[Supergirl0812]

Sometimes my boyfriend has to wipe me down with a towel during sex

[Asker]

Yeah she never get that wet so that's not the problem than