Meh.
You say he wants to have sex with you, and it sounds like you're talking about sexual intercourse. Setting aside concerns about your friendship for now, is that something you also want? Is it something you feel ready for in your life in general, and ready for all that can involve, and also something you want with this particular person?
If you're not sure, it can be helpful to think about if it's something you would want even if the other person didn't; if it's something you'd thought about, maybe even fantasized about or imagined, before he put it out there.
It might help to think about how much you, all by yourself, have thought about having sexual intercourse, and how much desire, if any, you have had on your own to have intercourse with someone soon.
It sounds like your friend is pushing for what he wants, rather than just putting it out there and letting you take your time responding back, and is even perhaps trying to talk you into sex here. That's no way to walk into any sexual experience that's likely to be positive.
It's also not a way to walk into a sexual experience that's truly consensual. There's not enough room for real consent when one person is filling up the back of the proverbial pickup truck with so many boxes of their own wants that the other person can't find room for even one of theirs.
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This was interesting to read. For me, I think it's normal for things like that to cross your mind, even when your just friends, so yes it has. But, I truly believe there's a side of me that just doesn't want to, because it's not worth losing him over. On some days I'm curious and tempted and others I'm just like no way. He is definitely pushing this way more than I am. Your last two paragraphs really made me realize some things.
Of course you should. Teach him encourage him. I think there is no problem now the sexual tension obviously has built up. When your friends for so long there is no place to go but increase sexual tension. You care about each other you are attracted to each other. Allow things to grow
If there is some sexual tension between both of you , why wouldn't you go for it?
Just because he is your best friend?
I think that if you choose having sex with him it will change your relation to him, but if you don't, it will also change it has you now know he wants you.
I guess I don't want to lose him. Cause when you start doing those things, it just becomes complicated and it seems risky. He has told me before he doesn't mind staying great friends, he just says he sees potential in us. He told me he sees it both ways.
Life is about taking risk. A best friend can become your Love.
If you're feeling the sexual tension, and if your mind is having fantasies of doing sexual things with him, then. . . why not? Don't you deserve to feel sexual pleasure? (Assuming he knows what he's doing when/if he goes down on you.) And obviously he's your friend and you trust him. It could really be a win-win. I'm rooting for your pussy to get eaten out by this guy. Let us know how it goes if it happens!
Lmfao!!! This was hilarious. I'm really glad you're rooting for me. Thank you 😝And of course we trust each other immensely, if I was to do it with anyone, it would be with him but it's tough because we really are fantastic friends.
thanks for MH Guy opinion!
If you want things to escalate then go for it, but your not going to be able to undo what ever happens so if he has feelings for you or you develop feelings for him and their is no reciprocation that could destroy your friendship with that in mind just do what your comfortable with.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It sounds like until you either capitulate or stop being friends, it's just gonna get progressively worse so decide what you want and do it.
If you're looking for a friends with benefits or just a hook-up, give it a try. If you're expecting it to turn into something more, don't keep your hopes up.
Best friends make the best boyfriends.
Well if your comfortable with it why not try
I don't see any reason why you wouldn't take him up on his offer and open those legs for him.
Are you single?
Do you want a relationship?
Are you okay forgoing this freindship for something more?
If yes, then yup
Physically, it's the #1 way girls orgasm so I think you would probably love it. Psychologically, it's going to change the dynamic of relationship once he's gone down on you.
What could be better?
If it feels right than go for it. But 9/10 if it happens you guys won't be able to just be friends again.
If you're already letting him click your mouse, what's the harm in it?
I mean, it was just a touch, I didn't orgasm or anything like that. It didn't go that far.
I see. Well, do you think your friendship can stand up to the whole thing turning awkward for a while if it goes down (pun shamelessly intended) and things get awkward for a while?
To be honest, nothing ever gets awkward with us. Even the touching thing (which is a real test) I saw him the next day and we were just the same way we always are, fantastic friends. It's hard for people to understand how great our bond is, but that is precisely the reason why I'm hesitating. Our friendship is beautiful and I am reluctant for it to change.
Go ahead, you already crossed that line
Nah, not really. It was just a grobe and a kiss. Nobody came or REALLY crossed a line lol.
I wonder what made him looked at you in sexual way recently? Loneliness? Break up mess? If he is getting involved sexually with you for the wrong reasons but not because he is genuine about appreciating you, then i don't think you should let him do this to you?
According to him, he's been seeing more than just a friend for the past year, I guess it's all catching up to him. I don't think it's a good idea to get involved sexually. Our friendship is too great to lose
He is taking advantage of you
Yeah, it can be amazing for both you and him.
You definitely should.
You are tempted. And it didn't feel weird he touched you. And there is a sexual tension for two months already. Hmmm, give it a chance to be deeper connected.
And why are you just friends? Do you have commitment issues?
You've already let him touch it, you might as well.
You should
Once you cross that line it's not a friendship anymore; it's something much more, the risk in doing it is if it doesn't work, you may lose a friend, but then you may gain a great lover and relationship. I found that being friend first then lovers makes for a better romantic relationship. Talk about what your expectations are, be upfront and open, you are friends. Good luck!
what this guy said
go fro it. if there is touching then there may as well be eating..
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