I'm not germ-phobic but clean hands is a must. With my ex he knew it was a ritual to wash first and then he could have his wicked ways with me after. In my mind, if he came from outside there is a possibility he touched something and whatever it was accumulated some serious germs and shit that have no business being inside of my vagina. If you want clean hands, just tell him, if he gets offended that's his deal.
I've had some guys that I was hesitant to let touch me cuz of the accumulated grime. Sometimes there's not much they can do if they work with their hands...
Though guys with really great hygiene manage to get their nails clean almost every time, it seems. So I dunno. 😕
I ask them to wash their cock before I put it in my mouth too. If it makes you comfortable, you should definitely ask him. Try to make it sound nice though, make him know it's not him you find nasty but just some weird thing from your side you would like them to accept.
I think that would totally kill the moment if I was asked to wash my hands before I could finger my girlfriend. I mean it's getting all hot and heavy and you go to finger your girlfriend and she tells you "stop, you have to wash your hands first before you finger me" by the time you come back you'd be limp as a noodle
If have to agree here lol
@Daynada I'm glad I'm not the only one that thinks so
Well, it would kinda ruin the mood. I'm mean hygiene is important but that is def a mood killer!
Hygiene is so important for sex and as a woman is going to give you such an intimate thing yes I'd wash my hands.
I might not be in such a rush afterwards as the scent of a woman is so amazing.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would, it's my body he's putting those fingers in, of course i want them clean at the start.
No but I'd suggest you carry some hand sanitizer to offer him instead. It's more convenient.
Awkward thing to ask, sure, but completely reasonable.
Infections are worse than awkward moments before sex.
No not weird, just means you don't want germs up in there. Your vagina has a healthy ph level and introducing things that aren't clean to the area is not ideal.
I wouldn't ask unless knew he just ate wings or something with spices all over his fingers. :P Just ask him to if it bothers you that much, though.
I wash my hands frequently. I think it totally reasonable to wash your hands before fingering as well as doing a handjob.
Ehh, no, I wouldn't think it was weird though I can see why a guy might be annoyed or offended by the request.
If they are dirty, id wash em before sexy time.
If a girl asked me to do it first, i would never be insulted over it. Eveb if they were pre-op surgeon's hands
No I wouldn't tell him that unless I just saw him do something gross, like my ex had his hand in his dogs mouth and tried fingering me... I was disgusted
Totally bit weird in fact I do that already. I feel uneasy touching someone's insides without my hands being at least somewhat reliably clean.
... I meant "not weird" dammit.
no, its very smart. the virgin is a very delicate environment. who knows what kind of bacteria could be on his hands
I meant vagina. I clicked the wrong word
It wouldn't bother me if you told me to (I probably would anyway but if I didn't). In fact I'd respect it as I would know your as concerned about sexual health as I am. Some guys would take it as a mood killer though but they shouldn't.
I always do anyway.
No and if he would get weird about it, just tell him that you don't want any infections because his hands weren't clean. I know to do it, but a sweetly said reminder wouldn't harm anyone.
no, but it would be a mood KILLER!
it would be weird to assume, that he has not washed their hands before doing it xD most guys want to be really clean for their girl, cause everybody knows that a lack of body hygiene is a turn off.
Not weird. Caution is hot.
I don't mind
not really, but just tell him politely or indirectly
gud luck :)
unless i have been eating something messy i don't think i need to
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