Is my friend with benefits an asshole?

TheBlindAssassin Xper 4

A few days ago I met a guy online, we're both 31 and we agreed to be friends with benefits since both of us are attached. Last night I travelled an hour by train to see him, but when I arrive he gets called into work to fix something. He tells me to walk to his place, I say it's 25 minutes away and his response is lol. I take an Uber and when he shows up, he isn't friendly at all and impatiently waits for me to get settled. When I ask if he could put music on, he says he doesn't have any which sounds really strange to me. So we get in bed, immediately he starts ordering me around and won't even look at my face. I'll admit that when he started fingering me, I really liked it but it stopped as quickly as it started. After briefly performing oral on him, he comes and cleans himself up in the bathroom. Suddenly he gets a text saying he has to fix something else at work, tells me to dressed and once again is impatient with me. He drives me back to the train station this time, but when I try to make conversation he ignores me and says he doesn't talk much. Even though he says good night, I ask him for a kiss but he looks straight ahead and says I don't do that. I'm really pissed off at this point and say nothing as I get out of the car. I start crying on the train back home because I was torn. He treated me with little respect but I was attracted to him and he knew how to pleasure me. I've had friends with benefits in the past and at least we'd make out because to me that's a crucial part of foreplay. Is it because he's in a relationship that he doesn't want to kiss me? Because I've only had this arrangement with single guys. Anyway, I search our texts and he DID say he would kiss me once. So I screencap it and say you lied to me, you said you would kiss me. He hasn't responded and it's been almost a day now. Can someone please tell me what's going on here?

Updates:

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Yes, I'm aware that both of us are in relationships and therefore we are cheating on our SOs. I don't need anymore reminders or opinions about how we're both assholes, thank you.

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Yesterday I broke down after someone told me I need to stop seeking validation from others. Because it was the harsh truth that I needed to hear, and brought forth the real reason why I cheated in the first place. My father passed away last month after a long battle from cancer, and we were very close so it's hit me quite hard. He loved me so much, and I feel so empty now that he's gone.

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charlottiee Xper 5
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Darling you"ve been used and tour simply his bit on the side. He has totally disrespected you in his behaviour from the moment you met up, he doesn't care. You should forget this arrangement, you'll onlyend up being further disrespected and used, your worth more than that. Im sure more attractive men who will respect and love you will bring you more pleasure (and I dnt mean just sexually- because fingering is not q hard thing to get right) sorry if I've come across harsh but he's treated you awfully
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- TheBlindAssassin
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  Thank you, and yes you're right he was definitely using me. He had been disrespectful to me since the beginning, saying he owned me now but I ignored it because I thought maybe he'd be nicer if I could please him. But clearly this wasn't the case when he rudely refused to kiss me good night. He's definitely history, and it looks like he's done with me too because I haven't heard from him since.
douride2 Master
+1 y
You both win the prize for asshole being as your both attached to someone eles.
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- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  Thanks for your opinion, but I was about about his behaviour and not mine.
- douride2
  +1 y
  Yes he's being a big asshole. I wouldn't go back again.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I agree with you, and I never want to see him again. Fortunately he hasn't texted me yet and I'll be surprised if he does.
Anonymous
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Gimme a break. He's an extreme asshole. Forget him. Find someone else.
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- TheBlindAssassin
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  My low confidence and self-esteem only hopes that he'll turn around and apologize, because he's the only man who's found me sexually attractive in 7 years.

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Helpmeplease44 Xper 5
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Not sure what you expected with a friends with benefits.

there's no rules saying you have to be nice, kiss kiss and treat eachother like humans.

It sounds like you want a relationship, not a boyfriend.

Sure he behaved like an ass, but you're eachother's booty call - you're not his girlfriend.

I hope when you say both of you are attached, it doesn't mean what I think it means.

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- TheBlindAssassin
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  I've had friends with benefits in the past, and at least they would kiss me and look me in the eyes! But I'm not looking for a relationship, just someone to hook up with from time to time and have some fun. Neither of us are married, I've been in a relationship for 11 years and I don't know how long his has been going on for.
- Helpmeplease44
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  so you guys are mutually cheating? nice.
  
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- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  Thanks for your compassion regarding this matter.
coolbreeze Master
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He was a jerk. What he did was so wrong and he was so rude. He could had kissed you and made you feel more comfortable. The whole thing seemed so rushed and you made the effort to see you. He should had been very happy.
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- TheBlindAssassin
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  Thank you! Is it just refusing to kiss me that made him a jerk or the way he treated me in general? To be honest, I felt like a whore afterwards. :(
- coolbreeze
  +1 y
  Don't feel like a whore. Sex is good and if the person is nice and positive then the experience is better. He should had treated you like a queen. I think it was the way he treated you in general besides the kiss. He also didn't have good music. What a loser he is. I know it's fwbs and not catching feelings. But he still could had treated you proper and with some class and respect.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  Thank you again... that's exactly how I feel about sex, it should be nice and positive. I'm a playful and outgoing person, but he has been mostly cold and distant towards me. I came all the way out there just to see him, yet he didn't make me feel welcome or even wanted. Just a piece of ass to get him off and pass the time. I've told him repeatedly that kindness and respect goes a long way with me, but he still chooses to ignore this advice. I'm glad that his behaviour isn't considered normal though, it gives me hope that I'll find a man who will appreciate me.
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- coolbreeze
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  Yes his behavior is not normal. And yes I think with time you can find a better and decent guy. He should not be taking you for granted. True you made that long train ride to see him. Yes he should had made you happy and make you feel wanted. Kindness does go a long way. He shouldn't be acting like that or treating you like that. Yes sex should be fun, happy and very positive. He is acting cold and distant and like he doesn't care. If he looses you one day then that will be his lost.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  What's my next move then? I was thinking that I should leave him alone until he comes crawling back to me.
- coolbreeze
  +1 y
  Yes I think you should leave him alone and let him crawl back to you and beg. I think he would cave in eventually and want you to come see him. Let him suffer alittle.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I like the way you think! ;)
- coolbreeze
  +1 y
  Lol thanks. :)

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Red_Arrow Master
+1 y
"we agreed to be friends with benefits since both of us are attached."
"Can someone please tell me what's going on here?" Yes. You were both cheating on your SO's.
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- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  That's your opinion, because I don't believe in monogamy.
- Red_Arrow
  +1 y
  And what does your SO believe?
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I'm bisexual and he's okay with me having sex with women, but not men. When I asked why, it's because he doesn't see me dumping him for another woman. So it's kind of a grey area with him.
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- Red_Arrow
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  He is NOT okay with you having sex with other men. So what do you consider to be a gray area? So apparently by your guy;s own belief, you are cheating on him. Not just my opinion.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I didn't come here to argue about cheating, I wanted to know whether this guy's behaviour was over the top. He didn't treat me with respect at all.
- Red_Arrow
  +1 y
  It is true that he is not treating you with respect. And I am pointing out why he probably does not feel any great respect for you. And yes, I know he is cheating, also. Just no need for any respect there.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  Thanks, all I wanted to know was whether his behaviour was disrespectful.
- truthhammer
  +1 y
  Ur being rude to ur guy so seems fair he's being rude to u lol
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  @truthhammer Yes, what I did is not cool to my SO and I feel bad about it. Unfortunately this isn't the only time something like this has happened. I know exactly why I do it, but when my judgement is impaired when I get really depressed. There were plenty of warning signs that this guy was trouble, yet I chose to ignore him because I wanted him to pay attention to me and like me. However I maintain my belief that I did not deserve to be treated so poorly by this guy, especially when it was our first time meeting!
hnrya20 Xper 5
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He used you they way you deserved. You both are in relationships, but you are selfish in thinking you deserve to be more than an object from someone who isn't your SO. You started crying because a married man wouldn't kiss you, but I wonder how your boyfriend/husband's emotions would be like knowing your doing this.
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- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  Neither of us are married, and thanks for putting all the blame on me when he's just as guilty as I am. Especially since I asked what's up with his behaviour, not your opinion on cheating.
- hnrya20
  +1 y
  Married or just in a relationship, you explained in your story how it made you feel and made you cry, as if he should be obligated to add emotions. He's not any better than you, but he's not an asshole for using you. He's an asshole for cheating. His behavior is not wrong, considering you guys are just sexual objects to one another. That's what friends with benefit is, if there was emotion, it would be a relationship.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  That is not true, I have had friends with benefits and I was never treated this poorly by any of them.
thevioletogre Xper 4
+1 y
the first mistake made was being friends with benefits and being attached. friends with benefits works better if there is no emotional attachments. it was doomed from the start.
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- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I can understand wanting no emotional attachment, but he was rude and not a gentleman at all.
- thevioletogre
  +1 y
  he probably was afraid of catching any feelings for you so he made it impersonal and quick you also said he got a text he probably knew the text was coming and neglected to tell you and used it as an excuse to get away. the rule guys learn about friends with benefits is if he feels anything during a session stop because things get messier over time. he also has a s. o. so he probably felt guilty during the session. and is trying in his own way to make it better.
- thevioletogre
  +1 y
  im not excusing his actions but i see the situation and i understand why he would do such things. if your going to cheat at least make it fun before you regret it
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- thevioletogre
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  you shouldn't feel like a whore but you should feel guilty for cheating. i hope you confess before he finds out because it gives you a chance to work out the problem before shit hits the fan
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  The sad part is that I don't feel guilty. My father passed away last month and I loved him more than anyone. All I can feel now is loneliness and anger.
- thevioletogre
  +1 y
  I'm sorry to hear that. the only advice i have for you now is to accept his death and move on so you can build yourself up a stronger person
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  Thank you, it's not going to be an easy or quick process but I am looking forward to the day when I can be reminded of him and smile.
- thevioletogre
  +1 y
  your very welcome good luck :)
lolatyou Xper 5
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That's what happens when you sleep with men so easily.
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- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  Slut-shaming, really classy.
- lolatyou
  +1 y
  I don't recall even using the word "slut". I don't care what you do or how many men you lay down with but be prepared to be treated how you act, like in this situation.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I didn't say you used the word slut, I said you were slut-shaming because you were being judgmental about my choice to hook up with a man. We didn't even have sex either, it was probably all over in 10-15 minutes. Anyway, I'm asking about his behaviour because I felt degraded and humiliated.
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- lolatyou
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  Well you could prevent that by not putting yourself in that situation. I'm not saying he's not a jerk, i'm just saying when you carry yourself a certain way you attract that type of person.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  What you're saying makes sense, and I wish it were that easy. I don't know what to say without telling you my life story, but basically I am a lonely person with low self-esteem and I will do almost anything for attention. Even though this guy treated me like shit, I want him to talk to me again and say he wants more. Part of me is hoping that maybe he'll warm up to me and be a little more fun if I can please him in bed.
- lolatyou
  +1 y
  Well i'm sorry that you feel that way about yourself. I'm not trying to be mean to you but a lot of women who put themselves in these situations have something wrong within themselves. So maybe take some time to yourself and fix your issues first. Going the route that you're going isn't going to do anything but make it worse, you're putting a band aid on the real problem. I really hope that things get better for you though.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I know there's something seriously wrong with me but I'm beyond help... my father died last month and I've been a train wreck ever since. I suffer from anxiety, depression, and chronic pain from fibromyalgia which doesn't help matters either. So I'm not sure if there's a light at the end of this tunnel...
OnePunchMan Xper 4
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You're 31, grow up. You're clearly not cut out for this kind of relationship.
He doesn't have to care about a single thing, he's just there to fuck you.

If you can't make your needs known to him then don't waste your time.
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- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  If anyone should grow up, it's him. I can handle being friends with benefits, but the way he treats me is just rude and disgusting. I've told him several times that a little bit of kindness and respect go a long way with me, but he chooses to ignore it. We'll see what happens when he's dying for another shot with me.
- OnePunchMan
  +1 y
  You're the one unhappy with the way he's treating you. Wouldn't the "grown up" already move on from this toxic relationship?
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I don't want to let him go because no other men want me... it's as simple as that. My SO and I barely even have sex anymore because there's no spark. Last year I was debating on ending our relationship but I like our life together, he simply can't meet my sexual needs anymore. I was about your age when we got together, and I've learned that you can't expect to sleep with only one person for the rest of your life. Monogamy isn't natural, it's something society conditions us into believing yet look at how many people cheat and how many marriages fail. I've been faithful for a long time, but why fight my attraction to other people?
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- OnePunchMan
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  Guess what? He doesn't want you either, that's why you're not his girlfriend and it's just sex. "My SO and I barely even have sex anymore" So on top of all of this, you're also cheating on your SO?
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I mentioned we were both attached in my question. Yes, I get that I'm not his girlfriend but you think it's okay for him to treat me like shit?
- OnePunchMan
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  Answer me this, do you believe someone who doesn't have the decency to break up with their partner before choosing to have sex with someone else deserves to be treated any more than shit? Not judging you, quite frankly I don't care at all about you but I'm sure you've heard of the saying "You can't have your cake and eat it too".
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  It's more complicated than that and not easy to understand at your age. I've been in a relationship for 11 years, and our sex life is non-existent already. But I don't want to leave him because we get along great and I can't imagine my life without him. I've told him several times that I'm not satisfied and he gives me excuses like being tired or thinking I don't want to do anything. To be honest though I am bored as well, and be probably is too. So I've decided to look for what I need elsewhere. I don't think it's asking too much for my friends with benefits to not treat me like a prostitute though.
- OnePunchMan
  +1 y
  My age is not a factor up for discussion. The fact is I'm experienced and mature enough to know if my sex life is lacking something, I'd talk to my partner and see if we can work it out. If my partner is unwilling to work with me on this then I have every right to leave because I am unhappy and they no longer care. I'm old enough to know that if I love my partner so much, then it's better for me to end my relationship with them rather than crush their trust, loyalty and self-esteem by cheating on them. From my perspective, someone who's shown to be as selfish as you doesn't deserve to be treated any more than a prostitute.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  My mind is a lot clearer today, so allow me to respond please. Yes, my sex life is lacking but it isn't entirely my SO's fault. I suffer from chronic pain, depression, and anxiety so he has a hard time figuring out what kind of mood I'm in and he's not as forward of a person as I am. So he generally leaves me alone until I make the first move, I understand why he does it but I wish he wouldn't. Unfortunately this is something I've done before and I don't have the heart to trouble him with something that was obviously a bad idea to begin with. There were plenty of warning signs that this guy was an asshole but I chose to ignore him because I was lonely and wanted attention even if it meant having sex with a complete stranger. I'm so grateful that we didn't do much because then I'd be completely broken right now. My relationship with my SO isn't perfect, but I can't imagine my life without him.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  So it's my responsibility to tell him what's missing, because he generally does his best to make me happy. Yesterday I finally broke down in tears when someone said that I need to stop seeking validation from others. Because I didn't know him very well but I knew he was right too. It's been an on-going pattern for most of my life, because I constantly crave love and attention even if I have to do questionable things in order to get it. When I'm really depressed and anxious, that's when I do things that I know are wrong because it's like being in a trance. But once I snap out of it, the depression and anxiety only intensifies along with extreme feelings of guilt. I'm going to keep this secret from my SO because I don't want to hurt him when I know what I did was a mistake. All I can do is try and stop myself from letting it happen again. Sorry for the novel here but that's the best explanation I can give you.
Browneye57 Master
+1 y
Yep. Both are assholes.
You degrade yourself to your SO with another asshole that treats you like dirt and you want to know if he's being an asshole. Geesh.

Consider letting your SO move on and find someone more loyal, honest. Wow, women like you are so hated by men. You are giving your gender a horrible reputation.
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- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I am not an asshole, I suffer from depression and anxiety. As a result I have poor self-esteem and low confidence. Then I constantly seek attention and validation, mostly through guys since it's easy to entice them with my body. Unfortunately I have cheated on my SO in the past, but he forgave me long before I could forgive myself. He knows I'm mentally ill and hasn't broken up with me after 11 years even though most guys probably would have by now.
- Browneye57
  +1 y
  Oh please. Not that crap again. It's time to take responsibility for your decisions and actions. Way, way too often, women spew out this crap like it's not their fault. This made me do it or that made me do it. More happy horseshit. "You suffer." Right. So you make everybody around you suffer. Got it. You're right, you're not an asshole. Can't even say what it is here. Get a clue.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  We're going to have to agree to disagree, because obviously you don't know what living with depression and anxiety is like.
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- Browneye57
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  Seriously, your self absorption is killing you. Get over it honey, time to live life. If you seriously have some issues then get some help. It's not normal to be depressed and anxious all the time. There's more to the story than you're letting on. It's not about your fuck-buddy being a chump.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  Did you miss the part about my dad dying last month? Try going through that and having it not totally fuck you up. I'm not depressed all the time, but it's hit me pretty hard ever since he's been gone. My anxiety has its ups and downs because medication can only do so much. I'm hoping to seek counselling again but right now I have to focus on selling my dad's house and settling his finances. But I regret hooking up with this guy, it was really stupid and if he is still interested in me then I'd definitely say no. I have to admit that I'm still pretty shocked by his behaviour though. There's certainly more to this entire situation, but honestly I don't know where to begin. I've been on a downward spiral ever since my dad's health started to deteriorate last fall. So it was a matter of time before I went back to my old pattern of self-destructive behaviour, which is something I still haven't quite figured out.
- Browneye57
  +1 y
  I did not see that 'till you mentioned it. Everyone suffers loss of family. They don't fall apart because of it. Counseling would be a really good idea.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  Are you serious? I've lost family members before but my dad and I were really close. So you honestly expect me to carry on with my life as if nothing has changed? Wow, thanks so much. :(
DiegoO Guru
+1 y
Please don't believe that friend whit benefits fairy tail, It sounds to good to be true. Where there is sex there is something beyond friendship, therefore you can't have sex whit someone and keep saying yay!! We are friends or let just be friend.
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- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  It's not a fairy tale because I've had friends with benefits in the past. So it's definitely possible to laugh and have fun while having a purely sexual relationship.
- DiegoO
  +1 y
  I guest there are always exceptions.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I'm just asking whether this guy's behaviour was way out of line.
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- DiegoO
  +1 y
  Well he obviously see you as an object not as the woman you are, that should be enough to say he is a first class asshole that isn't capable of been nice whit anyone but him self.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I am infuriated and disgusted to be treated this way by a grown man. My FWBs when I was a teenager were even less fucked up than this.
- DiegoO
  +1 y
  You should just move on and get away from everything, sometimes It's good to keep far from everything and everyone we know, It helps you find yourself.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I don't want to end my relationship because I know this guy was a mistake now. Depression can really cause me to do some stupid things. :(
- DiegoO
  +1 y
  How happy do you feel in your relationship compare to your expectations and desires in life? Does It worth it? Where do you want to be? It would be a good Idea if you see a psychologist to clear off your mind much better, I've went before to one, and It really helped me out.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I'm seeing a psychiatrist but when I was in college I saw a counsellor for free which helped a lot. The reason why I stopped is because I couldn't see her anymore after I graduated and I can't afford to pay for counselling right now. I'm definitely going to look into it though.
- DiegoO
  +1 y
  I wish you the best :)
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  Thank you. :)
Peelikeafrog Xper 4
+1 y
He wanted sex, he got sex. He doesn't love you, he loves... Of course he's an asshole! What were you hoping for. Not a long term meaningful relationship. You both have that elsewhere.
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- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I know, you're right. My mind was a mess when I posted this. There were plenty of warning signs when we were texting but I chose to ignore them because I wanted his attention. However I have a hard time believing that he even loves his girlfriend, considering what a misogynist douchebag he was.
- Peelikeafrog
  +1 y
  Just a side note. My wife of 9yrs cheated on me. Get out before you play around. Don't hurt your man.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  Well I already cheated twice before this. The first time I regretted instantly and didn't tell anyone. But the second time got a bit messy, and when it didn't work out that's when I told my SO about both encounters. I offered to move out but he wanted me to stay and I didn't want to leave. He forgave me long after I forgave myself. After breaking down in tears yesterday, I'm realizing why I hooked up with this guy and it's because he was willing to give me attention. I saw the warning signs but I ignored them since I was so desperate for his approval and attention. It's not any excuse for cheating but considering the severe trauma of losing my father, I can't say that I'm surprised for going back to old habits. There's nothing I can do but never talk to this guy again and be more open with my SO about my feelings. Sometimes I just get scared that he's getting fed up with me so I don't want to bother him with my problems.
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- Peelikeafrog
  +1 y
  Your SO... You should handle problems together, as a team. Is your relationships broken? Run to your man, not away from him. Just saying! Not trying to make you feel bad, but you should be talking to him, not me.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I don't think our relationship is broken, both of us just have trouble expressing our feelings sometimes. He's always been receptive when I've come to him though. But the past month has been unbearable for me and I worry that he will get sick of my grieving. You're right though, I should talk to him and I did a bit yesterday.
- Peelikeafrog
  +1 y
  Good luck! Your man is more forgiving than I am.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  Thank you, and yes I am lucky to have a great partner. :)
jayzee Yoda
+1 y
Lol. Get another guy xD

Its okay to be an asshole when it comes to sex i guess lol
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- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I wish it were that easy to forget about him. And no, it's not okay to be an asshole when it comes to sex.
- jayzee
  +1 y
  Why isn't it easy to forget him. All you got was a little fingering
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  Because he's the first guy who's wanted to have sex with me in 7 years. My relationship has no spark anymore and we're bored of each other in bed. Otherwise we get along great, I'd say we're more like friends than lovers though.
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- jayzee
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  You didn't have sex for 7 years :o
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  Allow me to clarify, I have not had any men other than my SO show any sexual interest in me for 7 years.
- jayzee
  +1 y
  Hows your sexlife with your SO? Lol
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  It's not very active, but he finds me hard to read because I have chronic pain and I'm constantly tired. Also he's still shy and awkward about sex after knowing me for over 11 years. Other than that, he is very patient and loyal even though I'm far from perfect.
- jayzee
  +1 y
  Do you really need sex?
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  Yes, I think intimacy is part of a healthy relationship.
- jayzee
  +1 y
  Then make him crawl to you. You have a pussy n an ass for god sake
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  I know, I'll have to make more of an effort.
dzj031682195 Xper 6
+1 y
obviously he does not like you, he just want to have sex with you. let him out
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- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  What do you mean let him out? And he was very demanding since we started texting each other, telling me exactly what I needed to do and calling me his slave. He doesn't even want me to have sex with my boyfriend anymore because he 'owns me' now. I told him that I wasn't in the mood for that slave stuff last night but he didn't seem to care.
- dzj031682195
  +1 y
  i mean you dont need to meet him anymore. if he really like you, he would not treat you in that way
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  Well I'm going to leave him alone and see what happens.
Anonymous
+1 y
hahaha thats my misogynist! way to go dude!
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- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  u understand that you deserve everything that you get right?
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  DIAF stronzo.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  i dont cheat on my woman u r the one that deserves to burn in a slowly burning fire... .
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- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  And he deserves nothing because he's a man? Your opinion is about as relevant as a piece of shit.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  we are talking about you here. he has u. thats enough of a punishment already. and efore u rush to call him an asshole, from the few words i've exchanged with u i asure you, you find your perfect match. you were made for one another.
- TheBlindAssassin
  +1 y
  Seriously fuck off and take your chauvinistic propaganda with you.