How do I know if my girl hit orgasm or not?

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Ok so here's the deal I love fingering my girl. How do I know if we cum. How do I know is it like a guy where stuff comes out or what. And I know you can achieve orgasm by fingering but how long does it take and how do I know does stuff squirt out. And how do I tell the difference between her being wet and happy to see me then her full on orgasming

Magister365 · Accepted Answer

Are you kidding me?
The first thing to do is LISTEN to her. When you get it right, she will tell you things like "Don't stop, I love that." Yes, she will become wet and her labia (vaginal lips) will begin to swell slightly and she will become more sensitive.
Second, KNOW her body. It's NOT just about her pussy and her clitoris, it's about the WHOLE of her body. As she gets more aroused, she becomes sensitive in other areas. So be mindful of them and don't neglect them.
Third, when she is soaking wet, insert your finger into he vagina and gently curl it back. Whilst still inside her, rub the tip of your finger on the roof of her vaginal canal. This is her G- spot. It is UBER sensitive and gently massaging this area will bring her to orgasm.
You will know when she orgasms because her breathing will change, it becomes deeper and harder the more aroused she becomes. The ultimately, her vagina "pulses" between the anus and the vagina. That is an orgasm.
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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Don't focus on her pleasure, it's sexist...

sweettckae · Accepted Answer

Oh you'll know when she squirts or has an orgasm, if you're fingering her, her vaginal walls pulsate just like a penis would. im not a pro, just talking from experience.

BrunetteNYC · Accepted Answer

I think that she needs to open up and tell you. I also think that you should encourage her to play with herself so you can watch and learn what makes her orgasm.