Sexual Relationships
+1 y

Girls, how can I approach teaching my girlfriend how to give a good blowjob?

Full disclosure: I'm a guy and I love sucking cock. I'm bisexual and have dated men and women. I enjoy sex with both. I'm in a relationship with a great girl but she sucks at giving blowjobs (no pun intended). I know that I'm much better at it than she is, and I really want to teach her how to do it, but I'm not sure how to approach it. I don't think she knows I'm bi, and if I start sucking my dildo and going to town I'm pretty sure she'll freak out or feel really insecure or both. I thought about having her wear a strap on and me sucking it off so she could learn from watching but I think that would scare her to the hills. Any suggestions?
0 1

Most Helpful Girls

  • The sooner you tell her you're bi, the better. I'm sure she won't have much issue with it but even if not, she'd have much more reason to be unhappy that you kept it from her for so long.

    As for the blowjobs, just tell her! 'Babe.. use your tongue a bit more', 'Slow down a bit so that I can enjoy the pleasure for longer versus racing for the finish', etc.. I've never heard of anyone needing to demonstrate on either a strap on or a real person, like getting a friend involved or anything. Simply guiding her verbally while she's down there, as well as discussing it outside of a sexual context in terms of telling her where you'd like more attention, more/less suction, spit, speed, etc.. should suffice.

  • First of all, if you plan on staying with this girl, you should be open with her and tell her that you are bisexual. Nondisclosure, in this case, would likely be considered dishonesty. If she can accept who you are, you are better off finding someone who does.

    If you do not wish to tell her at this time, perhaps you could simply give her instructions while she is giving you head. It may not be necessary to actually show her.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

Women, if you were men would you care about women's body count?
Husband has private account for porn and follows naked woman daily, is this normal?
If you had the power to snap your fingers and make something happen instantly what would it be?
Can men catch feelings after sex?

What Girls Said

(7)

  • Uhh... just explain it to her with words? No need to start sucking things...

  • Oh noo that'll freak me out don't do it

  • Lol, no offense you should have told her your bi sexuality is important to women. So tell her and if she stays while she is giving you head give her feedback, communication is key. Yo I probably don't give her oral well either a lot of guys just don't know what they are doing. So feedback is what needs to be done

  • Just tell her or show her how you want your downtown devoured. Im sure she will listen...

    • Devoured sounds sexy lol

  • Just thell her what you like, GUIDE her

  • What the fuck?
    What has this world come to

  • You've got two options
    1. Tell her that you're bi and love sucking cock and then ask for permission so that you can get the dildo out and suck it to show her how to do it properly
    2. Whilst she's giving it to you tell her how to do it like what to do with her tongue, etc.

Latest Questions

Do women really squirt or is that a euphemism for orgasming?
Are married men really happy seeing the same T&A and screwing the same woman every night?
What’s your favorite part about going down on women?
Higher levels of dopamine and testosterone by 0.3% population? Is abnormal sex mania a good thing if there is self control and discipline?
Home >  Sexual Relationships  > Girls, how can I approach teaching my girlfriend how to give a good blowjob?