Girls, can you help a young guy who needs some sexual advice?

[OlderAndWiser]

A yoounger user posted a question asking why a bigger penis is not necessarily better. I tried to answer his question but the problem is. . . I'm 61 years old so I don't know anything about making love with a woman. I told him: Do you know that there are women who DON'T want to have sex with a horse dick? They WANT a guy who is average size. Do you know that the clitoris and G-spot can both be stimulated to orgasm by a guy with a 4" dick? Do you know that there are women who have had sex with a horse dick and refused to see the guy again because all he did was hurt her and she got no pleasure from the experience. Then he called me. . . politically correct! I forgive him because he is so young (and also because I told him that dick size and IQ were inversely related.) Well, maybe we can help by having you answer this poll.

[Caramel_creme]

"dick size and IQ were inversely related." You were kidding right?

Personally I have only had sex with men with average sized dicks 5" to 6.5". I don't think the difference in length made much of a difference in satisfying me.

However when it came to the visual, I must admit that the bigger one was much more appealing, and turned me on all the more. While making out with a guy, (I eventually never slept with,) he had put my hand on his dick, (over his clothes) and it felt like it was at least 7 or 8", and I distinctly remembered how much that excited me.

Conclusion: I don't know how penetration would feel like with a guy that big, but for a bigger dick does turn me on more psychologically. So for a blow job at least bigger is better for me...

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, I was poking fun at him. This kid sounded like he had an attitude like. . . I've got a bod dick so all I need to do is show up and she'll have an orgasm.

[Caramel_creme]

Lol. OK, coincidentally the statement is true in his case then...

[Azara]

what did you do when he put your hand on his dick? you mention you didn't have sex, so did that lead to anything? do you know why he did that?

[Caramel_creme]

@Azara Well it was a guy I was dating for a while, but we hadn't become exclusive yet. We were making out in my hotel room (we had gone on a trip together, but took separate rooms,) when this happened. I let it linger on his dick for a while, and felt him up, but then withdrew my hand. I do not have sex with a man I am not exclusive with. He knew that. But I Guess he just did that in the heat of the moment, and perhaps maybe even trying his luck. Me withdrawing my hand, communicated to him that I was not ready for sex yet. And he didn't push it. Anyway it eventually didn't work out due to Long distance, and that's why we never slept together.

[Azara]

that makes sense. thanks for explaining :)

[Azara]

i think there's at least two problems.

1. a lot of guys think their dick is a, aging bc its big that somehow its magic and they don't try to be good lovers. so its painful or boring. or both.

2. even if they are considerate it can still be very painful. depends on the size of the woman too,.

[Azara]

amazing* not aging. :)

[OlderAndWiser]

Well, that make's more sense!

[Azara]

#;-)

[Wizbit]

Over all I'd rather have an average or even small dick on a bloke who made me feel special than a foot long on a guy who thought I should be honored to touch it. I've had guys from 6-8" and honestly I was far too busy enjoying myself to even think about the size.

[DivaMonae]

Lmfao... I think you pretty much summed it up but I'll try.

There's a such thing as too big which will cause more discomfort to the girl/women than pleasure. Also having a lot of inches isn't important either because there's only so much that she can actually take/go inside of her. With that being said having a lot of inches or a few isn't really important and it's more about the girth than anything else.