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Is it normal that I want to fuck my husband's boss?

First of all, I never cheated. Let's make that clear and the reason I haven't fucked my husbands boss yet is because I don't want to hurt my husband. So here's the story: I heard stories from my husband about his boss, that he's an arrogant asshole who looks down on him. In my head I hated him. Then I met him, and yes he was arrogant and didn't seem to show much respect toward my husband. He immediately started hitting on me, in front of my husband, which was simply mean. But I was so aroused. I don't have any feelings for him except for sexual feelings. What was also weird is that suddenly my husband seemed to act very submissive and stayed overly friendly toward him, even though he was seducing his wife. Since that day I have been masturbating thinking of him every day and even fantasizing about him when me and my husband fuck. And a big problem is that I want less sex with my husband now although my libido is through the roofs at the moment. There is something about his dominance that makes me go crazy. And I have seen it with other women as well. Me and my friends used to hookup with the bullies at the end of highschool and in college, I (and my husband doesn't know) fucked my own boss from time to time when I was single, and now this urge for his boss. I of course feel bad about it, but I can't help it. I simply feel sexually aroused toward certain men that I shouldn't feel for. Is this a normal thing?
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  • Im anonymous for this one because I wouldn't want to have to admit that I too am attracted to Alpha males and most women are. Your husband more or less is an beta male and probably wouldn't surprise me if he accepted you cheating on him with his boss.
    I used to date this Alpha male in school and I remember we were fighting a lot. At this party a nerdy friend of mine who id known for like ever was talking about colleges with me when my boyfriend decided to beat him up and humiliate him in front of everyone, I was so mad but arroused at the same time shouting and screaming at my boyfriend to get off him. Then he got in his car and said "get your fat ass in the car bitch" which im ashamed to say I did, I told my friend I was sorry and had hot passionate sex with my bad biy alpha male boyfriend.
    I've tried dating nice guys but its not the same. Its like my sister says you can have a guy who gives you good sex but the guy who gives you the best sex you ever had he's likely doing jail time

    • Loooool, epic answer!!! Brilliant hahahah that jail time reference :D

    • Well, I guess that's the classic "alpha" versus "beta" thinking. May help you in school or college though, but when we're all adults it's really not that simple. Make no mistake, an "easy going" laid back guy doesn't mean he's not in possession of fighting skills and strength. If a so called "alpha" wishes to humiliate me to impress his girlfriend I'll invite him to try... Then I'd kill him for it. Yes, I'm one of the guys that are generally seen as calm and rational by most, but there's nothing I wouldn't do to defend myself or those I care about, including violence and murder.

  • Omg don't do that it's horrible what kind of " wife " would u be

Most Helpful Guys

  • Not really. You've essentially betrayed your husband. If you rebuff the boss, then hopefully your husband will get back in the fray and tell him to leave you alone. You should be supporting your husband. Maybe you can role play this where your manly husband gives you a hot, hard bare bottom spanking for flirting with his boss?

  • Well... I don't know what to say other than that your honesty is refreshing.. even though it's anon... It's a side of humanity we all suspected but never really quite comfortable admitting to.

    Whatever happens, good luck.

    • lol it's trolling dude I mean, the sentiment isn't 100% fictional, but, look at the way it's written... pleeeeeeaaassse

    • @redeyemindtricks oh... hahahahahaha... oh well...

    • @redeyemindtricks 👍👍👍👍👍👍

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  • I am wondering if you may be thinking he will be a bit nicer to your husband for this.. and if that is what you are thinking.. you should throw that idea out the window.. why do you not for at least some sex sessions.. think that your husband is his boss.. he would treat you better then his boss would any day

  • Wow your a horrible person, I hope to god your a troll.

  • OMG... this is so incredibly hot! I hope you get fucked by this guy, and I hope it's bareback, too:)

  • You don't know what alpha male is. What you described is abuse of power which is often displayed by insecure people. If idiots are what you are into then leave your husband and go back to allowing dipshits to use you. It's your life.

  • Possibly normal but also very disappointing.

  • Troll

    • ^^ yeah. "hook up with the bullies" lol... not even good trolling, alas

  • I identify as your husband's boss.

  • Well this is extremely normal **sarcasm**

  • I think it is and you can’t help what turns you on it sounds like your husband kinda wants this to you should bring it up jokingly and see how he reacts it might make him horny as well you never know then you could both play and you get your fantasy and get pleased at the same time

  • Read the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan.

    Maybe sit down and read it with your husband, he may be willing to open up the marriage

  • You see... its women like you that make me want to reinstate the witch trials.

  • Absolutely nothing wrong with ducking your husband's boss. But make sure you file in for divorce after while coming back home.

  • I make my bosses look submissive so I don't know how to answer this.

  • sounds like you want your husband to be your cuckold. That you want to fuck his boss in front of his since he is so submissive around him. Let your husband lick his bosses cum from your pussy maybe?

  • Yeah that's still considered adultery

  • I think it's normal and hot.. Immoral, but super hot.. Maybe ur hubby will let u fuck him... I would if I were him.

  • we want what we want, go for it

  • It's completely normal for you to want to fuck your husband's boss, and you should act on it as soon as possible!

  • If you fuck your husband boss do you still want your marriage

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