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Do you think its wrong to prefer very young girls? Men, do you prefer younger women?

I get criticism from my sisters all the time because I tend to date young girls around 18-21, but I'm turning 31 soon. I can't help it, theyre the hottest. I let my dick speak when it comes to attraction. dont like to analyze it too much because its not like i can control it. And the really young girls have the tightest and prettiest everything, generally speaking. And they tend to be cute and fun and carefree. Not to mention, they want to please and impress you, as the older man in the relationship. Its just a fun time all around. And I do like to show her off too. What do you think? and before anyone calls me a pedo, the girls I'm dating look nothing like children, even if theyre barely legal. Curves for days - just young, tight, firm, perky curves. :)
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  • Is it wrong? The words right and wrong are pretty vague. I don't see anything inherently wrong with a guy your age having sex with girls that age. I admit I may be reading a bit between the lines, but I get some bad vibes from this. I don't necessarily get pedo vibes, but I get vibes that you are overly obsessed with it. I get vibes that you are using your age and experience as an unfair advantage.

    Girls that age are legally adults, but the large majority are also naive. You can easily have an unfair influence on them, even if you aren't doing it intentionally. However it seems that you may be doing it intentionally, which DOES cross the line into being wrong.

    So you've had your fun. Be careful of the direction this is going. Take a good hard look at yourself and ask why you don't have relationships with women who are more mature. Ask yourself if you would stand up to the scrutiny a more mature woman would give. How would a woman your age judge you? Can you stand up to the gaze of an older, more experience and knowing woman?

    As I said, I don't see anything inherently wrong. But you do seem to have an unhealthy obsession with it.

    • I was going to comment, but this says everything I would have said.

  • there is nothing wrong with it. Look how many women fantasize (especially at that age) about older men.
    They are fully formed, they are sexual beings, and they are legal. They have the ability to agree to sex.

    That said, the fact that you (I gather from what you write) are a serial dater who finds, goes on a few dates, fucks, and then leaves, 18-21 year old girls, just to move on to the next new piece of meat to get your dick wet, is pretty disgusting.

    If I'm wrong, and you've been with a few girls that age because relationships haven't worked out? Then you're fine. Nothing wrong with pursuing that age. If I'm right, you are using age, experience, etc, to woo girls who think you actually think they're special, because you measure your value by how many impressionable barely-adult women you've managed to nail.

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  • I think you should start terming them ''young women'' and ''really young women'' a young girl is 9, a very young girl is 3. Try there and you aren't going to get the pedo response immediately.

    I don't think it's wrong to prefer younger women but I do think it's immature. You're obviously not looking for a committed relationship or even one where you see them as your equal. A more peer based relationship might be something to warm up to because men hit a peak a little later than women - mid 20s to 30 - instead of 18 to early 20s... and once you start looking a little older the 18 and 20yo hotties aren't going to be interested in you anymore.

  • It's a little creepy for a 30+ year old to want to get with an 18-19 year old. 21 isn't so bad, since the woman has some life experiences at the very least. 18 is fresh out of high school and it rubs me the wrong way. I had older men hit on me when I was 17-20 and it creeped me out. Whenever I hear of men only wanting to date teenagers, it gives off insecurity and manipulative tendencies.

  • I don't think there's anything wrong with it, but it does remind me of the guy in Dazed and Confused 😜

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  • Using the word "Prefer" gives me the child molester vibe and I don't think that's OK. Being attracted to a younger girl is completely normal. I think guys that look for them over girl in their mid/late 20's are predators that need to feel in control/superior as they aren't as confident and are more impressionable than the mid/late 20s girls.

    I think morals plays a big part if you peruse a relationship with very young girls. I would feel like a creep if the girl I'm with isn't old enough to get into a club or drink.

  • At my age, I prefer women who are my age. But since I probably won't get married (and lose my virginity) until I'm close to 30, I would like to marry a younger college-aged woman when that time comes. The reason being that I want more time to enjoy a woman while she is in her sexual prime opposed to saving my virginity all of these years and getting a woman who only has a couple years left of extreme sexiness before it starts to decline.

  • It would be wrong to continue dating them only if you're like 40+ but for now, I guess it's alright. A bit odd though but definitely not wrong. A decade difference is alright if the girls are legal.

  • Tell them those women are adults and able to make their own decisions at 18, and if they object, they're being sexist and acting like adult 18 year old women can't make their own choices.

  • No, and the nice thing is most girls that age are OK with a fling instead of a LTR. Plus they look great.

    And as far a "pedo", that is someone who is attracted to children, or at least those not done with puberty, so even if you find a 16 year old attractive, that is not "pedo".

  • I personally would be a little freaked out if a guy your age was hitting on me.

    • I understand that. Luckily, a hell of a lot of younger women love older guys.

  • If I was going to do it I would narrow my scope to those of the age of consent

  • Only if it's wrong that I prefer to date richer men. :)

  • Are you attracted because you can dominate these girls? Have you ever tried dating a woman who was your equal?

  • It's fine they're not 13... why should it be bad?

  • No different than a women preferring an older guy since he has more money to support her.

    • I prefer an older guy because they are sexier than your average cocky 20 year old who thinks he's hot because abs ; )

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