I was the classic "No, stop. I'm not ready" girl with my first boyfriend because I wasn't ready. Though it must have been annoying because he'd be thinking it's going down... But it wasn't. I felt a little guilty for letting it get so far, but last minute I just couldn't commit to going all the way.
And it wasn't even because there was anything wrong with him at the time... #virginmoments0 0 0 0Its your body, your choice, until you are ready to let someone in. You did the right thing that was right for you :)
@johnanamoly thanks I appreciate this comment! I remember feeling so conflicted at the time.
Guys are easy animals to predict, you have self respect for yourself, be proud of that, no matter what people say what the "in" thing to do is.
Yes. I wish I hadn't. When he's single again, we'll see where things go...
0 0 0 0Yes. Because I wasn't ready. But he was eager to. Sex at 14? Argh no
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Kind of. Recently I had the luck that for the first time in my life a girl was interested in me. But I moved forward to slow because I was afraid of my first time and she didn't gave me the feeling that she gives me some time to gain confidence. In the end she got someone else.
0 0 0 0I wouldn't say chickened out, it was more not a good idea because the emotional attachment that would happen.
0 0 0 0What if the person is already emotionally attached?
Is that the only reason why?
Maybe a little, but the sex would of sealed the deal and I didn't like her enough to risk me not feeling the same.
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2 5Yes lol I have
0 0 0 0There's nothing wrong with it, just a personal choice.
@johnanamoly yeah
No. I have denied girls who probably wanted to get with me just out of shyness though.
But I've never been in a situation where I was 100% sure I was going to fuck and chickened out.0 0 0 0Naw, I'm dtf, d00d.
0 0 0 0YES, YES! Lol two of them actually. They thought they were the problem, which was true. It didn't feel right, so yeah :)
0 0 0 0Chickened out? Like are you AFRAAAAAAAAAID?
No
But the person was great, but moved too soon, and that's not my thing. I want to know who I'm dating0 0 0 0Yep... When I was a freshman in college
0 0 0 0story of my life, lol. I've actually chickened out way before that though, so I haven't even gotten far enough to chicken out of having sex.
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