Girls, this guy I have been dating I just found out has an extremely tiny penis, what should I do?

[Jessiex27]

I have been seeing a few guys and of course the one I am starting to really like I found out has a really tiny one lol. I won't lie it was really embarrasing finally when we "slept" together to see his penis.. I first thought he was just really soft but he told me he had a micropenis. Apprently fully erect he is only 1.5inches and very thin. It was so awkward. Most men I have been with are average or better but the guy I really liked I felt like I was toucing an toddlers penis lol. When he told me how big he was I was drunk and laughed. I feel really bad about it because he seemed so hurt. Girls do you consider 1.5" erect small? Am I overthinking here? I liked this guy but damn I am not sure moving forward how the sex would be... pleaaaseee tell me your honest opinions, thanks!

[vonasaurus]

yes, he is small~ however, leaving him for this reason (since you've indicated that you like him otherwise) is not very nice.

1) he has fingers and a tongue; encourage him to use both;

2) it's not about his size, but what he can do with it, that matters;

3) if you compliment him, don't exaggerate~ he already knows what's in his pants, and he'll know if or not you're being sincere. instead, compliment how good whatever he's doing feels.

-von

[Jessiex27]

Thank you, yes you are right. He is a great guy but that size is a first.. really set me back mentally. Have you experienced a guy this small before?

[vonasaurus]

no, i haven't~ i'm sure that people who have will chime in, though.

[Jessiex27]

Yeah it is shocking. Not to sound weird but I swear it was like if you changed a babies diaper I felt like it was the same damn size lol. I was soo embarrassed because I just stared at it in shock... obviously it hurt his feelings but now he is asking for honesty... should I tell him and be straight forward?

[vonasaurus]

i'm sure there's a way that you can be honest with him while still being tactful/keeping his feelings in mind. if he's asking for honesty, you can just apologize and tell him that you really like him (leave out any comments specific to his man parts). if he asks specifically, "is my junk small", just say something to the effect of, "maybe, but i really liked *insert specific thing you guys did*. without experience, that's really the best i can offer. hopefully someone else can post a better idea.

[Jessbells]

1.5 erect is small, in fact really really small, the average size is 5-6" if u fuck him it'll probably suck but there's other ways he can please u (ORAL!!!) and if he sucks at that just say how u feel and tell him to improve his oral. If he can please u orally then that'll make up for his small dick so yea...

[Jessbells]

Big mistake, I misread I thought he was 1.5 errect, 5 isn't that small so you should be fine but if it's still too small well try the oral.

[Jessiex27]

You were right the first time. He said he is 1.5 inches hard.. freaking tiny!!

[Paris13]

Enjoy this Boy. xxoo

[tragicallyinlove]

You have to balance your desire for good sex, and your love for him and deccide which one is more important to you in the long run. Yes it's small, why it's called a micro penis.

[Jessiex27]

I actually had to look the term "micropenis" up when he told me about it. Have you dated or been with a guy this size before?

[Girlwithcooltats]

Fuck!!! That's small! But there's still oral, fingers and fists if ur insane. Point is, u can still have a decent sex life.

[Jessiex27]

I was really taken back by it. He is such a sweet caring guy but it was like a large clit lol. I am use to average to larger men. Thoughts on moving forward?

[Girlwithcooltats]

U should give it a shot, sex is key in a relationship so if he doesn't satisfy you in the bedroom then u gotta dump him, even if it seems cold

[Jessiex27]

I appreciate how blunt you are:) I didn't think I would ever see a micropenis in person before... He is really athletic too which I would of thought he was at the least average. We have been having regular convos back and forth today but I know when we get together again ill have to deal with it.. I mean 4 inches okay but 1.5" erect is insanely tiny.. don't you agree? Not to mention he cums in like 20 seconds lol. How would you handle it? He is asking for honesty via text...

[Anonymous]

Yes that's small. The least that I had was 4

[Anonymous]

Consider it

[Anonymous]

Well, he is small.
I don't know what you should do but here is what I think. I was always afraid of ending up dating a guy with a micropenis. The thing is that when I finally was at the stage of getting intimate with my boyfriend I realized that even if he'd virtually have no penis I'd still want him.
Now you gave to decide if you actually like him enough to consider staying with him and having him please you with other methods.