When it came up, at first I was "no way in hell."
But, my boyfriend really wanted to do it...I wanted to be at least willing to give what he wanted a chance. And sometimes we would have sex for so long that even though I wanted to keep going, my vagina was getting sore and we would need to stop. He pointed out that if we could use my other hole, we could keep going.
Now, much to my surprise, I REALLY love it. I like that he can touch me while he is doing it, I like that he can go as deep as he wants, and I can even orgasm from it. Really, though, I like that now there is no "off limits." The whole experience actually got us much closer...he had to learn really quickly to know when to stop, when he was going to hard, and when I was enjoying it. Haha, I actually think anal sex really helped our relationship better because we came more tuned into each other's responses.
When it came up, at first I was "no way in hell."
But, my boyfriend really wanted to do it...I wanted to be at least willing to give what he wanted a chance. And sometimes we would have sex for so long that even though I wanted to keep going, my vagina was getting sore and we would need to stop. He pointed out that if we could use my other hole, we could keep going.
Now, much to my surprise, I REALLY love it. I like that he can touch me while he is doing it, I like that he can go as deep as he wants, and I can even orgasm from it. Really, though, I like that now there is no "off limits." The whole experience actually got us much closer...he had to learn really quickly to know when to stop, when he was going to hard, and when I was enjoying it. Haha, I actually think anal sex really helped our relationship better because we came more tuned into each other's responses.
Okay, I've never liked the idea of it and my last boyfriend befoemre my current one just tried sticking it in and itnhurt so bad I couldn't breath, I wanted to cry it hurt so bad. We never tried it again. Now with my current boyfriend I made it a point NO anal. Well we were drunk at a party and one thing let to another and next thing I know we were in the empty room doing it, its all blurry to me but I destinctly remember him accidently putting it in the wrong hole and me enjoying the pain. Maybe I was too waste to really feel it, I don't know, but a few days later we talked about it and we we're evoth surprised allowed it. Well we tried it again, sober and nope. Wasn't happeing. So I'd say no to me. If you want to get in my ass you gotta put some hard alcohol in me first.
Look that's what I was saying... the excitement is in pain
I like rough sex, I'm okay with pain, but anal is a whole different story
Do you like a thick 8 inch cock pushed in your ass? Probably not. Idek how he got it in tbh
I`ve never done it, but some women enjoy it.
That said, it`s very dangerous. I know everyone says, "if you do it right, it`s safe etc. etc." but the truth is, there`s nothing you can do to be 100% sure you won`t damage the girl.
It`s a one-way street back there. The skin is incredibly delicate, not strong enough to withstand the friction of in-out-in-out motion.
Anal sex can- and often does, despite attempts to be safe- result in weakened muscles, fissures, and other types of damage.
This means she might not be able to control her bowels in the future... sound "enjoyable"? Didn`t think so.
Be on the safe side, and don`t put anyone through that.
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I've noticed that not one woman has commented and it could be out of embarrassment maybe. It's a shame how sexuality has to be hidden so individuals do not judge. I like anal sex. Orgasms can be very intense and it actually has brought me and my partner together even closer on an intimacy level. Very hard to explain though. I do not do it a lot however because of the health risks but time after time I enjoy it very much. a lot of women unlike myself hate it and I think it's because it's frowned down upon, dirty, un sanitized, or the first experience was miserable. Either way I would tell couples to give it a shot or three slowly and easy to have the best sexual experience!
I feel the same way (speaking from the point of view of both the giver and sometimes receiver)
I can only speak for myself, but yes, I enjoy it.. LOVE it in fact. I enjoy the sensation of it and I like the fact it's a bit naughty. My husband enjoys it but *I* was the one that suggested it in the first place. I know some women that like it and enjoy it, some that do it just because their husband/bf likes it, and some that wouldn't do it if their marriage depended on it.
I like it, but only provided he uses LOTS of lube, goes slow and gentle, and especially if he uses his fingers on my clit at the same time. If the guy makes an effort to make it comfortable for me and doesn't get rough with it, it can actually be quite enjoyable.
Perfect way to do it....i totally agree.....
I've never had anal, but I've had people explain what it feels like to me and I would never do it. No matter how badly somebody wanted too, I seriously would NOT.
Some women who have tried anal sex have described the experience as awful or at least uncomfortable. If they provide any details, it was usually done with a guy who did not know how to make it pleasant for a woman, didn't use lube, didn't proceed slowly, didn't engage in any extended foreplay, etc. Alternatively, their partner may have been hung like Harry The Horse and of course there is a limit to the size that any woman can accommodate. If you try to convince those women that anal sex can be arousing, they will get angry and tell you how wrong you are.
Some women have had anal sex and really liked it. Of course, they had a partner who knew how to approach it properly. I have had women tell me that some of their all time strongest orgasms came from anal sex. I have had women initiate or ask for anal sex.
The anus has more nerve endings, so yes... it gives more pleasure, but only if the giver knows what he's doing and the receiver has done it many times.
You'll gonna need a partner you know is up for this for a long time, since if she's inexperienced she'll also need time. And you'll need to go really, really, really, really, really slow and use a lot of lubrication
Yes, try again but here're some tips:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a6855-comfortable-anal-sex-for-beginners-a-guide-to-the-first-time
Whatever you see in the porn movies think opposite for reality... other than a very small percentage.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Well... I think every girl is different but there are some girls like myself lol who won't want to try it... ever. It seriously doesn't appeal to me in the slightest and I like to try all sorts of different things but anal is not one of them.
I get that. What sort of things you try then?
Sex in many different positions, oral, handjobs/fingering, and sex in different places like the shower or bath anywhere that would seem fun really haha
Sounds good to me. Ever with same sex?
some do, some don't. Best just ask the girl who you're considering having anal with.
thanks
Why do you think it's pleasurable for some girls, but hurts for others? is it because the guy is doing it wrong? Some girls don't prepare enough? what you think?
@Toad-1 I can't say for sure as I've never enjoyed it tbqh... Probably combination of prep-work, how relaxed/into it the girl is, how the guy goes about it, etc..
Into Anal.its different and I actually get off from anal. there is a spot in that area that if hit right you will come like no other.
Don't suppose you could tell me what the best way to hit that spot is could ya? lol
Its towards the front of the womans body.. pressing your penis in a forward motion. Put your hand on her belly and push in ..I think this will help ya
ive never had it,and I don't think I would want to try it,
but I've only heard one of my friends say they liked it.
some of my other friends said it hurt like hell and wouldn't ever try it again...
i guess their holes just have to get used to it for it to feel good.
You need to talk to the girl about it first. If it's making her cry though, I wouldn't advise doing it again without having a serious chat about it.
I do like it.
umm well anus veginal together or
one part in one time
Being messy makes it hotter. What is sex if it's messy anyway?
Every girl is different, there is no blanket answer for this
Seriously, read other people`s questions, I answered this question twice yesterday and now this one... I`ll answer it again only because I have an important comment about it...
Some girls claim to enjoy anal sex. Some claim that when it is done properly, it is harmless.
But: there is no way- I repeat, NO way- to ENSURE that anal sex is safe for the girl.
Use all the lube you want, it can still result in lethal infections, fissures, tears, anal leakage into the body cavity, bloody stool, damage to the perineum and- this one takes the cake- uncontrollable bowels.
So, just think about that before you drive the wrong way down a one way street.
Oh, and I`ve talked to guys who say they got poop on them during anal? Yeah, something tells me THEY are not the guys who love it...
Yep! Be careful, and I suggest talking to her about it before hand.
LOL you`d BETTER talk to her beforehand.
No.. And if the girl hasn't had anal sex before.. It might hurt the guy too.. Plus, use lube and there are these tablets she can take to rush out any faecaes.. One of my friends used one when she did it..
Some girls do, I personally don't.
To whoever is downvoting literally every girl who says she doesn't like it: Come on now. Every person's body is different, and not everyone has the ability to enjoy anal sex. It has the potential to be uncomfortable or even excruciatingly painful, even when done properly, and for those of us whose bodies aren't cut out for it, it's just not fun. There is no need to shame or punish people for being honest about not enjoying something that is painful for them. Even if you love having your anus penetrated, that doesn't mean everyone has to. Back off. I hate seeing this type of use for the downvote function.
I totally agree that no one should be downvoted based upon their personal likes or dislikes. Everyone is different. I've been having anal sex (and only anal) for a few months now and really enjoy it now. But it was difficult the first couple of times and if you don't get past that, your experience and opinion will most likely be negative. And that, or choosing not to keep trying is okay.
@KelliCub Yep. Not everyone has a good experience even after trying multiple times. For me it's painful enough that it's just not worth it in any way.
It depends entirely on the girl.
Ouch. No thanks. Anal sex is a pain in the ass.
It feels very bad. :(
Itinyclit, in what way?
In a very painful way.
First step is to know how to introduce her or reintroduce her if she had a bad experience.
Comfortable Anal Sex for Beginners: A Guide to the First Time ↗
My experience with a few dozen women over the years is that the vast majority like it, many really enjoy it, and a fair number love it. Part of it may be that I only have sex with women with whom I have an emotional connection, that I'm very dominant so I tend to match up with submissives, and that we talk about what each of needs and wants before we ever take our clothes off.
Anal is for gays and gays in denial.
Girls that say " like it", just want to please their gay boyfriends to seem more "sexually coool" and desirable... 💁🏼! Bleh!
No, a lot of us don't
If she's crying then there is obviously something wrong. Don't try it again without a conversation.
Not on it's own, but as part of a DP, I do quite enjoy it!
Then if you planing do anal then you look for 2 guys?
I have a partner. We tend to grab a toy.
oh ok.
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