Oooookayyy
Well, first, I has mah doubts about whether this is real. Mostly because of this:
"Now this one guy bragged at work about fucking my husbands wife (with every kinky detail)."
yeah, that ^^...
That's not really a thing that happens, in the real world. That's a thing that happens in porn, and that's about it.
Especially "with every kinky detail"... sure, hon, we believe you. LOL
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But, okay, fine, let's suspend disbelief long enough to address this as a real situation. Because, if it IS a real situation, the solution is pretty damn simple.
You wrote:
"So now my husband is jealous since I get fucked any time I want and he can't find anyone"
Those last 4 words, there...
You know who CAN go find prospects for him, right?
Yep.
You can.
And if you give half a shit about this man, and you actually want to make this "open relationship" thing work... that's exactly what you'll do, AND YOU WON'T PLAY YOURSELF UNLESS he does, too.
If you can't do that, then there are two options: (1) see whether yr husband is into that whole cuckold/hotwife thing -- haha, good luck with that -- or, (2) have the decency to end things NOW, and stop humiliating the man ffs.2 2 0 0MHO right here
It happens more than you think
Try finding a couple to swing with! Or become a quad- four partners all together existing as one big relationship.
There are a lot of people throwing a lot of shade here, but monogamy isn't the only game in town and open marriages and open relationships DO work, but you have to have a stronger foundation. You two love each other, and he suggested this because he cares about you.
Maybe find out what his kinks are and find the things he likes. No matter who you are, you are someone's fetish. Yeah, in my opinion it's easier for women to find NSA partners than it is for men to find NSA partners, so you both might really benefit from having a swinger couple that you're friends with. There's companionship, there's closeness, there's safety, and there's the newness of having sex with someone else.1 0 0 0This is why I don't believe in the concept of "open" relationships and marriages. I just don't ever see it ending well. It seems to me like one person always ends up feeling hurt, jealous, or insecure. I would say to end the "open" aspect of your marriage and work on your sex life with your husband. Ultimately though, if you aren't compatible, you're both unhappy, and you can't come to any compromises, then it's possible that the marriage as a whole may not work out.
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Sounds like the open marriage isn't going to work out. Isn't there couples sex therapy out there?
How open are you guys with each other about what you want? Could be a lack of communication? Maybe try masturbating for him and show him what you want?
Sounds like he could have underlying issue feeling inadequate in size or experience that causes him to have trouble relaxing and getting into it.
I'd say having a long talk about it, therapy would be your best option.
There is always of course the case that you guys are just not sexually compatible.0 0 0 0Get divorced. Why are you together in the first place?
2 3 0 0because love and marriage go further than sex?
I know some people want to believe that, but sex is actually a huge component of marriage. A component that can easily destroy a marriage... something it sounds like you're starting to experience
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7 18Well, I commend you on trying to anything to fix your married and make it work. He will always be jealous because sex is more your thing and not really his. I don't think he has enough drive or a high enough kink factor find an open partner anyway. Is there anyway you could find him someone? I know that sounds weird. Any chance for a threesome to spice things up? Is he into that? Other than that, I do recommend professional help
0 0 0 0I you both agreed to an open relationship and you are having more sex that just the way it goes. It is not your fault you are able to get so much action and he can't thats just the reality of an open relationship. Maybe a way he could feel better is to try to arrange a threesome but other than that I would just tell him he has to deal with it and you should just keep on enjoying your sex.
0 0 0 0You should just have one friends with benefits it would make it better for you and him. He can't complain if he doesn't want it that much.
1 0 0 0I have no idea why guys suggest open marriages. Girls in the relationship find guys a lot easier than they will find other women. It's just how it is... A friend of mine agreed to this and her marriage ended in a divorce. Have you tried marriage counseling yet? It might be a better investment than an open relationship at this point.
1 1 0 0This sounds ridiculous.
4 1 0 0Find him some girls
1 2 0 0It just sounds like a mess, I dont understand why you're still married.
3 0 0 0What about doing an occasional mate swap so he gets a practically guaranteed chance?
0 0 0 0Well this is a normal marriage...
0 2 0 0pass.
@Sabretooth hahaha!
sounds hot, sure, but i don't think think anything good will come of it in the long run. not only would i lose favor with god, but i would be hypocritical, and really don't need the stress. frankly, i have more then then enough of stress and regret...
Oooooooooouch. My condolences to your husband. Guy got the raw end of the stick on this one. Like @abundantlyrich said, find him some snatch to climb into.
0 1 0 0A marriage should never be open!!! It is a holy covenant and if you guys are not monogamous it should come to an end!!!
2 2 0 0well not everybody follows your religion.
and look at the screwed up mess you're in.
Whoa, whoa, whoa there! I love your devotion to your religion, but you gotta check your privilege because we're in the real world. Some of the guys (a LOT of the guys) in the Bible had MULTIPLE wives. Let's keep the two thousand year old stuff out of the modern day. Not everybody follows what YOU think that your religion looks like.
Perhaps try couple's counselling.
I think he may have some issues that are preventing him from performing.0 0 0 0Get a fucking machine and have your husband work the controls and watch you scream. That's could help the marriage...
0 0 0 0I'm seeing and end
0 0 0 0Too bad.
0 0 0 0Just do whatever you love n talk to your hubby about it
0 0 0 0You need to try and find some girls to fuck him.. Maybe some threesomes.. They could lead to a girl wanting to fuck him on the regular. Help him out..
0 0 0 0How did you feel about the colleague telling others about the details of sex with you?
0 0 0 0stop slooting around
0 0 0 0sounds like a woman who was riding a hot guy cock carousel until she was forced to settle down with some beta cuck, who she doesn't find sexually attractive.
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