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I have a trap fetish.. what do I do?

This is has been going on for quite some time, I've been feeling this weird urge and I've been having certain fantasies about a very sweet looking feminine like boy dressed as a girl and we are very intimate with each other, shy and caring... I'd wake from the dreams blushing and erect.. i love girls, its what i get off to and i can't even masturbate to gay porn, it doesn't do it for me. But for this one odd reason i desire a trap so much.. it is a delicate fetish, the boy would actually have to look close to a girl and have a feminine build, I met a boy that is everything i fantisized about and we kinda hit it off talkin but now.. he won't talk to me at all and im just sitting here confused. Please help explain what is wrong with me?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • First of all, sexuality isn't nearly as black and white as it seems. Labels such as gay, straight, etc. can be helpful to an extent, but ultimately, the kinds of people that someone is attracted to don't depend on any labels. You could call yourself bi if you wanted to, but ultimately, it sounds like you're just attracted to feminine people, right? Either way, you're still you. Who you're attracted to doesn't change who you are as a person, and there's nothing wrong with you.

    That being said, are you attracted to this person as a whole, or just his looks and the fact that he's feminine? While there's nothing wrong with having a "type", it can be off-putting to be treated as a fetish instead of as a person, and that sort of thing can come across to someone even if you don't intend it to. Most people don't like to be treated as just some kind of fantasy fulfillment.

    This may or may not be what happened, and it's no guarantee that this will resolve things, but make sure he understands that you're interested in him as a person, and as a friend too. (Unless you're not, of course. Lying is never the right answer.)

Most Helpful Guys

  • Have you been watching TOO much porn? This is not an uncommon fetish among straight guys, at least porn wise - I think theirs a TED video on the stats (I suspect the tendancy is probably when you've watched way to much and moved up the scales of hardcore - not that this is my cup of tea)

    Are you sure you want to try this IRL? Do you think you could have said or done something insentitive to offend the transwoman you chatted to (eg. did you call her a boy or a trap)

    • No, he openly admitted to being a boy cross dressed and i did my best to make him comfortable. We were supposed to talk again but nothing.. i sent a long note saying im glad i met a person like em and how i adored his humor and all then sent a heart. He saw it but never responded. I sent another message the next day and i didn't spam so i dont bug him. But nothing..

    • @Asker: Sometimes, these sorts of things just don't work out. There are a million reasons why he might not have responded, but ultimately there's not really anything you can do about it. I think you did the right thing by not bugging him, though.

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  • Sounds like your Bi-curious.

  • It's not nice to call people 'traps'! :(

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