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Guys, Why do guys like girls begging to stop during sex?

my boyfriend likes it when I call him daddy, King, etc but he said he wants me to beg for forgiveness and ask plead to stop. How is this attractive? Wouldn't you want the person to enjoy and beg for more? Why would you want someone begging to stop?
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Sorry I wanted to add aswell, when I tell him it hurts he goes even harder. Is this dangerous behaviour and should I be worried. He has never ever hurt me before but is this strange? Should I be worried?
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  • Perhaps he sees someone begging for more as insatiable... incapable of being satisfied.

    If that is the case, then when a partner begs for it to stop it's because they have truly been satisfied. Mind you, I'm not speaking of causing pain or taking without having received consent. Rather, I'm thinking more of how one backs away from the table after eating a large meal. The appetite is satisfied and more food has lost its appeal.

    From his point of view, I suspect he sees himself as inadequate. Whether he is or not is beside the point. If this is his feeling, it's his reality too. Being called daddy or king and hearing that he has given you all the that sex you are able to consume would help him to feel, for a short time at least, that who he is is enough.

    • Or he could just have a sadistic streak.

    • Thanks for the MHO.

  • not this guy, to be honest I find not only disturbing but pretty annoying too.

    disturbing because obviously I am not a sadist and I dont enjoy hearing people suffering upon my hands.

    annoying because it just does sound annoying. let's not forget that we are having sex,, we are not making a porn flick

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  • It's sort of a mock rape scenario. He wants to know that he's so big that he's killing you with his cock and you need him to stop. Does that make sense?

  • I find that kind of disturbing, actually. I think that would feel pretty rapey. I want a girl to be enthusiastically into it, not pleading with me to stop.

  • i don't know if that pertains to all guys but some guys like that... the sadistic kinky onces. wanna feel like they are having their way... hmm... rapists do that too you know... just saying.

  • sounds pretty fucked up.

  • Yes, I would be a little worried. Sounds like he has a Dom fetish and wants you to be his little slave to be 'abused'. Be careful and watch to see if he gets rougher in bed or even outside of the bedroom.

  • Not sure, but Japanese pornography does it all the time.

    "Stop it hurts" you can see she's been doing this for years though, they feel nothing by now, lol.

  • Must be his culture. Where I come from, when a girls says, "please stop," you stop. It's a turn off, not a turn on.

  • One time a girl told me to stop, so I stopped. She just looked at me like a fucking martian haha, what a rookie mistake.

  • I don't like it.

    In fact, it's a huge turn off. I've dumped girls because of they thought it was "cute".

  • It shows his dominance over you. That is attractive.

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