My boyfriend wants to go down on me?

Question

My boyfriend wants to go down on me and I'm not into it because the past few times with other guys it's been insanely uncomfortable and felt super weird. How do I tell him no in a nice way?

Becky01 · Accepted Answer

tell him you don't like it and why.
but just because you've had some bad experiences in the past does not mean it will be the same this time.
he may know what he's doing and if he doesn't you could guide him to what feels good for you don'd be shy speak up.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Oh my, he's your boyfriend, not just some random guy from your past. Please try again only this time try to find a more relaxing position. Also be his teacher, his director and direct him so that it feels good for you.

05Jueey · Accepted Answer

Just let him know you're one of the.1 percent of us who don't like receiving oral haha. It's rare but I'm there with you. It doesn't feel good

bradderstheclaret · Accepted Answer

Let him try just once, you never know he may have marvellous technique and you may enjoy it. If you're not enjoying it just say, "Sorry hun, do you mind if we stop?" His ego will be so un-spokenly insulted he'll never try again.

Dim_121 · Accepted Answer

just sweetly tell him that when you bring it up during a date or a quite time alone with him.

BonitaChica · Answer

Just tell him that you don't like it but you are willing to pleasure him all he wants

archiz · Answer

I still think you should try it once with him though before you say no.

PartialisticMan · Answer

Just be straightforward if you just let him your going to regret it.

Nene_1 · Answer

Maybe he does it better, let him. or tell him what you did with other guys...

RedThread · Answer

Just say no. People who are having sex together should be able to communicate their issues with things.

Raymond_Reddington · Answer

you dont have to be nice, sweety. just tell him you dont want to because it makes you uncomfortable :3 problem solved.

iFarted · Answer

Just tell him what you told us.

MoonlitSonata · Answer

Tell him what you just told us.

bond929 · Answer

Maybe compromise and ask him to lick gently x

Young9 · Answer

Be like dude I ain't got time for this shit

aleks_ander · Answer

It was the same with my ex, but she ended up liking it after a couple of times. What she did was telling me to go slow and be gentle, maybe it´ll work for you too.