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I feel this huge need to call my boyfriend Daddy but I don't want to scare him?

Everytime I'm with my boyfriend, specially when we're having sex, I want to call him daddy but I don't know how he would react. I don't want to creep him out. My ex didn't mind when I called him daddy, he actually like it very much, but my boyfriend now is very different from him. He's more conservative and less spontaneous? So I don't really know how to communicate to him the stuff I like and would like to try in bed without having him thinking I have daddy issues (I don't) or i have some disturb and i'm not normal cause that's what guys usually think about girls calling their boyfriend daddy, right?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If you are Latin or have a Latin background this is customary, calling someone, Papi or papito, is normal, it loosly translates to boyfriend, not usually said to a male friend though unless joking around. That may be better to say that. Otherwise just ask him how he would feel if you called him daddy when you have sex, tell him it turns you on, if he really puts how you feel as important to him and you can influence him by stating that to him, by saying "I love you and I know you love and care about me, and it would make me feel safe and protected when me make love if I can call you nicknames like Daddy or Papi, is that something you would be comfortable with? " Then if he tells you no that's weird, you can always cry heavy sobs of displeasure, and let him know that you thought he cared about you, it's really a harmless thing to ask him that, other guys would tell him to hell yeah let her call you daddy, then mount her from behind, gently pull her hair from the base of her skull and slap her on the butt and tell her "who's your daddy?"

    • Thank you for MHO!! :)

  • Talk to him:

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10152-how-to-talk-to-your-so-about-sex

Most Helpful Girls

  • I was in same situation last year. No daddy issues but wanted to call him daddy.

    Initially I started by talking about family stuff like one day we'll be parents we will have kids and they will irritate you by calling you again and again like daddy this, daddy that, daddy I'm hungry, daddy I'm sleepy. Will you be irritated by this?
    He said "I don't know, I love kids, I'll manage.
    Than I said, "Let's see if you can handle." And started calling him daddy and still do.

  • Pretty creepy and incestuous if you ask me lol I wouldn't be comfortable with it.

    • It's not incestuous lol that would be if she was dating her actual father, this is just a fetish and although many people may not be comfortable with such things it's important not to kinkshame because people can't help what they're into, as long as everybody is a consenting adult I don't see the harm in this

  • Ask him about the topic in a general way?
    Like you saw it somewhere...

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  • Don't

  • talk to him about spicing up your sex sessions with a little dirty talk tell him it will help you get off and ask him if he wants to be called stuff like daddy. 7 out of 10 times he will love being called daddy most guys do and just don't admit it. Wanting to call or be called daddy is more of a domination thing than a parental thing. You want him to sexually be more in control. And calling him daddy is you being submissive to him.

  • talk about it before, tell him how you feel and what you want to do... i was unsure at first when myself and my last ex were together and we were in that sort of relationship... she loved calling me "daddy" which tbh was a huge turn on more so than i thought it would be...

  • If you want to gauge it, just walk up to him. Drape you arm around his shoulder, while pressing your chest into him and say "Hey Daddy".

    If he's into it then, he'll be into it in the bedroom.

    Me personally I kind of have a hangup on it, because in my mind I see it as daddy daughter and that's creepy. But if it's "Daddy" as in short for "Baby Daddy" then I can get into it. Lol. It's just semantics

  • is that a roleplay thing? or why want u call your bf's "daddy"

  • Ick. If he is a white conservitive guy like me, forget it. And I hope his mom doesn't have to hear it. Just no. It is a ghetto thing.

  • yuk. .

  • I'd be creeped out. I might even divorce if she was serious about it.

    • really? that's a little overreacting..

    • Not to me.

  • I fucking love being called daddy (But only during sex) just try it, during sex just quitly moan "oh, daddy" and see how he reacts... it's not like he's gonna stop in the middle of sex XD

  • Keep it balanced.
    Call him, Big daddy/sugar daddy/baby daddy..
    It can be easily seen as names given to him by yourself and it'll not spoil his mood thinking anything else.

  • i'd be out that door quicker than you could say sorry

    • whyy?

    • It's creepy

  • I would love it! Nothing hotter. pm me

  • ye u can call me daddy

  • I liked being called daddy you know your boyfriend but you'll never know till you try it.

  • I'd like it

  • In a sort of impressed way, say "Who's my daddy? You're my daddy." That makes it into kind of a joke and you can judge his reaction and talk about it without making it seem out of the blue.

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