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Guys who prefer smaller boobs, do you find big ones unattractive?

I met my boyfriend online and it came out that he prefers smaller boobs body types, but mine are really rather large (12F). He's more of an ass man, which is fine bc I've got that too. :) Been dating 2 months, so when we have sex he doesn't really play with them or anything (at least not how other guys have in the past), and I'm wondering if - They could actually be a turn off to him? - Should I keep the bra on? I just feel a bit self-conscious when they're going all over the place during sex. We've been dating 2 months. I know I could talk to him, but ofc he won't SAY they're unattractive, so wondering what guys who like this body type would want in his position. ARE they a turn off? WHAT THEY LOOK LIKE: Kim Kardashians boobs are basically like mine (check out her full frontal cover for PAPER magazine).. They're fuller than most boobs this size, but naturally do dangle, bounce a lot and go in weird directions during vigorous sex etc.
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  • Hey, you're definitely worrying unnecessarily! All guys love all boobs, period. Okay, that's not quite accurate, but it's almost that simple! There are guys who prefer small, but if your larger boobs are in good shape, which from what you say they probably are, they are still going to be a turn on for 99% of guys, and the other 1% will (inexplicably!) find them neither a turn on or turn off. Only if they're either insanely large (which they're not) or in poor shape (which I very much doubt) would they actively turn off a guy - a small boob guy will easily learn to love and enjoy larger boobs, he may just not be used to them, or more likely he's just focused elsewhere because something else is even more attractive to him. But don't for a minute think your boobs are actually turning him off, that's just improbable.

    I say this as a guy who strongly prefers large breasts in the sort of abstract way in which such statements are made, but never have I had even a tiny issue with a girlfriend who happened to have small breasts, I can honestly say even the smallest (32A) were still extremely attractive to me - because in reality they don't exist in isolation, they're part of a person to whom you're generally attracted, and frankly boobs of all sizes are fun in their own ways!

    So - bottom line - don't worry! You have a fantastic figure, be proud of it, and for the love of God don't start wearing a bra! lol! :)

    • Thanks for the MHO, happy I could help! :)

  • Every guy has his fetishes. I too am basically an ass man but my lady has 36DD and I play with them. I feel like you're jumping to conclusions. Have you shown them off to him, offered them to him with your hands, etc. I suggest you have a conversation:

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10152-how-to-talk-to-your-so-about-sex

    • Yeah I squeeze them, pull his between between em, nice bras etc etc.. He plays with them a bit, but I don't know, I get the feeling he's not really in to them, like when he does go there, he won't stay in that area for very long... Like id rather he not play with them at all if he's ONLY doing bc he thinks I like it, and not because he does at all... I don't know, is that silly!

    • Typo... *?

    • Talk to him. I sent you a link with some tips on how to do that. Great sex requires talking about it even if it's uncomfortable.

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  • id be more concerned that he's not playing wth them. ion thats something thats important to you. then you're missing pit bc he's got a hang up. i wouldn't stay with a guy who wouldn't touch me where i like to bed touched. no boob plays makes sex pointless for me. but maybe its not big on your list. i like it better than sex.

    anyhow its no good if you're feeling bad during sex. I don't know why he'd tell you that since you're already dating and you already have breasts. its a bit late.

  • You are so lucky! I wish I can find a man who prefers small boobs not just "tolerate" them. I'm 34A, and I often feel that men don't like my very small chest. Lucky you!

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  • They might be a turn-off... but if all other aspects of the relationship are great, it could be the sort of thing that could grow on him over time.

  • Most guys lik my boobs even though they're huge.

    • I think you mean most guys like them BECAUSE they're huge :)

  • I like smaller boobs. Bigger boobs are sort of like a arm; is it a turn off no, but it's not a turn on. If you want him to play with them more feal them yourself and he may get the hint.

  • I like most any boobs. I definitely prefer smaller, but when I am with a woman, her boobs become my favorite type. :-) Definitely give attention to any size!

  • No, the bigger the better.

  • I doubt that he finds them unattractive. Contrary to popular belief... during sex, guys prefer your vagina over your breasts.

    If you're really concerned, leave your bra on next time. If he tries to take it off, or ask you why you haven't taken it off, he probably wants your boobs out and about.

  • Boobs are almost always nice.

  • I'm more of an ass man, but love me some boobies;-* Their all Beautiful... if you want/need for them to get attention let him know. If he knows it turns you on he should be happy to do it.

  • Ok, i've just googled a load of pictures of breasts, cause i don't know sizes. Yup, those are pretty big..
    Well my tastes are toward a smaller frame, so naturaly, the larger thay are past c the less attractive i find them, f isn't too bad but any bigger and i start to find them activly unattractive. I can still enjoy a clevege from time to time, but i wouldn't know what to do with a pair of unleashed Fs up close..

    Were you saying that you would be more comfortable in a bra? If so then that could be the perfect solution for you both, 'cause for me i think its partly about a less acute, tactile continuation of form, which a bra or lingerie would accentuate well. If it's a relationship that's going to last then these things will become easy in time... Im really over tired and rambling... meh, hopfully something in there makes sense... goodluck

  • too big is unattractive, to me. but just big boobs are fine, to me.

    • So what does that mean for you? :) If you meet a girl you like personality wise, and healthy body, but really big boobs.. like would they turn you off and you'd rather not look at them?

    • well i said this before, the more you get to know a person, the more you ease down on your initial requirements, or any of your "strict" requirements, because you begin to really like the person. if I found myself very attracted to her, her really big boobs wouldn't ever be a factor, in fact, I'd turn everything about her into a positive. so it's difficult for me to answer, also because I wouldn't say no to a girl just because she has really big boobs.

  • Well I'll put in my opinion too. I do really love breasts but you want to know why? I want to touch her/them in a way I can see she really likes it!! Because later when I reach in between her legs I want her wet!! I assume caressing them, holding them, kissing and sucking different areas all over them should get the result I want and it's never failed.

    I wonder if your guy isn't sure what to do or what you want. Perhaps you need to be direct with him. Outside the bedroom. Bring up a conversation, perhaps about bras and ask him if he likes yours or if he has a preference for size. When he says he likes yours, give him a suggestion of what you would like done with them next time when you have sex
    and give him a wink or something to let him know you are serious!!

    Do you think this helps?

  • They can be a bit but don't be self conscious or keep your bra on. If I'm dating you or you're my girlfriend then I like you, all of you and I've accepted your size so I want to see you. Your size just isn't my preference but again, if it was a turn off I wouldn't be with you in the first place. Like you said, he's just more of an ass man. Tell him you'd like your boobs played with. He probably just thinks it doesn't matter to you.

  • Big boobs, small boobs, big penis, small penis. Who cares? You need to know how to use what you got.

  • It depends on the boob! I won’t deny that gigantic ones like Gianna Michaels or Katerina Konec have might be fun to play with, but my preference is still for little perky ones.

  • Im a huge... small boob fan and honestly the smaller they are the more i like em (as long as the girl is skinny). As far as big boobs go, theyre not unattractive to me but the novelty quickly wears off and i start wanting small again

  • Big tits or GTFO

  • All boobs are the shit brah

  • I'm all about stomachs too and very large bra sizes are generally associated with higher body fat body types tbh. Soo this translates usually to I like medium boobs, like Cs or Ds for example.

  • kind of, yeah. I mean, I don't want to get knocked out by one when you turn to the side.

  • I think rather than having us look at someone else's show us yours and then we know what we are dealing with

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