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Do WOmen Enjoy Casual Sex With No Strings Attached? Or are they commitment freaks?

I aks this because from my experience, either 1) I am not attractive enough, 2) women's sexual drive is determined by a mans money, or 3) they are all deathly allergic to penises, or 4) they are obsessed with marriage and commitment, or 5) are total prudes who think intercourse should be outlawed entirely (I have serious met these kind of women. How do they expect us to breed, the stupid bitches?). I have tried putting up personal ads, and yet I get no responses. I have answered women's ads who claimed that thye wnated what I wanted, and it turned out they were expensive whores. THOSE ADS BELONG IN "PERSONAL SERVICES" SECTION! Please tell me there are womne out there who enjoy casual sex with no complications or strings attached.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • MOST (not all) women want a relationship - an emotional connection - before they can feel comfortable and really enjoy having sex. There are lots of reasons for this that I've talked about at length a hundred times here, but it's true.

    Now, some of those same women might *occasionally* enjoy casual sex - but they instinctively understand that casual sex is in high demand from guys, and in short supply, so they can command a high level of value from their casual sex. In other words, they usually only want casual sex with the most attractive guys - because in most cases, they CAN. This is why 10% of guys are having 80% of the casual sex.

    If you want casual sex, your choices are: become one of those top 10% guys (judged using women's perspective, not your own), try to find one of the "exception" girls who is willing to have casual sex with an "average" guy (and she'll probably be average at best herself), or hire a prostitute.

    Otherwise, if you want sex, you're going to actually have to HAVE A RELATIONSHIP with a woman. With genuine feelings, a commitment, and everything.

    That's the way the world works, and you aren't going to change it, so you can either adjust to the rules and make it work for you, or you can whine about how unfair it is and never get anywhere. There's no magic that is going to let you get all the casual sex you'd like for nothing.

  • Let me go point by point here:
    1) If you think you aren't good enough you are already defeated
    2) The kind of women that get wet over money probably aren't the kind of women you would want as a partner
    3) They actually love penises. Although some feminists may claim this fact, it is false. They are thirsty.
    4) I don't see the problem with commitment? You don't have to marry a girl to have sex with her (usually).
    5) I don't know who these women are who think sex should be outlawed, but I bet there are fanatical in some regard. Most likely feminist or religious.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Of course there are I am one of them. We just don't go around advertising as that is uncool. You're 21 years old how varied are your experiences? How many pounds of you lived in how many girls of you gone out with? At 21 I don't think the answer is a plethora of women what towns or cities or understanding

  • well i do, but the thing is i weed guys out if they expect too much. i've had a total of 3 casual sex friends with benefits situations and that's the only casual sex i've ever had. even if it's casual i don't want it to be a 1 time 'i don't know u but i'll rock your world tonight and only tonight' ordeal.

  • I don't but from the looks of the site there are plenty who do. I think women go top tier for causual tho. I guess there has to be a lot of attraction for it to be enjoyable for them. So I guess you have to be hot, rich or super charismatic. Probably all three. 😄

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  • Before I was married, I hated commitment. I was all about no strings, would fuck a guy and hope he never tried to talk to me again, and I never attached feelings to sex. Ever.
    I realize not all women are like that, but it worked for me. I'm happily married now, and I don't think my younger behavior affected my current relationship.

  • lol, apparently some do. I have never met any personally either.

  • Some women do, some don't. But in either scenario, bitterness will always count against you.

  • If you want to buy a cheap vagina, go to Craigslist...

  • Its a 50/50 chance but I know tons of girls who prefer no strings

  • I would prefer commitment but hey the casual on the odd occasion why not

  • You talk about breeding yet you're bashing commitment? o_o
    There are always complications and risk possible on our side.

  • I'm a commitment freak :D
    Can't say the same about every woman though.

  • commitment// too old for casual sex

  • Most of em are obsessed and desperate with relationships lol so

  • Just like guys. so do some dont

  • Some do, some don't.

  • Women are more likely to find casual sex partners through social interactions than personal ads. I see guys of all looks levels hooking up - generally with girls in their own looks range. But it generally all involved social interactions. You have a knack for wordplay... Drop the bitter banter and that can work in your favor.

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