Why do my sexual partners cum so fast? is there something wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

EVERYGUY I have been with (which is 9) has always came fast with me. Some more fast than others, but still really fast. They all were very expierence and always told me that they don't know why but they can't last long with me and I seem to be the only girl that does it to them. I've noticed that every guy I have sex with, they automatically tell me I'm really tight.. But I have slept with 9 people? I just really don't know what is wrong with me! Even the second, third, fourth time, etc in a row... They still come that fast and nothing changes. Recently, I've been with this guy who is VERY EXPIERENCED and we finally last together last night. The first time he came less than 3 minutes and even I could tell he was suprised by the look on his face! Right after, we then tried again and he came even faster! This morning we did it again and he came fast again and he got very mad and left. I don't know what is wrong with me? Is this the guys fault or mine? And is this a be turn off to guys? HOW DO I FIX IT? I feel like I made a complete idiot of myself and he no longer finds me attractive and wants to do stuff with me because of it? Guy... How would y'all feel about this? And girls... Has this happened to you before? What did you do and who's fault was it? I really like this guy and I don't want him not liking me because I make him cum to fast.. This is such a bad thing!!!

[Alan180188]

it's a good thing (unless you will give birth someday :P ) ... I have a problem with cumming late due to my nervous mind and was always getting tired sometimes till I come ! untill I met my last ex ! she had a tight pussy but in strange way ! I swear I was feeling like it hugs my dick and suck the cum out of it ! I was cumming so fast I was surprised my self and later it became the main problem in our sex time, for me I can go for two or three shots at one stand so after a long discussion with her we found the solution... we would start with kissing then directly we go for first and I finish then we go for oral for a while as a break for me to be ready for the second and for her o get aroused enough then by the time we start again and I finish for the second time she was finishing too before that and then if we was feeling that the passion didn't brake we were going for my third and her second and the time to get there was allowing us to try many different positions and stuff !
but of course after a while when the relationship get serious and you pass couple of fights and problems the passion reduces between you two and she was having sex with me as a duty so I finish and after that we were not continuing and was back to the problem and it affected my psychology badly and my self confidence till I found another way ! I was masturbating before going to meet her (usually the main reason why I was always arriving late hhhhhhh) or applying delay spray which helped me last for at least 20 minutes so it was enough for me to get her where she want and saved the sex time again ;)
SO! the solution depends on him if he can go for more than one then he can use my first plan, if not you can buy a delay spray and apply it for him it works directly 10 mins after applying and you can use the time for kissing or arousing him by a dance bla bla bla

[broadsword]

Your normal and this is good thing not bad.
Women worry to much I think so negatively. It's amazing and you obviously a very good lover your vagina being tight will stimulate him more. but many other things make a guy com quickly. Maybe he hadn't come for a few days. Not masturbated or had sex. So he was full and very turned on.
Please stop blaming yourself and be thrilled that you turned on. Spend more time with foreplay oral and manual sex stay away from penetration.
Maybe you go on top and stop him thrusting and just grind instead.

[aliceinwonderland69]

He's the one that made an idiot of himself.

[MasterPeach]

1st, you must be great
2nd, he is embarrassed
Younger guys lasting more than a few minutes is usually quite a trick. It's not necessarily about experience, but knowing how to avoid cumming. There are a few easy ways to help with this.
1. Have him masturbate or get him off before going to vaginal sex. The body (usually) takes time to get back into action before another round.
2. Keep changing up the positions. Not every minute, but mix it up. Or you can just stop the positions and go back to oral. BE WARNED, if you keep "edging" him and then stop him from cumming, then when he finally does get off his load will be massive.
3. There is a position for every guy that he can't seem to cum will doing. I can honestly say for me it is the gal on top. However my gal can get off 2-4 times that way before she wants me to take over again.

[AceOtana1]

Try more foreplay. Sex lusts must longer and is usually much more enjoyable. And during foreplay, you could cum first, then it's just a matter of finishing him off. That way you're both satisfied.

[TripleAce]

Sounds consistent with how nature intended. Nature has survival mechanisms and one of them is to procreate. Which is why nature made the incentive very high to engage in sex, which is also why it designed men to quickly finish off to get the job done.

[frozenhorizon]

The most likely explanation would be that you are extremely hot. They could try taking phenibut, works pretty well for me even though that's not the intended use.

[epiper888]

Phenibut... why recomended the most random thing for Finished quick, wanna know what else makes you lasts longer, heroin! He needs to do heroin

[frozenhorizon]

Also it's not your problem at all! There's no reason he should get mad. It's not a turn off, but maybe you should tell him you really like him and it doesn't matter, because he might just be insecure about it.

[frozenhorizon]

@epiper888 Well heroin is illegal and expensive, phenibut is legal and cheap and easy to get. Gabapentin works well too... any gabapentinoid probably. And they are safer and less sedative than heroin as well.

[epiper888]

I actually happen to take gabapentin and know it doesn't work well for me at least. What really dose get the job done is Kratom. Legal, relatively non addictive.

[frozenhorizon]

@epiper888 Weird! It worked extremely well for me. So well that once I could not cum even after like 2 hours and we had to give up lmao. Kratom seems like it would work too, you're right, good idea. I think it's probably kind of addictive still... but phenibut and gabapentin do cause dependence. If you don't take it more than once or twice a week that isn't usually a problem but some people can't help themselves.

[epiper888]

Yeah, what funny is I ran out of gabapentin early, I know gabapentin and phenibut have simular mechanisms of action but slightly different. Gabapentin "withdrawal" isn't very pleasant, insomnia, irritability and wanting to jump out of skin. Only lasted 3 days so wasn't all that bad

[frozenhorizon]

@epiper888 Right, I've read about it and it sounds very unpleasant. Good thing it only lasted 3 days.

[NotTheFBI]

Interesting... so your pussy that good eh? Well that would explain his cumming fast but still it's not you it's them, it got them all crazy and they came fast. Simple as that... now you got me thinking about how good it is lol. :P

[douride2]

You don't have a problem it's him.

[AWiserFool]

Yes, they are just inexperienced and can't deal with the snugness. The first step they need to take to learn dick control is just to keep going. It isn't fun at first but you can get better at it fast and the muscles get stronger down there

[PhoenixItalian]

Are you extraordinarily good looking?

[skeptic007]

THAT PUSSY IS THE
upload.wikimedia.org/.../...thole_-_Badger_001.jpg LOL

[Prince_teddy4u]

No. Problem is with him.

[Anonymous]

You must really know how to please him. I remember getting off in like 30 seconds before when my girlfriend reversed cowgirled me on the couch, felt so good my balls hurt afterward in a good way

[Asker]

So don't guys not like it when a girl does that to him? And Is he gonna stop talking to me bc of it? He still hasn't replied back to me since 7 this morning...

[Opinion Owner]

I guess issues with himself... try a suggestion, tell him to whack off a little before... then he should last least 10 minutes. I'm sure you're disappointed

[Anonymous]

You're basically a good fuck. They get mad because they're dissapointed in themselves for coming to fast

[Asker]

So is he not going to talk to me anymore because of this? How can I help him not come so fast?