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I'm Getting Bullied Because Of My Big Butt... Please Help?

by the way I am really skinny with small shoulders and no waist with big butt and thighs It's not like the extreme bullying, but nevertheless, they still make fun of me. I'm in the 7 grade and these girls and GUYS in the eighth grade keep grabbing and slapping my butt. Today I was in a line up and the eighth grade boys and girls were grabbing and slapping my butt like crazy. They were all laughing. my butt jiggles when I walk and people always talk about it. I constantly bump into people with my butt like almost every other day, one time my butt crack was showing when I was sitting down and one girl called me a big booty ho and started laughing. I can't help having a big butt. People would tap me on my butt just to get my attention. And if that wasn't enough, I was at recess and one guy was making this face like as if he wanted to fuck me, like WTF, and that same day one girl came up behind me and stuck her fingers down my butt and said "Butt Sex" simultaneous as she did it and everybody laughed. It's so annoying and stupid and I try to tell them to stop but they wouldn't. What should I do? I'm not depressed or suicidal or anything... but it's getting annoying!!
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Tell the faculty about the intensity of the harassment. If they brush it off, tell your parents. If they brush it off, tell the school's Human Resource department. This sounds like sexual harassment and needs to be dealt with before it gets worse.

    And honestly if it were me and no one else (teachers, parents, HR, etc.) gave a damn to help me out then I'd take matters into my own hands. Make an example out of the worst of them. Punch them in the fucking face and stand up for yourself. Sure it will probably go on your permanent record but you can always be sure to throw it in the schools face for not doing something about it in the beginning when you told them about the harassment. Playing the victim and just letting it slide makes you an easier target for more bullying. Don't let them get away with it. SHOW them that you hate this behavior and aren't going to be taking it from people any more. Be warned that you might suddenly become "that crazy big butt bitch" but at least then people will probably start respecting your boundaries.

    Or if hitting someone isn't quite your style why not give them a taste of their own medicine. Constantly touch them back and get in their personal space at inappropriate times and see how they like it.

    Or I have another idea that's sort of like both. This will only be useful against guys though. Every time a guy jokingly slaps your ass, as fast as you can turn around and slap them in the face with a blank expression. If they are guys you can more easily justify standing your ground do to sexual harassment and won't be in as much trouble. It is important that you keep a cold blank expression every time so you don't give them the reaction they want (anger/embarrassment/shame) and show that you are fed up with their shit. Slowly you might be able to condition the guys into knowing that slapping your ass means pain and possibly detention.

    I was not fat, but I was made fun of and bullied a lot in elementary-high school. You've just got to own who you are and let them know that they won't get away with giving you shit for it.

    • wait... time out you're a guy... my bad. That does complicate things... sry for reading that and assuming you were a girl... well since you can't very well slap girls it's probably still for the best that you hit some dude in the face or tell the HR department. Just because you're a guy doesn't mean it's not still sexual harassment. Since it's morally looked down upon to hurt women, maybe try grabbing their hand whenever they touch you like that and calmly but angrily tell them to their face that you Do Not Like It When People Invade Your Personal Space Like That and let them go. Maybe bring some kind of recorder with you to school and have it on your person at all times to get evidence to show people how bad the problem is?

  • You're getting sexually harrassed. If you don't like it report it to the teaches, and if a boy messes with you punch him in the face. You have to learn to stand up for yourself or people will walk all over you. You're still a young man, and your body is still developing, but maybe get into some sports. The more active you are the more testosterone you'll produce, and you'll also gain some more muscle. Perhaps your body is a little feminine right now, bulking up some shouldn't hurt at all.

  • You should learn to love your big butt. You are blessed with a butt lots of girl would kill for. That’s why they make fun of you. Because they know your sexy and your butt attracts guy. And the guys are just following the bold guy who started this. You should tell a Authority figure. And embrace and love your big butt. It’s sexy and something all girls want. Love your body. You are amazing and so is your butt

Most Helpful Guys

  • At your age, you're going to encounter a lot of immaturity and stupidity. I have a big butt for a guy, and I've gotten so many comments on it. I cannot help what I was born with. I got teased earlier in my life, but now girls say they like it which is fine but I don't appreciate the comments like I don't know that I have it.

    Just ignore the comments and report them if they put their hands on you.

    • if they make comments about sexually assaulting you then definitely report that.

  • Guys are grabbing you but... embarrass them by pointing out how gay that is, if you really want to you could get them suspended for sexual harassment. Other guys would be awkward around them, treat them bad. As for the girls, grab their ass and see how they like it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Have you tried calling 1-900-MIXALOT?

    • 30 seconds too late for me 😂😂😂

    • @Other_Tommy_Wiseau 😛

  • Regrettably kids in your age range are rather cruel and thoughtless creatures. It doesn't matter to them that the humor they are enjoying is coming at the expense of your dignity. The best advice I can give you is to ignore them. You are the way you are and in all fairness it is part of what makes you unique. I can't say why they bully you or even how to make it stop other than what I have suggested. Just know that you won't be in middle school forever and that this too shall pass.

  • And now you know how Nicki and Kim feel.

  • Don't get annoyed dear, it is something they want to have but can't have which is why their jealousy and attraction comes out in this form.

  • WOW, you should report them for sexual harassment. But yea, big booty, hips and thighs is becoming common in men with low test. levels they have these days. Anyway, your 13, your still growing so dont worry about it.

  • Slap them asses back.

    Other than that, just dont let it get to you. Getting angry is exactly what they want.

  • Report the bullies to your teachers

  • Have you asked this before I feel like I recognize it.

    • Look behind u

    • @Harbor why?

    • You never know who's following you. Be safe, and be aware.

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  • What I do to deal with dipshits that annoy me is use those flexible pencils that bend to whip people’s hands, it works pretty well.

  • Tell they to quit, but don't be embarreced with it, you just have it and you should live with it, so you can better not take those jokes to serious and do it to them sometime, slap their butts or squeeze them. Just don't let them win. (god, I which I had a bigger butt)

  • Thank God you're tolerating this as well as you are. That said, you may have a hormonal imbalance. Ask your doctor about it.

  • They're only teasing... next time a girl grabs your ass grab a handful of her tatas.

  • Wtf? You are in 7th grade and boys and girls are saying shit like that? That is SOO innapropiate. Tell the principle what is happening BC I would have done knocked all them assholes out😩😐

  • There is this miscer.. name is shoelaces. I shit you not this is his ass lmfao. He always posts funny stories about it. Not that big of a deal tbh.

    https://i.imgur.com/XQ5mUuB.png?1

    • why is his name shoelaces?

    • @Red7336 no idea lol.

    • lol xD

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  • You will definitely going to have to reach out to someone no one should be sexually harassing you and making you feel as though suicide is the way out talk to your parents talk to a counselor immediately

  • Tell a teacher, a principal. And you let them know who bothers you after they gave a good GOOD warning

  • 1. not bullying but sexual harassment u should start knocking the SD hit out of people 2. u will gtow into ur body fuck whatever they say they aren't important

  • I mean... LOL WTF. Ummm, are you sure this isn't just some scene from a fucked up hentai or something. Or maybe you're really creative at writing hentai.

    If not then I mean, you're getting more action from girls than me so congratz.

    • No this is really my problem in having to deal with

  • Own it and make wise cracks back like you know you want some or you wish you had one. The more you let it bother you the more they'll pick on you. Belive it or not, one day you'll grown into that butt and every girl really WILL want to pinch it since most guys probably will have a flat ass in their 20s compared to you.

  • Tell the principal

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