Guys who have sidechicks do it by keeping the tension. There's a level of emotional drama he has to upkeep. That's part of the reason the girl is into it in the first place. In her mind, she is "winning" because she thinks she is the one that makes him "really" happy and that his woman doesn't provide that. He doesn't love his woman, he loves her. He just "can't" be with her right now for any reason he can think of. And because he says not "right now" implying later she stays on the hook.
He'll ignore her if she gets a little too needy or give her less affection in order to make her think she did something wrong. She backs off a bit and even wants to please him in order to make up for doing something wrong that doesn't exist.
Honestly, being the other woman is worse than being the girl he's cheating on. Because at least he's being real to his girl, just lying about being loyal. But he's lying to the side chick about everything. That it's about more than sex, that he loves her, that he doesn't love his girl and that they'll be together in the future. And really pretending to be someone he's not around her.2 0 0 0#SoulCrusher
You are not honest with yourself if you have a girlfriend and a chick on the side waiting, it's like one foot in the door and the other out, you end up not having both in the end and mess up your life. So no thanks to that!
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A side chick is only a legit piece of ass nothing more, everything will always only be lies, more and more lies get told to keep the booty coming and he may even bribe you with gifts or take you out to keep your mouth shut. He's with the LEGIT WOMAN he wants to spend his life with. A man will not stay where he does not want to be. But a hoe is a hoe. If that's what he is. Sex is all you will get out of the man and he will never be serious with you if you ever were to go further he'd do the same exact thing to you. It's nothing but a huge circle
0 0 0 0First, any girl should refuse to be the "side chick" and all problems and questions are solved.
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1 7You basically should be happy with the person your in a relationship with but end that relationship first before you start playing around with other girls
0 0 0 0Why do you ask this question? Do you crave being a side check
0 0 0 0Don't do side chicks
1 0 0 0With the dick.
0 0 0 0Fuck her hard and I mean nasty shit like bullet casings in her vagina type stuff.
0 0 0 0I don't, they keep me interested lol
1 0 0 0its boring when a girl is easy to get and thats when i get dis interested, so in my opinion its the girls role to keep the guy interested or he won't bother with that ho.
0 0 0 0She's the side chick her feelings don't matter... real talk
0 0 0 0I believe you but.. what if he always keeps his word, bring you gifts, ask how you're doing, takes care of you when you're sick or stressed, sends your favorite songs to listen, and keeps being interested in everything you do?
Then he's catching feelings... you never buy a side chick gifts... every playa knows that
He already told me that he's fallen hard for me. Should I be worried?
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