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Why do men get angry so quickly/easily?

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This is getting too common / why I deleted dating apps. I know not all guys are like this but why do so many guys act like they are entitled to women and that if we say no or don't give the guy our full attention right away (how dare we have lives to live!) we deserve to be threatened in insulted?
12:30: "Hey gorgeous!, we are in the same area and you look like such a sweetie I'd love to get to know you!"
12:34: "It's Saturday I know you are awake! I like your cat by the way in your second picture, I have a little tabby at home myself!"
12:45: "You should know that I am not usually interested in many girls!" *Then he sent me a picture of his penis*
1:11: "HEY CUNT, I guess you are too brain-dead to recognise an alpha male, you need to know that no filthy little bitch will EVER get away with ignoring me. Imagine your cat getting thrown against the wall so hard that it's head cracks open! I only messaged you so I could fuck you and don't you ever think for a second that you would ever or could ever be worth a single thing to me you disgusting diseased whore! If I ever see you I will beat you so badly that that homely face of yours doesn't have any features left, you will be living hooked up to machines if you are lucky enough that I let you live! YOU FUCKING STUCK UP CUNT, WOMEN NEED TO REALISE THAT YOU ARE NOT WORTH A DAMN THING. I have 12 hunting knives and I will CARVE YOUR DISGUSTING CUNT OUT OF YOUR BODY AND MAKE YOU EAT IT FUCK YOU."

After this I contacted police. This man has lost his job, his cat has been taken away from him, he was fined in court and kicked out of his apartment because his landlord didn't want a potentially violent person renting from her, all because he decided he hates women and can't control his temper/emotions. Why do men do this so often and why would they risk ruining their life over a moment of anger?
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  • I'm curious to know do you only think men do this thing or do you except that women do it to? Like don't get me wrong yes the guy your describing needed for the cops to be called on him, but keep in mind that is just that guy not all men are like that anb women can be that crazy to. Not all women or all men are that way some times people can just act crazy and do or say crazy things. In my opinion the guy you described probably has a lot of personal problems with himself both mentally and physically and do to that probably has a terrible self image an is lacking in socal skills and appropriate scocial behavior. So it's not that men or women for that mater get angry quickly or easily it more so that people can sometimes have internal struggles that they can't deal with and instead of dealing help they let there struggles take them over and may make them lash out illogically. Just keep in mind in this case you describe yea the man clearly needed mentally help, but that's not all men, and women can and do lash out just as frequently and in similar ways. The truth of the matter is ass a people we must learn to deal with our problems and internal issues so we can not only except each other but so we can also except ourselves, and in the end form good and strong social communication.

    • Fine I think women are more likely to insult a guy but men are more likely to get violent.

    • Actually in some study's done they actually show similarity's and differences in female violence vs male violence. The difference is that a woman's physical act of violence may be smaller and odds are will occur often in small and posibly more frequent burst, but men who are violet may have less burst of time in which they are violent, but the violence in that small window is greater than that of many women. So it's really a toss up of saying which violence is worse the more spread out violence that occurs more frequently yet is smaller in its damage or the violence that occurs fewer times but is greater in its damage. The reality of course is that neither form is appropriate and both forms of violence causes not only physical trauma to the victims, but offten more than not mental trauma as well. As a people we need to be better than that men and women alike.

  • He probably hates women more than ever after that encounter.

    Sometimes I'm embarrassed about sharing a sex with such hateful people. I truly don't understand it's as alien to me as it is to you.

    • I just don't get what they expect to get from that behaviour of course he was held accountable he's an adult does he not realise he's an adult who is accountable for what he says? I don't get how someone can be so spoiled!

Most Helpful Girls

  • Lmfao that guy is so beta.
    Alphas dont bitch like that. Alphas can move from one woman to the next without a care.

    But nah, he's prob not used to getting rejected. Especially over an app and it prob hurt his little ego. But damn, thats excessive.
    He also may have a small penis.

    • And... the size of his penis relates to this how?

    • @jjmarvin usually guys THAT insecure and desperate have small dicks.

    • You inspect all of their dicks eh? Break out your ruler every time you see a rude guy, get him hard, then perform a consistent measurement process to record his length and circumference, eh? (Psst... I'm implying what you said is sexist and not grounded in fact)

  • I've had guys who did that when they found out I was gay but thats kind of a generalisation, lots of men are calm, sure lots also have a temper but that guy is an extreme case.

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  • It's because men are fookin' angry all the time. It's our secret

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6NgzXQ6DaiM



    ^ just listen to this angry guy (1:08 best part)

    33.media.tumblr.com/.../...02zJfR1sxcftfo1_400.gif

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VWIIdx483OE

  • Thank you for having that clown what he deserved! I don't think they are suddenly in greater numbers, they are just much easier to meet since the coming of social media.

  • Jesus Christ, I don't know why... Religion, sexually repressed, self-loathing, too much porn and masturbation, not enough active sports, too many video games. That is my bet. I would never do anything close to this, if anything I have had the opposite, girls go nuts on me and ask me why they never get a rise out of me.

    I am sorry you go through this too much, try developing your intuition and stay fucking clear of psychos.

    • Speaking or porn I feel like really violent porn is the norm now I don't get why..

    • People get desensitized, it dehumanizes the actors too, fetishism is an issue to, they need more and more, and it needs to be more and more specific too... So bad and unhealthy. God I hate humanity. Luckily there are still a select few good people out there! I have found a few myself, nothing better than a good support system :P

    • yeah very true I don't get how human beings are so evil sometimes and how causing someone pain and humiliation could ever get anyone sexually excited.

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  • Being a D*ck is not exclusive to gender/race/religion/age/colour/creed etc! Equally being a nice person is not exclusive! The only sensible way is to judge people how you find them and not rely on stereotypes!

  • blame it on the T.

    • Men are not mindless animals, women have testosterone too so it's no excuse to be a violent psycho

    • but men have like 10x more testosterone. it's not an excuse but it is a fact. high testosterone levels is linked to aggressive behavior.

    • Hormone disorders are really rare and even healthy levels of testosterone in men doesn't raise their tendencies toward violence

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  • Jealousy, feeling insecure, wanting to show off, excess testosteron.

  • Bruised ego's, hurt pride, impatients and stupidity usually are the culprits as to why lol

  • There's guys who get angry from time to time, and then there's psychopaths who have anger problems, and that guy was a psychopath.

    Now immature guys who get upset by being turned down might cuss the girl out or call her names simply because theyre sexually frustrated or they are egotistic and think they're hot shit whose irresistible so when they get turned down it shatters their reality. (but that guy like I said, was a psychopath)

  • No... no we don't get angry so easily! YOU GET ANGRY SO EASILY!!!
    DON"T JUDGE ME!!! ARRRRRGHNHSBABKDBSKDBAKSBDKAHB!!!

    Lol nah just kidding... testosterone is why... look it up.

    • Testosterone is not an excuse for threatening to kill someone and being a terrible person, I have more faith in men than that. You are not wild animals you have human intelligence and should be able to control yourselves like adults. And women have testosterone too all humans need both testosterone and estrogen to be healthy!

    • When it gets to threatening someone to kill them... thats different... thats a red flag to stay away from that person and hopefully they'll seek professional help... end of story.

  • Well, this particular guy obviously has serious issues and needs to get therapy. Besides, like someone else said, he has more of a beta male attitude due to his bitterness of being rejected.

  • Yea, it's sad. They get rejected and then throw a fit. Like wtf, you're not obliged to anyone.

    • Yeah I couldn't imagine thinking in that way like "Oh you are a man so that means I own you and you have to fuck me and do whatever I want or I will threaten to hurt you!" How does someone even get so messed up?

  • I know this question has nothing to do with this I'm gonna ask but some girl told me in a convo in a joke way that I could "slide in my dms" what was she talking about?

    • no clue

    • maybe check urban dictionary? I mean I'm young but I don't know what that means so maybe that's like high school lingo she's using idk?

  • Looking at the case you presented above, he was wayyy too aggressive and deserved what he got.

    You mentioned:
    "This is getting too common / why I deleted dating apps. I know not all guys are like this but why do so many guys act like they are entitled to women and that if we say no or don't give the guy our full attention right away (how dare we have lives to live!) we deserve to be threatened in insulted?"

    You don't deserve to get threatened or insulted... but you have to also look at this from a man's point of view. Here are some examples below:

    -Guy and girl talk for a while, guy gets a girls information (social media/number/etc)... he tries to text her, she READS text but never replies... BUT posts on social media.

    The above scenario is very real for many men. When a guy attempts to talk to women via social media, text, etc... he is often ignored by her and the girl claims to be "too busy"... but she is not too busy to post to social media or reply to her other friends. I see women on their phones all day, so there really isn't an excuse no to get back to someone extremely late or not all.

    This is why social media, texting, etc is a losing game for men. All of these mediums are made for women, dominated by women and women use these mediums to feel better about themselves.

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