I am a virgin and want to date a non virgin guy. What does this make me be?

why are non virgin guys who want to date a virgin judged but virgins who want a virgin guy are not judged? A virgin guy who wants a pure girl is a hypocrite. A virgin who wants a manwhore is what?
And by manwhore I mean a guy who

a fool because you deserve more than a non virgin guy
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a hypocrite because you are a virgin and don't want a virgin guy
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a person with preferences
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  • You want a manwhore? Get ready to begin a life of being used for sex lol
    You're a fool.

    The reason why people see non virgin men as hypocrites to chase virgin women, is because they almost always insult fellow non virgin women in the process calling them whores, used up, sluts, not relationship material. It's like, wtf? Then what does that make you?
    Had you said "I want non virgin men because virgins are useless tools who are losers" THEN, trust me, people would have a field day.

    Also, whether we want to face it or not, virginity is a more desirable trait. So the "more desirables" can choose with less judgements among the "less desirables". Another example is let's say an obese person wants to only date skinny or athletic people, that obese person would get told that they can't be choosy. But if a skinny or athletic person would want to date only obese people, they'd get more questions than insults thrown at them. Because the more desirable traits you have, the more options you have. And the less you have, the more ridiculous, it's seen, to demand someone "above your league", and if you insult those within your league, even worse.

    • those guys may not insult non virgin girls. But non virgin girls want to diminish female virginity

    • No, most virgin hunters constantly insult non virgin women. That's where most the outrage lies. And I don't care about female virginity. It's your choice.

    • And you insulted virgin men by saying it's not masculine in another response. Oh honey, you are a hypocrite.

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  • A virgin guy that wants to date a virgin girl isn't a hypocrite. A non virgin guy that wants to date a virgin girl is a hypocrite.

    • I missed the word "non"

  • D, Other. A smart girl who wants her first time to be handed by someone who knows how to treat a girl.

    • I am glad you understood. Besides sexually active guys are masculine. I don't want to virginshame but virginity is not masculine

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  • Well, some people are bothered by it.

    When (desirable) non virgin guys target virgin women, non-virgin women are offended and call them hypocrits. And they're concerns are taken seriously.

    When virgin girls want experienced guys, the virgin guys are upset, and nobody gives a fuck about them or their whining, because the more they whine, the more people see them as boys not men and not deserving of sex.

    • but why are non virgin girls so butthurt when non virgin guys praise female purity? does this make those non virgin girls less desirable

    • Those guys are saying they are less desirable, yes. That's one reason some are butthurt. The other reason some are butthurt is they don't just do vaginal sex.

    • is that why non virgin girls want to diminish female virginity?

  • Just a normal person who dates a normal person

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  • They options make no sense? You have 3 questions and a half sentences?

  • It makes you be nothing, nothing changes in your life. You're just a normal person who wants a normal thing. There's nothing wrong with what you want. People should mind their own business and respect what you want.

    • no one judges me. But many girls judge non virgin guys who prefer virgins

    • Well, they shouldn't.

  • I don't know. Horny?
    You that #UpsetVirginGirl?

    • Virgin yes, upset? why?

    • You tell me. Lol.

    • I would be upset if I fell in love with someone who doesn't pay attention to me

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  • Human. You preferring a non virgin guy is the same as any other preference you have towards a man! No one should judge someone based on their preference.

  • It doesn't make you anything in particular. It doesn't matter. Do whatever you like and don't worry so much.

  • Wait so a nonvirgin guy who wants a virgin girl is a hypocrite but a virgin girl who wants a nonvirgin guy isn't? That doesn't add up.

    • at least no one judges me for that

    • I'm kinda judging you for not being consistent

    • My standards are high

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  • Your an idiot. The only box you need to tick when u want to sleep with somebody is do I like them. You give people you like questionnaires to fill out?

  • You want an experienced partner, that's all

  • Because it's just a bunch of insecure girls... Who think like that...

    Maybe they sleep around

  • "A virgin guy who wants a pure girl is a hypocrite"

    How so? I'm a virgin, and I'm about to start dating a woman who is most likely not a virgin, but I think your statement is wrong.

    • a NON virgin guy who wants a pure girl is a hypocrite

    • OK, that makes sense.

  • Someone looking for a person experienced in bed.

  • It makes you a normal girl who happens to be a virgin.

  • Nothing wrong with that

  • you are pretty much mean to virgin guys , no wonder they are alone forever

    • there are very few virgin guys lol

  • It makes you stupid, that's what.

  • im a virgin, wouldn't u date me?

    • Apparently, she's a virgin man shamer. So she is a hypocrite.

  • I'm a non-virgin guy... and I'd DEFINITELY not date a virgin gal...

    First of all she'd suck at sex... and it'd destroy ma ego as well... a guy who dates a virgin? Really? If I said dat to anyone they'd laugh at me... and they'd have any right to do...

    Only lesser guys go wid virgins...

    • but we are talking about dating not just sleeping for fun

    • you said first of all. and what is secondly? when you said first of all I thought you had more than 1 point lol

    • "Only lesser guys go wid virgins..." Not all guys are looking for just great sex in a relationship. Besides, people can LEARN how to have great sex.

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