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I gave my boyfriend's boss a blowjob back in school. How do we go about this?

When I was 15 there was this guy from my school who was older (18) and I don't know how come, but he was able to talk so many girls into giving him a (mostly first) blowjob. It started earlier with him showing us curious 11yo girls how he jacked off. Then the blowjobs started. He just asked some girls on Friday after school to come with him to this shack at the sports field and there it happened, girls spread the word around and we all "learned" how to suck a dick by the time we were 18. Or at least the pretty ones. Must have been over 20 of us. Only later I realized how fucked up this situation was, especially since me and my friends did it often and kind of relieved each other weekly. And we weren't always single when this happened. I'm very ashamed of this. Now, pure coincidence, this guy became my boyfriend's boss a couple weeks back. Apparently, his dad owns the company and he just gets the job without having to do much and makes a nice loan too because of his dad. And of course he is a real asshole to my boyfriend. I met him and he immediately recognized me and was really friendly, even flirty. He told my boyfriend he knew me from school and I couldn't do anything but act friendly toward him. I was hoping that nothing would come up about what happened when we were young, but of course, this asshole told some people that he got a blowjob from one of the employees' girls and he found out. So now my boyfriend is angry that I never told him even when I recognized his boss, although I have been very honest about everything else. This was just too weird and I was afraid to tell it. How should we go about this? And no, we are not breaking up or anything. As a couple we'll get over it. It's just really difficult for my boyfriend at work right now.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • That guy is a freaking creep and kinda sounds like a pedophile. Talk to your boyfriend and explain how messed up this guy was. Tell him you're ashamed of your past, just explain it to him the same way you've explained it to us. If he has questions and concerns be honest with him and sensitive to his feelings. This might be old stuff to you, but the wound is very new and very fresh to him. Also, if it gets too bad for him show him your support no matter what. Even if that includes him getting a better job. Also, tell him not to be afraid of reporting this guy, go above that guy's dad's head. Maybe it might help.

    • nah not a pedo just a pimp. she's a ho though

  • You have a lot going on!

    He must be a good guy if he didn't run to the door once he found out, so if you guys can get through that bump, there's no telling whats next.

    It'll blow over. They can't keep talking about the same thing forever.

  • You can come clean with him and ask him to find another job elsewhere.

Most Helpful Guys

  • If you explained it to him the way you just explained it on here, your boyfriend should be mature enough to realize this was something that happened years ago, when you were young & naive.

    I get why he'd be angry about the current situation though, having to deal with a boss that's shitty on multiple levels. How good/stable is this job situation... would it be tough to walk away from and transition to something else?

  • Your guy needs to get over it. It happened a long time ago, long before you got together and things that happened before you got together don't "count."

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  • I'd leave you and kick that guy's ass. Your relationship isn't going to work and it's just a matter of time. There are consequences for bad decisions.

  • What's the name of the book?

    • I know. This sounds a bit off but I'll give it the benefit of the doubt. Troll or slut -- either way it's not looking good. Ha!

  • haha it's all about spreading the genes

  • Just tell your boyfriend that you love him, and regret joining in with the other girls who gave in to his illegal demands.
    You could still get your boyfriends boss into very serious trouble with the law if he becomes a nuisance. He could be prosecuted as a sex offender for making 11 year old girls give him blow jobs.

  • Omg what kinda show is this I really wanna see that show really really bad lol 😆

  • you should break up and he should find another job.

    • id leave you immediately.

    • also boss is not an assholes he's a guy but you are a gutter slut

  • Sounds like a setup to an erotic story I've read on xhamster. I think you should convince your his boss to take it easy on him by doing anything it takes ;)

  • "As a couple we'll get over it." You'll get over it.

  • my advice your boyfriend should quit
    if he's treated bad, no point in dealing with the past

  • Send in a complaint saying the manager was making very disturbing remarks about a patron. The dad is gonna have to relocate him or something.

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