How likely is it that you can "forget to pull out"?

I told him at the beginning that he should pull out even though I'm on bc. He still came inside me and then just said "oops I forgot" as excuse. Was he just an asshole and did it because he knew he won't see me again or is this actually a thing?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • just like you aren't paying attention during the moment, the guy can and will hae the same thing happen a lot of the time

    it takes true discipline and deep commitment to tell your body shut up and listen to your brain when you're enjoying that

    and you know what? hormones command us to make babies it's what part of being alive means, we need to procreate.

    any time you have sex there's a risk both o you will say fuck it just lets do it
    thats just nature doing its job, you;re totally normal

    now SOME people DO purposely not give a shit
    you have to know his character to know if thats not true

  • It's not about "forgetting" but really more about self control. Sort of like eating an amazing dessert and on the last bite intentionally letting half of the last bite fall out of your mouth. You don't forget that... it just happens, but is obviously bad form.

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  • No it's not.

    Everyone I've been with were fully aware and they also really didn't want children or the risk.

    The only people who do that are people who want to fulfil their selfish needs and those who aren't emotionally ready (and therefore being selfish)

  • Guys don't just forget. He was selfish and knew you were on birth control so he did what he wanted. If you want a guy to pull out, tell him you're not on the pill. That'll be incentive enough for him to spurt elsewhere.

    • hmm okay lol. but the risk that he won't fuck me at all is quite high then

    • Not always. Just because you say you aren't on it, guys will still spurt where feels best because "ha not my body, I can walk away and never be found, not my problem"

    • In my experience, most guys will still do it. A horny male will risk it and spurt on your stomach.

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  • There is no excuse for it. If you say you will pull out, you can do it. To not do so is lazy or worse. I would say that in future don't trust a man with this until you know that he is more trustworthy in general.

  • Asshole

  • I forget a lot when my girlfriend tells me to pull out. Just a habit of not pulling out, I forget even when she tells me in the beginning. Honest answer

  • I highly doubt he forgot at all. I do think that he got carried away.

  • you have to be kind of retarded not to notice it coming.

    • not paying that much attention to such details while I get the shit fucked out of me

    • I bet you like it a lot, dirty girl... lol

  • It was too good to pull out huh sorry I guess

  • He is an assailed. dump him and find some else

    • can't dump, it was just a one night stand

    • Good don't go back to him. Suggest you find someone who you can trust

  • He knew what he was doing.

  • We don't forget we just give in to the enormous pleasure of the moment.

  • Smells like bullshit to me.

  • Being an asshole, it feels great but not great enough to forget what you're doing

  • I never forget to pull out

  • It feels good and maybe he was feeling like a rebel lol. It could have been an accident sometimes as a guy if a girl starts moaning or grinding or doing something when your close to cumming that sends us over the edge.

  • well if you´re stupid enough to use pull out, that´s what you get. i mean you can not be used to it and simple get caught up in the action.

  • Just an asshole

  • I dont think it is a matter of forgetting. The urge to stay in is great and to stay in as deeply as a guy can.

  • probably being selfish

  • You don't forget. It's pretty important

  • A guy doesn't forget. He just wanted to ejaculate inside of you because some guys feels like they been cheated of pleasure if they don't do it inside of a girl. He should of felt lucky enough to have had sex with you in the first place and pulled out early and ejaculated on your body instead of in it to show you respect.

  • Cumming in the woman completes the sex act. Anything less is pointless.

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