Please help!!! I heard my older sister having sex next door?

So my family is moving, and my sisters boyfriend came over to help unpack, they PDA a lot and it grosses me out so much I told them not to do it so close to me and they ignored me and her boyfriend didn't listen to me. Today our parents left the house to take care of some things and left me my sister and her boyfriend alone they are both 17I didn't suspect anything weird, I just didn't want to hear any kissing noises next door. I did, it was bareable I put my ear buds on. Later I hear... moaning...(realistic quiet moaning) and obvious humping , you know the pounding noise. I realized what they were doing and got really grossed out and left the house. My sister is having sex this close around me. The thought is nasty. An its disrespectful for me that her boyfriend would do that. I texted her if they are having sex then to be quiet next time. Then they claimed they were joking. It was an obvious lie I just knew it. I heard her moaning the other day in there but I walked away and thought it was all in my head. It wasn't. She confirmed the moaning from the other day, and said"they were joking with me but I didn't notice" ... are they really? I already told them thePDA around me is gross an they should know not to fake sex around me if they were really faking it. That's disrespectful for me. Either way I'm still pretty upset and I don't ever want to talk to he boyfriend again, he said I was a sister to him. Now I see him as a guy who could get her pregnant , a lot of girls at her school are. he's like every othet guy. Am I Bad for being upset at her and her boyfriend, especially her bf?
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WHAT? SO I HAVE TO SIT AROUD AND LISTEN TO A COUPLE HAVE SEX? Try and hear me out please, that's my sister
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  • Okay so your sister is lying. She was definitely having sex and think you're stupid enough to believe her totally unconvincing lie.

    I would be upset too. Its different if its your neighbors or something but its disgusting to hear your relatives having sex. Anyone who would enjoy hearing that has issues.

    I know its gross but you just have to get over it. There's nothing you can do about it lol. Try not to think about it anymore. If you hear it again, put on some headphones, or go outside for some fresh air for a bit or leave. That's what I do when I hear my roommate and her boyfriend have sex.

    Its sad that people don't have the decency to keep it down but like I said, there's nothing you can do about that. Hopefully your sister is embarrassed enough to keep it down or not have sex when you're home. If she wouldn't do it with her parents home, she shouldn't do it when you're home.

  • Jezus you're overreacting. They're just having sex what every person of a certain age does in a relationship. It's not like they're directly bothering you. She can't help it her room is next to yours. You can always, you know, walk away or something? Go sit in the living room instead and watch a movie. Why making such a big problem about it?

    • She can have sex somewhere else. Not where I can hear that shit

    • Where exactly? It's her house as well and I think you and the rest of the house won't exactly like it if she would do it in the living room.

  • You have every right to be irritated. They're clearly disrespecting your feelings. My boyfriend tires to convince me to get into it when others are home and I absolutely refuse to. I've been in that awkward situation of listening to someone else get it on. Nor would I want anyone to listen to ME doing the nasty, it's embarrassing.

  • No big deal really, they're obviously having sex, just let them be, it is really none of your business, if it annoys you so much just put on your headphones, and if you're so worried she might get pregnant give her a package of condoms next time or for her birthday if it's any time soon

    • If its none of my business then why does it have to be next door to me? Just disgusting

    • Maybe because her room is next to yours? You should hate the architect of your house too

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  • I can see why it's bothering you, but at least it isn't your parents, maybe your sister and her boyfriend didn't have other place to do it in, and they are okey with you knowing it as long as your parents don't knowing it. How you know about PDA, realistic moaning and pounding noise? you are not so naive yourself. If he would get her pregnant, then maybe you are going to be aunt, but it's likely that they use contraceptive methods, so don't worry about it too much, also there is a chance that it's about disrespect, and that you jealous that your sister already have boyfriend, while you not. :)

  • Sounds like everything people do is disrespectful to you.
    People who are in relationships have sex. It's natural and normal. Don't take yourself so important. They just wanted to have some fun. Your sister also pees and poops and sweats and when she has her period, blood is coming out of her... it's called being alive. If a bit of moaning is offensive and gross to you, maybe check your own standards before freaking out on others. Cuz the normal reaction would be to be happy for her and think "that's nice she's having a good time".

    • I told her to stop PDA around me, they disrespected me. Hello?

    • And plus I don't wanna think about my sister having a good time in that way. Now when I loose my virginity someday I'm gonna be thinking about that. BAM ruined it for me. she's ruining everything for me. I don't even want to date anymore

    • Why should they stop. If it bothers you that much, just look away. Or just go live in a monastery. It's freaking kissing. It's not like they pooped on the floor in front of you and smeared their poop in your face (cuz that's how you're acting about it).

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  • I'd be upset as well. They're dumb an naïve. I'm the same way, it grosses me out so much that I physically feel sick.

  • You should only be mad at the boyfriend for doing that TO her. Your sister played no part in the mutual act of fucking, and it's not like the whole thing took place on her turf.

    He definitely carries 100% of the blame here. The people who have all of the agency in the world are such jerks.

  • get good earphones.

  • Omg tell her. I bet she would be blushing if you told her of the loud noises

    • She claimes it was a joke that they were just "fucking" with me apparently

    • Threaten her that you would record them with your phone and play it out loud. Embarass her😇

    • Hehe your so clever XD

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  • Yes you are. It's their descision to have sex, not yours. If they're using protection, then they're being responsible. At least they're not having unsafe sex with strangers

  • I dont see the big deal.

    They were in her room and you were in yours.

    You might be a little young to be exposed to that kind of thing, but I mean they are in a relationship..

  • You and your sister are doing what they want in their living space, you're gonna have to just deal. The world doesn't revolve around you.

    • Their living space? I live there too!!! He doesn't live there.

    • Asking someone to have sex in their own room is a ridiculous request, if I was your sister I'd tell u tl fuck off.

  • They can have sex if they want to but they also have to be mindful to how you feel about it, if she's being a total jerk about it all or her boyfriend, then audio record them and use it as leverage saying if they dont keep quiter when your around then everyones hearing the video, it sounds mean but they should also respect the idea of being quieter. Yes they have the right to have sex but also need to be responsible about it at the same time.

  • You should tell you parents about it and it is totally normal to be upset about something like that.

  • I agree with you. That is grossly disrespectful. And the way her boyfriend, is acting shows he has no respect for your sister and you. I will limited the contact when around them. Have little to say and when they are doing their thing next door u go some where to occupy yourself from harm,. If your sister won't listen she will learn the, hard, way. Her boyfriend, is, only using her for sex. So sad

  • Me and bro (actual sibling) share and an apartment. When he's waxing something or me. We cheer each other. Thats not weird is it?

  • Yes you are. What your sister does with her life is not your business.

  • you'll get over it and understand as you grow older.

  • they r not doing good for u , u should talk to parents or try stopping them when they about to do next time

  • I know they doing bad to you, but you have to understand they living their life, if they fucking you have no rights to say anything, you can talk to your sister later on about it but why you upset with his bf? your own sister not mind fucking in front of you, why the guy care about it? you should not be so much disgusted with this matter, life of youth is goes like that.

  • Yea your over reacting a lot. Your last couple sentences says why your afraid he's going get her preg and leave her or ruin her life. You should jus make sure she's being safe donut doesn't happen.

  • i agree that's pretty nasty. i wouldn't want my family members hearing me have sex. that's weird