Is sleeping with your brothers girlfriend the ultimate conquest?

[Anonymous]

How do I put this? I was at my boyfriends house last week and his younger brother was there as well. We were talking and then he kissed me and I kinda let him. So I told my boyfriend and understandably he was upset. We haven't been talking much since. But he called me this week. They both did actually. His brother, to ask for a date and my boyfriend to tell me what a player his brother is. He said "Do you really think this is about you? It's not, he's a player and your older brothers girlfriend, that's the ultimate conquest " And I thought that was an odd thing to say, isn't it. I get why guys think of threesome as some kind of accomplishment, but being with your brothers girlfriend, that just seems wrong. Is that really a thing? Why would you want to hurt your brother like that?

[JRICHARDS1996]

Younger brothers naturally try to usurp or outperform their older brothers but to no avail, since the oldest is generally always the best. But as for specifically going for each other's girls, that is not normal. They may compete over who can get more girls, but very few would actually try to steal the other one's girl away from each other. Suffice to say, the brotherly bond is really not that strong. If my younger brother even tried something like that he would be out of my life for good, and I would put him in his place once and for all.

[Psi_Unknown]

I don't think so. Maybe they are not really that close. I can see why your boyfriend would not be talking to you. Maybe there was no intention to hurt a brother like that; sometimes people aren't thinking straight. Did he even know you were his brother's girlfriend?

[Asker]

Ya he knew, we met before.

[Psi_Unknown]

Well, you would know! Anyway, yes, there are probably hundreds of thousands or who knows how many people who meet. Hard to keep them all straight sometimes in my opinion!

[Asker]

Well if he didn't know, a more appropriate reaction would have been "what the hell are you doing in my house? "

[Psi_Unknown]

That is true, you did state that, getting kind of tired now. Who are you would probably be more appropriate, but yes, I get the idea. Anyway, you said you kind of let him? (I am not too familiar with brother rivalries, strained relationships, or "conquests" as you put it.)

[Goldie757]

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Most guys would see that as crossing the line.

[HeresJames1]

No that's weird, even for a "player". I understand fucking a guys wife, it's a challenge and taboo, but fucking your brothers girlfriend? No that's not an accomplishment that's just a dude with no boundaries.

[Asker]

what is so different about sleeping with someone's wife? How is that an accomplishment but your brothers girlfriend isn't?

[HeresJames1]

Because you've grown up your whole life with your brother and you've lived together, but chances are you don't know/hang out with/live with the married guy so he's more of an obstacle instead of an actual person in your life.

[Jayded1]

What the hell is wrong with people? Honestly you all deserve each other, all 3 of you are fucked. And yes, he only wants you to get at his brother. the fact you kissed him and even consider this shows you are just as bad.

[Asker]

What exactly am I considering?

[GreatnessRevamped]

It's not about you, brother wanted to know if he could "conquer" his brother (your bf), via his choice of women.
It's a competition thing between brothers, you have nothing to do with this.
Suffice it to say, your relationship with either is over.
Neither is going to destroy their brotherly bond over you.

[GreatnessRevamped]

Plus, you are not really trustworthy.

[JRICHARDS1996]

The younger brother already destroyed the bond in the process of attempting such treachery.

[GreatnessRevamped]

@JRICHARDS1996 Yeah, well, blood is thicker. Even after all that, most people will still be there for their family in times of need.

[Deadpool7699]

It is pretty much the best revenge you can get against an older brother

Example///

Older: You're so fucking ugly
Younger: yeah, you're girlfriend didn't seem to think so

XD

[Anonymous]

They see it as more of a challenge when she is already taken and the fact she is dating his brother makes it more dangerous like forbidden fruit. He was willing to hurt his brother because he valued lust over loyalty but you are just as bad as his brother so don't try to pretend otherwise.

[Asker]

I wasn't pretending, I know I'm guilty as well. But ... he started it. It wouldn't have occurred to me to kiss his brother