Guys, what is so appealing about having anal sex with a girl?

I have never understood the fascination with anal when there is a perfectly good vagina right there for that exact purpose of sex! I have never done it and i never want to cause the idea creeps me out.. It would hurt, be uncomfortable and in my opinion its exit only! So help me out, what is it that appeals some of you to the idea of anal sex?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • okay... first of all

    the desire to have anal / oral does not relate to the idea that your pussy isn't good enough. it might be that the guy wants to try out different sensations. It is good that he told you, because otherwise he might be finding it somewhere else.

    It would be extremely pleasurable and comfortable if you use enough lube and patience... and use the right lube too!

    What appeals to us... hmmm... the naughty side of it? the idea that we're able to access all possible entries to our loved ones? (guys tend to think of their girlfriend as their possession... correct me if I'm wrong.)

  • I find no appeal in anal whatsoever, so I can at least say "nah, not some guys!"

    but you should also ask girls who like receiving "what do you like it?"
    because some girls love taking it that way (and to paraphrase you, I don't know why when there is a perfectly good vagina right there).

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's just different?
    I don't know. Exploring each other bodies, loving and enjoying every part is amazing.
    A little freaky too :p

    Also, guys wanna put it in every hole and some girls want it in every hole

  • No clue, but all I've heard is guys wanting to try it. But totally agree with you that it would hurt and something I'd never do.

  • I let my guy do it and loved it. I would let him do it again. It's naughty and sexy.

    • your a dream girlfriend

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  • I wonder the same thing and this os the conclusion that I've came to, it's because "they're secretly gay and just don't know it" if ya ask me LOL

    #ShittyDick

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  • Lots of dude just wanna stick it wherever they can. Simple as that.

  • I agree with you 100%. No appeal for me but from what I hear from guys, it's really tight, therefore feels even better. The risk for disease is like a million times more but that doesn't seem to matter? lol

  • I guess it all just really depends on what you're into or what your fetishes are. Some guys like it because well, they're a butt kinda guy. They like butts. Some like it because perhaps it feels like they're different from most couples. Maybe they feel special and like they aren't following the crowd. :P

  • LOL, "there is a perfectly good vagina right there" but you're not wrong.

  • It's super tight!

  • it feels real tight and EXTREMELY good, you should try it after a little the pain goes away and it feels good. (according to my girlfriend of 2.5 years that we do this with eachother) (i took her virginity)

  • I myself find anal revolting

  • Its not appealing at all for me.

  • Agreed! It doesn't make sense to me either.

  • No risk of pregnancy and it's claiming her

  • It is a turn on.. another form of sexual contact. Feels great, and many women are into it too... so if they want it, then it is a win for both.

  • Some girls want it bad... I give them what they want... It is a control thing for guys,, they just want to have you do it because you will do what they want whether you like it or not...

  • It's tighter which gives a different sensation

  • I could go into full depth but i'd sound perverted XD. I guess I'll just tell you it's a sensation that we as guys pretty much would kill for

  • the fact its tight and the fact you know its a dirty act... i would much rather stick it in her ass than her vagina

  • I guess because it's taboo. Curiosity and facination of that which is forbidden. It's tighter that the vaginal opening so that feels better on the penis, the scent is appealing to some of us, simply because it's supposed to be foul smelling but the sexual arrousal during the time you smell it cause you to relate the scent to pleasure... Weird, I know.. I love anal and playing in her anus etc.

  • Some women do like anal. It's just a preference. Just another way to have sex.

  • Pussy is tight around the head. Anal is tight around the head and shaft so it's a different feeling. And it's taboo.

    • thats actually one of then better desriptions I've heard. Thanks.

  • if you want to have anal with someone, its up to you. some women do not like anal, and some do. some women will enjoy it. because of two things, one, your boyfriend will beg you, to give you anal and some women like it anal, too.

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